Infidelity & MFP - What Gives?

BOOMaggedon

We are almost to the proverbial....



TRAINWRECK!!!

sizzle74

I came to MFP to do two things lose some weight and judge people's personal lives, and I'm almost out of weight to lose

~Hands you a donut~

BikerGirlElaine

I'm in a relationship for a while now that I think qualifies as a marriage. I don't do anything that I wouldn't tell my old man about. But you might be surprised what I tell my old man about!

And I could not care less what other people do, that's their business.

crista_b

For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?

But OP has no need to get involved in someone else's relationship. For all we know, the SOs to the people that are being referred to know what happens and have a mutual understanding of how their relationship works.

Bottom line: Not your relationship, not your place to talk.

Iron_Maiden

For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?

Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.

PaleoChocolateBear

I came to MFP to do two things lose some weight and judge people's personal lives, and I'm almost out of weight to lose

~Hands you a donut~

Is it a hot Krispy Kreme doughnut?

sizzle74

This thread is making me horny.

You're welcome

Don't feel too special. Everything makes me horny.

I like you. :flowerforyou:

Let's make out.

ChristinaR720

Does posting on the food porn threads count as cheating?

Iron_Maiden

For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?

But OP has no need to get involved in someone else's relationship. For all we know, the SOs to the people that are being referred to know what happens and have a mutual understanding of how their relationship works.

Bottom line: Not your relationship, not your place to talk.

yay! You're still here!

__stacyb

In the time it took for this thread to get to 5 pages, I've sent 10 junk shots. Just sayin.

now I feel left out...

PaleoChocolateBear

Does posting on the food porn threads count as cheating?

Depends on if your diet knows about it

crista_b

For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?

Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.

If they involved you and asked for your opinion, then you need to speak with them privately. By bringing it to a public forum, you're involving other people that should not be involved.

sizzle74

I came to MFP to do two things lose some weight and judge people's personal lives, and I'm almost out of weight to lose

~Hands you a donut~

Is it a hot Krispy Kreme doughnut?

But of course love!

BikerGirlElaine

For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?

Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.

Ah. Tell them not to talk to you about it. Problem solved.

iclaudia_g

I cant say that I've seen infidelity in the forums/among my friends (but I also dont normally peruse this "chit-chat" forum because I dont find most of the topics beneficial to my weight loss journey). With that being said, I respect my husband and our marriage so I dont entertain ANY conversations that (1) I wouldnt want him to have with other women and (2) that I would NOT have in his presence.

Best response!

Trust me anywhere that people gather in large groups, be it virtual or real, there is going to be someone that pushing the line. It's a matter of personal choices and what you find acceptable no matter the peer pressure. I was in the Army and trust me - when SOME people get away from their spouses, they become different people, some not all.

PaleoChocolateBear

I came to MFP to do two things lose some weight and judge people's personal lives, and I'm almost out of weight to lose

~Hands you a donut~

Is it a hot Krispy Kreme doughnut?

But of course love!

Then I'll need 12

Iron_Maiden

Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.
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Ah. Tell them not to talk to you about it. Problem solved.
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....next move. BELIEVE ME! xo

sizzle74

I came to MFP to do two things lose some weight and judge people's personal lives, and I'm almost out of weight to lose

~Hands you a donut~

Is it a hot Krispy Kreme doughnut?

But of course love!

Then I'll need 12

Yah! That will keep you here awhile!!!!

ChristinaR720

Does posting on the food porn threads count as cheating?

Depends on if your diet knows about it

Well, *kitten*...I'm screwed, then.

InnerConflict

In the time it took for this thread to get to 5 pages, I've sent 10 junk shots. Just sayin.

now I feel left out...

I can send you one if you want