Infidelity & MFP - What Gives?

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  • SmartWhatever
    SmartWhatever Posts: 718 Member
    People are horny. What can you do??
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Does posting on the food porn threads count as cheating?

    Hhahaha! Clever Rabbit.
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
    To be honest, I consider Facebook a much bigger influence on people than a site like this. Much higher chance of "actual" contact happening, as well as all the "dating" sites out there. I consider this site a good reference, and some much needed "comic relief" in my life.

    Ok...I'm out. Gotta run, me and the wife going away for the weekend for my 40th birthday! I'll try to make sure I don't accidently fall into an "on the road" affair if I decide to log into MFP....
  • Iron_Maiden
    Iron_Maiden Posts: 326 Member
    People are horny. What can you do??
    Watch them get angry at a fairly simple question, I guess?
  • denisegetskinny
    denisegetskinny Posts: 21 Member
    nobody has flirted with me!!!
  • Calliope610
    Calliope610 Posts: 3,783 Member
    My wife is on my friends list!

    You think banter on a website constitutes what exactly??????
    Nope, not talking about banter. Talking about the half dozen examples in my time here I know about in which they PM'd all night, propositioned one another, spouses didn't know they were on here, lead to phone calls, KIK, sexting, etc....

    WOW - infidelity is running rampant on MFP. Six (yes, 6) cases of infidelity in almost a year, with 100's of 1000's of active MFP members. Someone outta shut this cesspool of immorality down!
    Somebody needs a math lesson......ONE person x 12 cases
  • mrjasper25
    mrjasper25 Posts: 29
    Im sending the private jet for jezebelgirl!!! She is amazing ;)
  • maiaroman18
    maiaroman18 Posts: 460 Member
    nobody has flirted with me!!!
    Come sit by me. I bite... if you're into that.

    Oh, and I see more girl on girl action than anything around here.
  • marionmmm
    marionmmm Posts: 61
    nobody has flirted with me!!!

    wink wink... but must warn you I am a girl... so thank goodness if you are not single, it really wont be cheating... nice...
  • gracielynn1011
    gracielynn1011 Posts: 726 Member
    I've thought the same thing. I won't participate in those threads. If I open something that seems innocent, that I feel was more than it should be, I close it without responding. I leave my MFP open on my phone all the time. I won't put anything on here that I wouldn't want my hubby to see, because it's disrespectful to him and to our relationship. I may be getting my sexy back, but all the attention with it goes to him, not strangers on the internet.
  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
    People are horny. What can you do??
    Watch them get angry at a fairly simple question, I guess?
    Not sure where you're seeing anger. I see judgement by you, sarcastic and funny comments and joke flirting, and some people pointing out that there's no reason to be bothered by someone else's relationship.
  • iulia_maddie
    iulia_maddie Posts: 2,780 Member
    I respect relationships. I fully understand that if I sleep with a man, I must sleep with his wife too. And the other way around.
  • Iron_Maiden
    Iron_Maiden Posts: 326 Member
    I've thought the same thing. I won't participate in those threads. If I open something that seems innocent, that I feel was more than it should be, I close it without responding. I leave my MFP open on my phone all the time. I won't put anything on here that I wouldn't want my hubby to see, because it's disrespectful to him and to our relationship. I may be getting my sexy back, but all the attention with it goes to him, not strangers on the internet.
    :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    My marriage is really none of your business. You couldn't handle the way we do it anyway.

    My husband is not home...

    Can we bang?
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    I respect relationships. I fully understand that if I sleep with a man, I must sleep with his wife too. And the other way around.


    LIES... you only slept with my husband and made me video tape it!
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    nobody has flirted with me!!!
    Come sit by me. I bite... if you're into that.

    Oh, and I see more girl on girl action than anything around here.

    Wrap those shoes around my neck!
  • MNA76
    MNA76 Posts: 1,541
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  • eamartin
    eamartin Posts: 216 Member
    My wife is on my friends list!

    You think banter on a website constitutes what exactly??????
    Nope, not talking about banter. Talking about the half dozen examples in my time here I know about in which they PM'd all night, propositioned one another, spouses didn't know they were on here, lead to phone calls, KIK, sexting, etc....

    Just wondering if that made you the 3rd wheel during those examples?
  • PomegranatePriestess
    PomegranatePriestess Posts: 2,455 Member
    Am I the only one who feels this is a little off the rails of what marriage should look like?

    Thanks,
    Becky

    You know the answer to that already, right? That there will be a good number of people here who will chime in and agree with you, and a metric * * * * ton of people who will disagree and have a field day with this topic? So if it's a rhetorical question, what's your point? You think you're outing people with this thread?

    Whether you're here for the pat on the back or the battle royale (or both), congrats on a popular thread.

    I enjoy both full disclosure and trust with my husband, and he's the only one I would answer to regarding this topic. Other people's relationships are not my responsibility or my problem. You may wish to adopt the same attitude. Trust me, you'll be a happier person for it.
  • iulia_maddie
    iulia_maddie Posts: 2,780 Member
    I respect relationships. I fully understand that if I sleep with a man, I must sleep with his wife too. And the other way around.


    LIES... you only slept with my husband and made me video tape it!

    It's your turn tonight babe!
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    A lot of what you see is probably a bunch of friends goofing around with full disclosure to their SO, and shouldn't be taken so seriously. There probably are people who cross the line but I'd bet that's the exception, not the rule.

    QFT
  • PomegranatePriestess
    PomegranatePriestess Posts: 2,455 Member
    I respect relationships. I fully understand that if I sleep with a man, I must sleep with his wife too. And the other way around.

    How YOU doin'?
  • tmauck4472
    tmauck4472 Posts: 1,785 Member
    Other people's marriage should not affect you. To each his own, just as others way of dieting shouldn't affect anyone else on here. Worry about what you do and let others worry about what they do. Give advice when asked (on any topic) and move on.
  • maiaroman18
    maiaroman18 Posts: 460 Member
    nobody has flirted with me!!!
    Come sit by me. I bite... if you're into that.

    Oh, and I see more girl on girl action than anything around here.

    Wrap those shoes around my neck!
    Oh baby, I will. I got me some long legs... from being 69" tall and all. And yes, your husband can videotape.
  • Iron_Maiden
    Iron_Maiden Posts: 326 Member
    My wife is on my friends list!

    You think banter on a website constitutes what exactly??????
    Nope, not talking about banter. Talking about the half dozen examples in my time here I know about in which they PM'd all night, propositioned one another, spouses didn't know they were on here, lead to phone calls, KIK, sexting, etc....

    Just wondering if that made you the 3rd wheel during those examples?
    Nah, just a friend trying to listen.
  • cutchro
    cutchro Posts: 396 Member
    I cant say that I've seen infidelity in the forums/among my friends (but I also dont normally peruse this "chit-chat" forum because I dont find most of the topics beneficial to my weight loss journey). With that being said, I respect my husband and our marriage so I dont entertain ANY conversations that (1) I wouldnt want him to have with other women and (2) that I would NOT have in his presence.

    This^^^ If ya gotta hide it it is cheating...
  • Increditim
    Increditim Posts: 159
    I respect relationships. I fully understand that if I sleep with a man, I must sleep with his wife too. And the other way around.


    LIES... you only slept with my husband and made me video tape it!

    It's your turn tonight babe!

    Her hus is busy tonight - I'll tape it...
  • kdaxon
    kdaxon Posts: 340 Member
    :drinker:
  • theCarlton
    theCarlton Posts: 1,344 Member
    If flirting on MFP is what brings down your marriage, it isn't strong enough anyway.
  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
    Im sending the private jet for jezebelgirl!!! She is amazing ;)

    I love you man!!!!
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