Infidelity & MFP - What Gives?

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  • sunman00
    sunman00 Posts: 872 Member
    My marriage is really none of your business. You couldn't handle the way we do it anyway.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    I've heard that as long as the girl still has her panties on, it isn't cheating...so you can do pretty much anything, as long as the panties stay on and it's not cheating...you can move them around and whatever...the important thing is that they stay on, then you're ok...
  • johnnyzerocool
    johnnyzerocool Posts: 5
    Great thread!

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  • monipie
    monipie Posts: 280 Member
    You said something that's going to hit a little too close to home for a lot of people.

    Expect them to react poorly.

    Doesn't mean you're wrong.

    totally agree!
  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
    Has anyone ever told you that you resemble Eva Green? Would bang.
    Aww. Thanks! :blushing: :flowerforyou:

    I've gotten that once on here before. Had never heard of her before that though. :laugh:
  • TX_Thundercat
    TX_Thundercat Posts: 2,437 Member
    I don't understand how chatting online is infidelity? We're just trying to have fun and joke around with our online buddies. Losing weight is hard, we could all use a laugh!
    Not what I'm referring to.....but....oh, forget it. Meh

    I'm sorry I had KIK sex with your husband. Can't we just move forward now??

    Can you have KIK sex with mine? You know for like a night off and stuff.

    No problem. I am here to help. :flowerforyou:

    I :heart: you for freeing up some time for me. Now to find someone on MFP to flirt and sext with.
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    TX you're such a *kitten*!

    Right, and he acts like we haven't had real life sex instead of sexting. You can come over today my hubby is gone.

    Jezzy you are so right!

    Amy, I just finished my second stop, grabbing a Gatorade and then I'm on my way...
    Stopping by my place later? :flowerforyou:

    Of course, I have your order right here.
  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
    I am here to loose 45 lbs.

    16 to go.

    When you hit your goal I will bang you.
    Oh sweet Mother of Mary! We get it!! You're a *kitten*!! zzzzzzzzzzzz
    Someone's jealous that jezebel gets it in.
    Has anyone ever told you that you resemble Eva Green? Would bang.

    Me first! Then you can have her........
  • brower47
    brower47 Posts: 16,356 Member
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  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
    I am here to loose 45 lbs.

    16 to go.

    When you hit your goal I will bang you.
    Oh sweet Mother of Mary! We get it!! You're a *kitten*!! zzzzzzzzzzzz
    Someone's jealous that jezebel gets it in.
    Has anyone ever told you that you resemble Eva Green? Would bang.

    Me first! Then you can have her........
    Oh you lovely ladies. We can share.
  • InnerConflict
    InnerConflict Posts: 1,592 Member
    Call me old-fashioned, but I think it is inappropriate to put your feet on your desk.

    Yet she still has them there. Not being able to control internet behavior is driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Yeah....not taking orders from gingerbread men, sorry.

    I didn't order you to do anything. Just giving my opinion on your inappropriate behavior. Some of us believe in the sanctity of office furniture.
  • CantStopWontStop92
    CantStopWontStop92 Posts: 165 Member
    gosh you people make me sad for the future...
  • marionmmm
    marionmmm Posts: 61
    c'mon.... ok I want KIK sex with the single guy good timezzzzzzz and the smokin hot cowboy... and Eva... and the headless hottie... probably would the OP, but those shoes are just awful...

    Now, can you tell me what we are in for? what in the world is KIK???
  • mycupyourcake
    mycupyourcake Posts: 279 Member
    Seriously, do you spend time making notes about who you think is "flirting" and checking their profiles to see if they are married? Don't you have more important things to do? What gives?
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    I've heard that as long as the girl still has her panties on, it isn't cheating...so you can do pretty much anything, as long as the panties stay on and it's not cheating...you can move them around and whatever...the important thing is that they stay on, then you're ok...

    I like you. You come stand by me.
  • Iron_Maiden
    Iron_Maiden Posts: 326 Member
    Seriously, do you spend time making notes about who you think is "flirting" and checking their profiles to see if they are married? Don't you have more important things to do? What gives?
    is that really the message you received? Oh wow you....yeah....ummmm....no I don't.
  • PomegranatePriestess
    PomegranatePriestess Posts: 2,455 Member
    gosh you people make me sad for the future...

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  • weese17
    weese17 Posts: 236 Member
    Perhaps your definition of infidelity differs to that of other people's?

    Other relationships understand harmless flirting doesn't always lead to rolling around in the bed sheets.

    Yep. My husband is an incorrigible flirt on here, but it's NBD. I encourage him, actually. ;)
  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
    c'mon.... ok I want KIK sex with the single guy good timezzzzzzz and the smokin hot cowboy... and Eva... and the headless hottie... probably would the OP, but those shoes are just awful...

    Now, can you tell me what we are in for? what in the world is KIK???

    Best post ever. (thank you for mentioning the shoes. I am such a nice butter face *kitten* I couldn't bring myself to say anything)
  • brower47
    brower47 Posts: 16,356 Member
    For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

    Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

    Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?
    Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.


    So the point of this post was to say, "Infidelity is bad". Got it.

    I'm going to post a thread that says, "murder is bad", or "drugs are bad m'kay"

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  • LuHox
    LuHox Posts: 136
    Some seems to cross the line - and I agree there have been things on here that I know stem from people who have been overweight and underappreciated for a long time. Eventually they will get their self-confidence back and as they thin down and hopefully with that some self-respect.
    Unfortunately a lot of people who are overweight don't have self- respect because of the way they are treated by society and when they get thinner tend to act very wildly because now they are more interesting to the opposite sex (or same sex for that matter). I am older than a lot of the MFP membership so I speak from experience. I have seen this among friends and co-workers for decades. I think it is just what I hope to be part of the healing process.
    The downside is that it can also end up defeating the second part of the healing. Acting wild and crazy can stunt the gaining of self-respect and lead to a lifestyle where they may even end up gaining all the weight back because of the lack of self-respect.
    I know no one will listen to me - but I am going to say it anyway - get thin, get healthy and treat your body with the respect it deserves by not only the food you eat and the exercise you get but also in your relationships or lack there of. You don't want to be a number, you don't want to be a notch on someone's belt. You want to be cherished and you are deserving of being cherished for the wonderful beautiful people you are.

    Great post with a good point and insight.
    I think it's much easier to deal with if you learn to love and respect yourself before losing a great deal of weight.
  • Iron_Maiden
    Iron_Maiden Posts: 326 Member
    gosh you people make me sad for the future...
    Don't be! This is not a fair representation of what your future could hold. It is; however, a fairly solid example of what I was referring to in my original statement.
  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
    For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

    Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

    Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?
    Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.


    So the point of this post was to say, "Infidelity is bad". Got it.

    I'm going to post a thread that says, "murder is bad", or "drugs are bad m'kay"

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  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    I think there is more girl on girl action here than anything. And everyone knows that isn't cheating.
  • InnerConflict
    InnerConflict Posts: 1,592 Member
    Perhaps your definition of infidelity differs to that of other people's?

    Other relationships understand harmless flirting doesn't always lead to rolling around in the bed sheets.

    Yep. My husband is an incorrigible flirt on here, but it's NBD. I encourage him, actually. ;)

    Does he encourage you to do the same? :wink:
  • kdaxon
    kdaxon Posts: 340 Member
    write this down..well over 90% of all marriages are a titanic disaster:) happy friday..damnnnnn it feels GREAT to be single!!



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  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    I think there is more girl on girl action here than anything. And everyone knows that isn't cheating.
    Thank you. You are correct. That's just an awesome time!
  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
    I think there is more girl on girl action here than anything. And everyone knows that isn't cheating.
    Yep. It's just fun for all.
  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
    I think there is more girl on girl action here than anything. And everyone knows that isn't cheating.
    Thank you. You are correct. That's just an awesome time!
    Beat me to the punch.
  • maiaroman18
    maiaroman18 Posts: 460 Member

    And the infidelity, right?
    How many calories does judging others' personal life burn?

    I'm here for the infidelity as well.
    Apparently, you're in the right place. Troll on...
    :flowerforyou:

    Now all I have to do is fill up my FL with hot, married men with no morals... any takers?
  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
    Call me old-fashioned, but I think it is inappropriate to put your feet on your desk.

    Yet she still has them there. Not being able to control internet behavior is driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Yeah....not taking orders from gingerbread men, sorry.

    I didn't order you to do anything. Just giving my opinion on your inappropriate behavior. Some of us believe in the sanctity of office furniture.

    What about people who sit backwards in chairs? It's a free country Gingerbread dude.
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