guys: what do you find more attractive

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  • AReasor
    AReasor Posts: 355 Member
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    These posts remind me of a quote from Dita Von Teese(slight paraphrasing).

    "You can be the juiciest, most perfect peach in the world. But there is always some one out there who doesn't like peaches".

    Be confident in yourself and the guys will notice.
  • mg6773
    mg6773 Posts: 14
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    if a girl is naturally petite and/or thin i find that attractive. if a girl is naturally more curvy/rounder i find that attractive as well. not sure where im goin with this but anyone who i see at the gym or obviously is trying to better themselves/live a healthy life i like that. also someone mentioned likeing how women look in their workout clothes and id have to agree 100%. i have to resist staring at the gym all the time no one likes a creep haha
  • dautermanm
    dautermanm Posts: 4 Member
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    I've been thin & I've been thicker (currently working to tone it all back up) but I got the most appreciation from the opposite sex when I was tone with thick, athletic muscles...men want someone who keep up with them. Very rarely is a rail-thin chick able to keep up for the duration!
  • stevepierson
    stevepierson Posts: 119
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    Fit and it's not even close. But what difference does my opinion make. Be the woman you want to be, not the woman you think some guy wants you to be. Be you, and the right guy will appreciate you, no matter what form you take.

    Love this.

    The truth!!
  • DonniesGirl69
    DonniesGirl69 Posts: 644 Member
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    I love my curves.....if some guy doesn't appreciate them, his loss. :happy:
  • iWaffle
    iWaffle Posts: 2,208 Member
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    Honestly though I just love a woman with a bit of confidence in her own body. It doesn't have to be perfect as long as they are happy enough to share it :wink:

    Spoken like a true sage. The hottest thing on a woman is her attitude and confidence. Of course it's nice if they're in good shape but do the best with what you have and own it.

    Women, something you might not realize. Pay attention here! The thing that turns most men on when it comes to porn isn't specifically the way the woman looks. The real draw for most men is the idea of an outgoing woman who isn't ashamed of her body and is eager to share it. Don't get me wrong because a pleasant shape is beautiful but attitude trumps everything.
  • TxAngel79
    TxAngel79 Posts: 318 Member
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    I love my curves.....if some guy doesn't appreciate them, his loss. :happy:

    Love this!!! So true!!!
  • chunkydunk714
    chunkydunk714 Posts: 784 Member
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    Im fortunate my boyfriend likes my body the way it is BUT because of these answers is the reason why im so self conscious...regardless of how skinny I am I will always have a bit of cellulite and never a "toned and fit" body type (something I can never get no matter how hard I try) ....so when you say be confident with your own self and body shape...easier said than done when everyone wants a tone and fit girlfriend.
  • bmiller211
    bmiller211 Posts: 222 Member
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    I heard this somewhere recently in regards to stick thin girls..."if I wanted to date a 12 year old boy I would date a 12 year old boy"...stick thin isn't in!!!!!
  • markymarrkk
    markymarrkk Posts: 495 Member
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    as long as they have curves, well proportioned. I have a thing for thick girls but I don't discriminate... I'm an equal opportunity kinda guy.
  • gtfitpal
    gtfitpal Posts: 10 Member
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    Fit. and healthy and feminine. Not ripped or overstuffed/overweight.
  • LifeOnMars_
    LifeOnMars_ Posts: 755 Member
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    I heard this somewhere recently in regards to stick thin girls..."if I wanted to date a 12 year old boy I would date a 12 year old boy"...stick thin isn't in!!!!!

    Rude
  • Espressocycle
    Espressocycle Posts: 2,245 Member
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    I like a girl to be a size 8-12, preferable fit, but chubby is ok too.
  • Tat2dDom624
    Tat2dDom624 Posts: 1,226 Member
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    I'll go with fit. But someone who's curvy and looks like they're in decent shape isn't so bad either.
  • stupidloser
    stupidloser Posts: 300 Member
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    In shape but without the muscle definition. I don't like muscle on my woman. I would feel like I'm dating arnold schwarzzie.
  • jran3
    jran3 Posts: 105 Member
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    that stick thin look or fit?

    explain your answers :D

    Def. NOT stick thin. Would rather have a little fluff than that.
  • NoAdditives
    NoAdditives Posts: 4,251 Member
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    My husband likes an hourglass shape, with a nice, big butt. And boobs. He loves boobs. He does not find stick thin girls attractive at all. He also likes a little bit of softness, so no bulging, overly defined muscles.
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
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    Active, dynamic, full of energy - but above all else happy with herself, full of laughter. Agressive in what she wants in a direct and confident way; this is a real turn on.

    Fit is good, but being your own quirky individual and motivated for everything is tons better.
  • gwduker
    gwduker Posts: 293
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    Spoken like a true sage. The hottest thing on a woman is her attitude and confidence. Of course it's nice if they're in good shape but do the best with what you have and own it.

    Women, something you might not realize. Pay attention here! The thing that turns most men on when it comes to porn isn't specifically the way the woman looks. The real draw for most men is the idea of an outgoing woman who isn't ashamed of her body and is eager to share it. Don't get me wrong because a pleasant shape is beautiful but attitude trumps everything.
    Exactly this. Well said my friend. Your looks may not be a 10, but a great attitude will make you a 12.
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,849 Member
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    I heard this somewhere recently in regards to stick thin girls..."if I wanted to date a 12 year old boy I would date a 12 year old boy"...stick thin isn't in!!!!!

    Pretty sure that's up for debate, y'know considering there is no one preferred body type.

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