guys: what do you find more attractive

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  • DizzyLinds
    DizzyLinds Posts: 856 Member
    For those who think option 'b' isn't realistic - how about this:

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    Anna Meares.

    Multiple World Champion and World Record holder for many track cycling disciplines.

    I would still pick her over option A.

    This lady is very lean but she isn't the same as the option b girl. Obviously her sporting discipline has defined her body shape. Cycling...lean strong muscular legs.
  • peachyxoxoxo
    peachyxoxoxo Posts: 1,178 Member
    At 5'7 my weight has ranged between 114 to 165 over the last few years and I've had guys show interest in me at all different weights. I know seeing other girls who are thin or have particularly fit bodies can seem intimidating from the female perspective. But there are guys who like all body types. Don't strive for something just because you think it's what a guy wants.
  • mndamon
    mndamon Posts: 549 Member
    Fit. I prefer tone and a healthy look. One of the best quotes I'd seen about this said something like "skinny women look great in clothes, fit women look great naked". I think it was the MMA chick in ESPN the body mag come to think of it.
  • Priincess_Natalie
    Priincess_Natalie Posts: 367 Member
    The first one to get naked wins.

    Winner winner chicken dinner!
  • Sonya139
    Sonya139 Posts: 21 Member
    Fit and it's not even close. But what difference does my opinion make. Be the woman you want to be, not the woman you think some guy wants you to be. Be you, and the right guy will appreciate you, no matter what form you take.

    Well said!!!
  • davidr730
    davidr730 Posts: 126 Member
    I'll ask my wife and get back to you. For the last 19 years she's been telling me what I like.:tongue:
  • Determinednoob
    Determinednoob Posts: 2,001 Member
    The first one to get naked wins.

    I think the crux has been reached
  • hesn92
    hesn92 Posts: 5,966 Member
    I'm not a guy but I definitely think fit is more attractive. I love seeing women that are fit and have nice muscle definition. I see that and I'm like :love: But I also think women in general are beautiful any way they come. I support diversity.
  • amtru2015
    amtru2015 Posts: 179 Member
    Fit and it's not even close. But what difference does my opinion make. Be the woman you want to be, not the woman you think some guy wants you to be. Be you, and the right guy will appreciate you, no matter what form you take.

    Winner winner chicken dinner!! you just got brownie points my man
  • gogophers
    gogophers Posts: 190 Member
    Im fortunate my boyfriend likes my body the way it is BUT because of these answers is the reason why im so self conscious...regardless of how skinny I am I will always have a bit of cellulite and never a "toned and fit" body type (something I can never get no matter how hard I try) ....so when you say be confident with your own self and body shape...easier said than done when everyone wants a tone and fit girlfriend.

    Well, to put things in perspective for you, if a girl were to approach me, EVERYTHING about her physical features go out the window. Men (and women) are biologically significantly more attracted to people who are attracted to them.

    As for that option A or B thing, option B is definitely my choice. To be honest, the "option A" girl wouldn't make me look twice. Although, I'm not too attracted to the second option B (wow I feel like a total d*ck referring to girls like this).
  • Vnm77
    Vnm77 Posts: 32 Member
    Fit and it's not even close. But what difference does my opinion make. Be the woman you want to be, not the woman you think some guy wants you to be. Be you, and the right guy will appreciate you, no matter what form you take.
  • Vnm77
    Vnm77 Posts: 32 Member
    Best answer yet!
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    Again?

    Just be the way you want to be. The right men will find you.
  • blonde71
    blonde71 Posts: 955 Member
    I'm a girl but I can tell you what my husband finds more attractive: fit. When I was stick-thin, he said there was nothing to me. Now that I'm slightly more fit...he honestly can't keep his hands off me. :laugh:
  • Nataliaho
    Nataliaho Posts: 878 Member
    I personally think the premise of this question is flawed. Fit is not a look, someone can be fit and still have a higher level of BF than most people here are describing. This reminds me of a mini-drama that has played out in the media here is Australia over the past week. Basically multiple national newspapers featured photos of one of our olympic swimmers, asking "is she 'fit' enough to be at the olympics?", "has she let her 'fitness' go". etc They were quite obviously trying to say she was fat without saying the word. She trains 9 times a week in the pool and does weights twice a week, qualified for the olympics and then made the finals in her event... however people can say she is not "fit" based on a series of photographs...pffffft
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    Fit and it's not even close. But what difference does my opinion make. Be the woman you want to be, not the woman you think some guy wants you to be. Be you, and the right guy will appreciate you, no matter what form you take.

    mmmhmmm.
  • froeschli
    froeschli Posts: 1,292 Member
    OT, but this reminds me of a tv show where they asked a bunch of (male) celebrities whether they thought women more attractive when dressed, or naked. after a few seconds discussion, everybody agreed with the guy saying the most attractive is a woman in the process of undressing.

    As for looks, IMO confidence, attitude and posture have a lot more to do with attractiveness than body type.

    I have two sisters who are twins, one stands proud, the other hunches and feels invisible. the first is a a good 20-30lbs bulkier but could hook any guy she wants, the other is slimmer, supposedly better proportioned, but doesn't even come up on a guy's radar....
    Not to mention my 5'4" 230lb bellydance teacher - one look, one gesture, and i swear, no one in the same room could compete for attractiveness...
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    OT, but this reminds me of a tv show where they asked a bunch of (male) celebrities whether they thought women more attractive when dressed, or naked. after a few seconds discussion, everybody agreed with the guy saying the most attractive is a woman in the process of undressing.

    As for looks, IMO confidence, attitude and posture have a lot more to do with attractiveness than body type.

    I have two sisters who are twins, one stands proud, the other hunches and feels invisible. the first is a a good 20-30lbs bulkier but could hook any guy she wants, the other is slimmer, supposedly better proportioned, but doesn't even come up on a guy's radar....
    Not to mention my 5'4" 230lb bellydance teacher - one look, one gesture, and i swear, no one in the same room could compete for attractiveness...

    Right? I love the way I look and don't care what others think about it. I've never had anything like a complaint, sooo I don't care what a guy thinks.. what makes me happy usually ends up in the guy being happy. :)
  • j_wilson2012
    j_wilson2012 Posts: 293
    I'm a bigger dude, from perspective of mass (although average from THAT perspective):noway: If I had sex with a little petite asian chick, and she was like 110 or so, I would be too afraid to break her. not to mention, it would be like thrusting against a bathroom wall with a hole in it (pelvis). My opinion.
    Plus, she gotta have some curves on her. Im a breast man. Usually them thin chicks dont got it!
  • solarpower03
    solarpower03 Posts: 12,161 Member
    I'm not a guy but I definitely think fit is more attractive. I love seeing women that are fit and have nice muscle definition. I see that and I'm like :love: But I also think women in general are beautiful any way they come. I support diversity.


    ^^This, very well put!
  • holpan11
    holpan11 Posts: 28 Member
    Fit and it's not even close. But what difference does my opinion make. Be the woman you want to be, not the woman you think some guy wants you to be. Be you, and the right guy will appreciate you, no matter what form you take.

    Great Answer.
  • daffodilsoup
    daffodilsoup Posts: 1,972 Member
    I heard this somewhere recently in regards to stick thin girls..."if I wanted to date a 12 year old boy I would date a 12 year old boy"...stick thin isn't in!!!!!

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