What are your biggest Turn Offs?

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  • chocolateandpb
    chocolateandpb Posts: 438 Member
    Smoking, bad hygiene, bad grooming, and bad manners. And I'm sorry but I need a man with good hair...thick lustrous hair is very important to me (I'm allowed to be shallow about one physical aspect, right?!).
  • chocolateandpb
    chocolateandpb Posts: 438 Member
    conservatives & republicans

    SO not sexy.

    Girl, I'm with ya there.

    Also, guys who don't use the correct form of there/their/they're, your/you're, to/too/two, etc. It's not f***ing rocket science. They teach that isht in 5th grade. Read a f***ing book for once.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    Smoking is an absolute dealbreaker. Poor manners is another one.
  • 1. Steelers fans
    2. Ohio State fans
    3. drive a Mustang, Camaro, Dodge SRT, or any other American muscle car

    How bout

    Saints fan (thats me)
    LSU Tigers fan (thats me)
    16" lifted Chevrolet Z71 with 40" tires (thats me)

    lol just saying

    1. As long as you can admit "Who-Dey" came first.
    2. Les Miles is an idiot. Although I do appreciate SEC football.
    3. And well. Yeah, I'm going to have to stick with this one.

    "Who dat" came from a place of Jim Jones
    I totally agree Les Miles is a loser... I miss Saben
  • mistigoodwin
    mistigoodwin Posts: 411 Member
    Bad Hygiene and Laziness!!!!
  • AlayshaJ
    AlayshaJ Posts: 703 Member
    Being emotionally weak is #1
    No motivation.
    No athletic ability.
    Bad teeth.
    Most signs of genetic weakness.
    (Bad teeth, hair, skin, body composition, mental disorders, ect,)
    Pretty much, if I don't want your genetics passed on to my kids I won't have sex with or get attached to you.
    I know people will hate me for this, but honestly, I have severe depression and anything else thrown into the mix with my children is too much for me. I don't want them to even have depression, I would rather not put them through any other psychological disorders. I pretty much just want my children to have all the cards in their favor, since I was dealt a ****ty hand with two bad parents that gave me good genetics but didn't stimulate my brain so that I could excel. Good looks, intelligence, mental/emotional strength, and athletic abilities are VERY important to me. My motto has always been "If you don't want who you are having sex with to be your childs parent, don't have sex with them."
  • PibblesRun
    PibblesRun Posts: 236 Member
    Laziness and irresponsible... And im married to it :noway: Love how ppl change after your married!
  • Trechechus
    Trechechus Posts: 2,819 Member
    Smoking. Anything. Yuck.
    Drinking excessively
    A lack of a sense of humour
    Laziness / Lack of a sense of adventure
  • Tararatus
    Tararatus Posts: 53 Member
    People who smoke.
    agree! Hate it!
  • Tararatus
    Tararatus Posts: 53 Member
    Cheating, lying and smoking.
    . All these! Plus men who pretend to to get to know you and give all the sweet talk to get you in to bed...
  • Smoking or any form of tobacco use
    Drinking
    Piercings
    Arrogance
  • laurenellenmarie
    laurenellenmarie Posts: 331 Member
    Their.
    There.
    They're.
    KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.
  • Poor hygiene physically
    Dumb as a post mentally
  • ohmykai
    ohmykai Posts: 210 Member
    Teeth... I know it may sound strange but yes... He has to have good teeth....When he smiles at me I don't want to see a f*d up Grill.... LMAO!

    Edited to Add, and Smoking... You won't be anywhere near me if you are doing this. NO THANK YOU!
  • Firno
    Firno Posts: 22 Member
    Uptight people who take life to seriously, someone without a sense of humor, and people without manners. I don't care what someone wears or what they look like, respect will take you far.
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    Women that have tats on their face.
    Drug use of any kind.
    Not being able to control your consumption of alcohol.
    Smoking - unless you are smoking HOT
    Rudeness
    Inconsiderate
    Poor manners
    Chewing with mouth open

    *** showing me, on the 2nd date when I pick her up, where my daughters rooms are going to be *** Yes, that happened to me. Hell, it happens to me a lot. ARGHHHHHH!
  • DefyGravity1977
    DefyGravity1977 Posts: 300 Member
    Body odor (other than after a workout), bad breath, sloppy, and arrogance.....


    This is it for me.
  • anelahm
    anelahm Posts: 237 Member
    Men who disrespect their mamas
  • MSimm62385
    MSimm62385 Posts: 227
    My last girlfriend:

    • Rarely shaved her pits.
    • Rarely shaved her legs.
    • Announced to me every time she had to "go poop."

    Yeah it didn't last long...
  • ohmariposa
    ohmariposa Posts: 372 Member
    My last girlfriend:

    • Rarely shaved her pits.
    • Rarely shaved her legs.
    • Announced to me every time she had to "go poop."

    Yeah it didn't last long...
    she really did that? that is weird...
  • MSimm62385
    MSimm62385 Posts: 227
    Yeah, whether for better or worse, she was in every way "one of the guys" and the exact opposite of a lady.
  • My last girlfriend:

    • Rarely shaved her pits.
    • Rarely shaved her legs.
    • Announced to me every time she had to "go poop."

    Yeah it didn't last long...
    Agh I think that is sooo gross!! So so gross I can't stand when men do it and if a woman does oh hell that's just dirty
  • avir8
    avir8 Posts: 671 Member
    Turn offs:
    Liars, bad breath, short guys (only cuz I'm short too), arrogance, dirty nails, negativity
  • warnott
    warnott Posts: 20
    i go off of intuition for the most part when i'm trying to figure out if somebody's smart or not; it's just something you can hear when they talk, you know? maybe? iunno, it might just be me. anyway, it's pretty much a deal-breaker if it seems to me like a girl is smart and she's deliberately acting dumber than she really is.

    actually, it's more than a turn-off. it's instantly irritating and just generally makes me antipathetic.
  • avir8
    avir8 Posts: 671 Member
    Turn offs:
    Liars, bad breath, short guys (only cuz I'm short too), arrogance, dirty nails, negativity
    Oh yeah all this plus smoking is disgusting too
  • jerbear67
    jerbear67 Posts: 247 Member
    Liar
    Married
    Arrogance
    Bad breath
    Bad Teeth
    Smells bad
    Ungroomed
    Disrespectful
    In the closet
    Bad mannors
    Eats with his mouth open
    Nasty finger/toe nails
  • kzcortes
    kzcortes Posts: 208 Member
    I can pretty much sum it up with insecure.

    Don't confuse insecurity with being shy. Insecurity leads to so many problems down the road.
  • capriqueen
    capriqueen Posts: 976 Member
    People who put on a fake accent, act like they're rebels or try to act too cool.
    Ego-heads and male chauvinists. And hypocrites. Like my stupid colleage here.
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    Being used.
  • deadbeatsummer
    deadbeatsummer Posts: 537 Member
    bad breath,
    body odour,
    unintelligent men,
    sexist men or those opposed to feminist ideals,
    racist or homophobic,
    bad dress sense - baggy jeans etc,
    rubbish music taste