What are your biggest Turn Offs?
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i go off of intuition for the most part when i'm trying to figure out if somebody's smart or not; it's just something you can hear when they talk, you know? maybe? iunno, it might just be me. anyway, it's pretty much a deal-breaker if it seems to me like a girl is smart and she's deliberately acting dumber than she really is.
actually, it's more than a turn-off. it's instantly irritating and just generally makes me antipathetic.
i have this problem. i'd say i'm a smart girl; I have a university degree and do well academically and have opinions and interests that go further than shopping and tv; but i guess i come across as thick. i think it's my voice its naturally quite high pitched and a giggle a lot when i'm with my friends. strangers often have a hard time believing that i went to university or that I'm 22 (they assume i'm younger). I find it really upsetting when people assume i'm stupid.0 -
A guy who doesn't have a sense of humor .. No confidents0
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Smokers are definitely #1 on my list. And guys who drink. I don't mean the occasional glass of something but those who get smashed quite regularly. I'd love a guy who's edge but let's not ask for too much here.0
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Bad teeth/breath smokers drunks0
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homophobes...huge turn off0
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To keep it short, selfish people... I could elaborate and say smokers, overeaters, fruads, theives etc... in my OWN PERSONAL opinion, these kinds of people are ruled by their own selfish thoughts. Nothing is sweeter than a considerate person who puts a stranger before themselves.0
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nasty teeth, and guys who drink too much.I dont think drunk is cute.
OOOH and nail biters UGHHHH... grosses me out.
and last but not least... if you cant close your mouth while you are eating. :noway:0 -
Guys with long nails! ewww0
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Bad breath, bad drunk, disrespectful and someone who can't hold a conversation.0
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negativity0
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bad teeth, bad hygiene, gelled hair, orange tan, the cast of jersey shore.....
LOL I second this!0 -
Having decisions made for me and being ignored.0
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When u get to third base and find a penis ! Kills my buzz every time0
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Bad breath, bad drunk, disrespectful and someone who can't hold a conversation.
Pretty much...also being insecure overly jealous and smells bad !0 -
Doesn't like cats.
No, seriously. That's a deal-breaker. Be a cat person or I am not interested.
Also, closed-mindedness, rude to waiters (weird thing, but it bothers me so much), too serious, lack of ambition... there are probably a lot more because I'm very picky and kind tend to dislike most people... but that's all I can think of.
^ this.
Quite genuinely- there's been people I've just known that I didn't like for some reason then found out later they didn't like cats....
Also- it's mainly personality traits that turn me off. Complacency, rudeness, laziness..... negativity, small mindednes....
But like most people, physically it's not about how a person *looks* in as much as not liking fat people or blondes or whatever, it's more about their attitude to life. Self respect- if someone doesn't respect themself they won't look after themselves and if they aren't self aware either it combines to make things like bo/bad breath etc etc!0 -
If she farts more than I do0
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Smoking
Trashy
Heavy drinker
immature
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This is my biggest turn off as well. insecurity leads to so many friggin' problems, accusations, problems, fights, lol. Anyways yes shy is not the same as insecure, shy is reserved, insecure means that you don't feel comfortable or like who you are and you will make life hell for your mate!I can pretty much sum it up with insecure.
Don't confuse insecurity with being shy. Insecurity leads to so many problems down the road.0 -
money0
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A small penis :laugh:0
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- No brains are the worst killer
- Liars with no sense of loyalty
- No job and doesn't want to get one
- Too lazy to do anything productive at all
- Irresponsible and when they don't act on their priorities
- Listen to crappy music and have much different music taste
- Thinking they know it all and woman are below men
- Fat and anorexic guys
- Have a bad breath but wants to make out
- Drinking too much or smoking0 -
Women with strong opinions of what turns them off.0
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guys who eek romantic relationships with someone they don't even know because they are desperate for a date0
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I cannot help but compile all these negative traits into one person in my mind.. it is spectacular.0
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insecurity, but not the normal kind that you have that makes you humble. I find a person who has the self confidence to have just a little swagger, but who is humble enough to appreciate the great qualities in others very attractive. However, the kind of insecurity where you need reassured every second about how attractive you are and where the person needs to put others down to make them feel better about themselves is really a huge turn off. I can't even go into the posts on here that are "guys, what random physical thing to you like in a lady?" Or "rate the person above you!"
And bad teeth0 -
Trying to encourage someone to death and they are not feeling it! Spending time helping someone with insecurity issues and becoming insecure. lol0
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Being Lazy, selfish or having man hands0
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Flat butt
Super skinny legs0
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