What do you do when people keep staring?

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  • 2muchsauce
    2muchsauce Posts: 1,078
    Usually check to see if my zipper is down....................just to be sure it is:laugh:
  • dorkusmalorkus
    dorkusmalorkus Posts: 61
    kill them with kindness. fart. and walk away...
  • dorkusmalorkus
    dorkusmalorkus Posts: 61
    I've found that a lot of different people (men and women) keep staring at me when I walk by. Don't know if it's good or a bad thing and sometimes I just want to turn around and tell them what the hell are they staring at.
    So what do YOU do?

    Usually I get stared at on the bus, and I tried out several techniques but decided on the Arnold Schwarzenegger terminator slow head turn. You slowly turn your head until you make eye contact. Keep a straight face. Make eye contact with the person. They will usually feel uncomfortable and look away. Unless they are a racist crazy person who won't stop flirting with you. Best bet is to look incredibly uncomfortable when they make derogatory comments about different races (some of which were sitting near him) so you don't get shot.
    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!IM GONNA HAVE TO TRY THIS!!!!!i cut hair and conveniently had a cut that decided to reopen so there was blood on my fist at this concert we were at. so i would hold my fist up with the most ridiculous angry face.
  • thelovelyLIZ
    thelovelyLIZ Posts: 1,227 Member
    I give them something to stare at.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    I wink at them......lick my lips......anything to make them uncomfortable.....whatever you do don't break eye contact.
  • oOMusicBabii
    oOMusicBabii Posts: 494
    Make an ugly face at them. Or scream and wave my arms. Anything to make them stop because it's rather creepy.
  • rinnismom
    rinnismom Posts: 190
    smile and wave, boys. smile and wave.
  • serena569
    serena569 Posts: 427 Member
    I've found that a lot of different people (men and women) keep staring at me when I walk by. Don't know if it's good or a bad thing and sometimes I just want to turn around and tell them what the hell are they staring at.
    So what do YOU do?

    do you have big boobs?

    I do and I've been known to grab them when people stare,
  • shellisugar
    shellisugar Posts: 120 Member
    I've found that a lot of different people (men and women) keep staring at me when I walk by.

    I wink at them. :wink:
  • Sasssy69
    Sasssy69 Posts: 547 Member
    Make this face:

    Face2.jpg
  • tennisbabe94
    tennisbabe94 Posts: 444 Member
    One of two things. 1. Strike a fierce pose. I mean clearly, that's what they're after. or 2. If they don't seem douchey, I smile.
  • tennisbabe94
    tennisbabe94 Posts: 444 Member
    Make this face:

    Face2.jpg

    This works too! :wink: good thinking!
  • mmychal
    mmychal Posts: 69
    I run and tell my mom that they're LOOKING at me again.
  • heidiberr
    heidiberr Posts: 643 Member
    I look back, give a little smile and put an extra swing in my hips.

    They're looking for a reason so I give them a little something extra.

    This. Exactly. I worked so hard for my body--let them admire it!
  • addaline22
    addaline22 Posts: 114
    first I do a mental check, ie; fly zipped, food in teeth, toilet paper on shoe, boob hanging out....then smooth my clothes, put on a smile and walk right up and say hello, or Hi, do I know you? or if I am available and they are looking good, Hi, I think we went to school together, I'm Addaline. If they get all flustered, remind them its rude to stare. if it is positive feed back and you have the time, engage in conversation. If it was neither, eh. move on.
  • KellyAlyssa84
    KellyAlyssa84 Posts: 90
    Keep staring. Dont break eye contact. It shows weakness. Stare back until they cant stand it and then look away. Then smack your chest with your fist and walk away, you win.

    awesome.
  • WenLynn45
    WenLynn45 Posts: 1
    It's funny you ask that because since I've lost 55lbs...people stare at me more...and I wonder what are you looking at but I just keep it moving, smile, or say hello...and they responde with the same....LOL
  • melinda200208
    melinda200208 Posts: 525 Member
    When I notice people are creepily staring at me........I stare right back! ;)
  • addaline22
    addaline22 Posts: 114
    ok. I read thru some comments and realized something else- I forget that not everyone was in shape once. I forget that not everyone has developed the self esteem... I just figure they are staring because I am unconventionaly beautiful and they just dont know what to make of me. I might be wrong, but that is what I have found to be true. However, that is me. If you have lost alot and are looking super fresh head turning hot for the first time, it can be hard to understand. but people are staring cause of the fact there is something nice to look at. you be ok.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    Adjust my junk
  • ActiveGuy81
    ActiveGuy81 Posts: 705 Member
    I usually stare back, they always look down or away. If it is someone cute, I would simply smile. :)
  • ActiveGuy81
    ActiveGuy81 Posts: 705 Member
    Make this face:

    Face2.jpg

    A Yao Ming face is always a good one to make when stared at lol
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    Tell them to take a pic, it will last longer.
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    Usually check to see if my zipper is down....................just to be sure it is:laugh:

    hmmm... what streets do you usually cross?
  • starracer23
    starracer23 Posts: 1,011 Member
    I pick my nose.
  • Nailrep
    Nailrep Posts: 966 Member
    I was in sales for many years (in an all male industry), so I was used to it - not necessarily because I am a beauty queen. More like "Hey, there's a girl in a lumber yard!!" LOL

    I always smile and do a small nod as if to acknowldege them as well. They let their defenses down and usually begin talking at that point.
  • Shrinking_Stacey
    Shrinking_Stacey Posts: 100
    "Tell your BOOBS to stop staring at my eyes" My all time favorite pick up line!! :laugh:
  • _EmmaStrong_
    _EmmaStrong_ Posts: 647 Member
    I don't think too much about it. I just smile! But, what is really strange is when some man, whom I don't know, starts talking to me, like he's known me his whole life and I have no idea who he is. My daughter will ask me who it was and I have to say " I have no idea!"
  • Pollywog39
    Pollywog39 Posts: 1,730 Member
    I usually take it as a compliment, unless they have drool on the sides of their mouths, or they're panting like a dog..............lol.

    People are going to look at you - for so many reasons. Maybe you're wearing an awesome outfit, or they love your hair/eyes/boobs/legs.........you name it.

    Don't sweat it - just relax and enjoy and smile back!
  • marie_cressman
    marie_cressman Posts: 980 Member
    you know what i just realized? i tend to look at random people. not necessarily staring, but i'm aware of my surroundings. i look around and i check out all the people that are around me. not necessarily thinking about anything in particular. usually i'm holding a conversation with my kids. i did it while out grabbing some coffee and some new books for the kids at the px just a few minutes ago. i do it because i worry about who is around me and the kids. even though i'm holding my 3 year old's hand, i worry that something will happen while we're out so i make myself very aware of everything around us. i probably made eye contact with each person that i walked past and i took note of what they were wearing (we live on a military installation so... if you're not in uniform it would be easy for me to remember what you were wearing... LOL) and what they looked like. i think i sound like a nut job now. LOL i swear i'm not a SUPER over protective mommy. i think i'm reasonably protective. haha

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