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Some of the reasons why people don't lose

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  • Posts: 2,848 Member
    Great reminders! Thanks .
  • Posts: 49,169 Member

    dear ninerbuff-
    i am consistent, I have a huge variety of activities I do, I am comfy at 10 lbs lighter, but 'the equations' say I should weigh 30-40 lbs less, I eat healthy & plenty but not too much, I sleep pretty well all things considered, I am definitely not new to training, and my expectations are reasonable. Where do hormones fit in here (which is what i'm pretty sure my prob is) and how do I modify to affect THEM?
    frustratedly yours, CK
    Since everything in the body is a chemical reaction, hormones play a direct part. Imbalance will lead to more effort for those that have it, compared to those that don't. Suggest seeing your physician to see if levels are correct.

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  • Posts: 49,169 Member
    I also need to mention this since I saw it this morning: LACK OF INTENSITY. People who just go through the motions of a workout with little intensity shouldn't expect maximal results. If you can do 10 reps with a weight and not even struggle, then intensity is lacking. If you can run on treadmill for 30 minutes and barely breath hard, then intensity may be too low.
    Lots of people don't workout as hard as they think and it will have an impact on your goals.

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  • Posts: 568 Member
    I just love your posts. You're direct and to the point.......you KNOW what you're talking about and dont put others down. I personally thank you for that.

    I see 2 things I need to work on.

    1) I need to push myself a little harder
    2) be prepared to kick it up a notch.
    I admit to being a sissy when it hurts (more than my normal hurt that is)

    .......make that 3 things
    3) I NEED to sleep more (and I have no clue how to accomplish that)




    Thanks "Niner"
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  • I also need to mention this since I saw it this morning: LACK OF INTENSITY. People who just go through the motions of a workout with little intensity shouldn't expect maximal results. If you can do 10 reps with a weight and not even struggle, then intensity is lacking. If you can run on treadmill for 30 minutes and barely breath hard, then intensity may be too low.
    Lots of people don't workout as hard as they think and it will have an impact on your goals.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
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    Yeah. I think this one may be number one... honest with yourself. As far as calories burned and food eaten. Investing in the basic tools that help and keep you honest... e.g., food scale and HRM.

    Reminds me of a time a few years ago... a friend of mine saw me "working out" on my exercise bike. He said... "what are you doing? you're hardly moving? you gotta put in more effort than that." ---- and it pissed me off! ---- and he was right. I wasn't putting the effort in at all. I was going thru the motions just to say "I did it", which was beyond stupid of me. Although, at that time, I must admit, I really didn't care to lose weight... it was others that cared that I lose weight. Now... I care and I do it for me. So I can understand that it may take a bit to be honest with oneself. But when you do it for you, I think you always will be.
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    Thank you!
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    Thank you :flowerforyou:
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    Thank you for posting!! I only have 5 to 10 more lbs to reach goal and it's taking FOREVER!! :laugh:
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    Oh man, you really hit home with the comment about weekends. I do so well during the week and the weekend hits and its like a mad dash to the nearest restaurant to fill up on all of the yummy stuff I haven't had all week :( I know I have to get this under control. Thanks for the post.
  • Posts: 71 Member
    Thanks for sharing your expertise. So helpful! :)
  • Posts: 126 Member
    Some consistency with caloric intake is definitely important, but I also believe that varying intake and purposely going over or staying lower can keep your metabolism alert and working.
    But of course I'm not talking about eating 1000 calories one day and bingeing 2000+calories on top of that the next day!

    There are several roads leading to rome; the key is just knowing that there is no single rigid road that is right for everyone and you have to choose the path that fits YOU.
  • Posts: 58 Member
    Great. Thanks.
  • Posts: 49,169 Member
    Some consistency with caloric intake is definitely important, but I also believe that varying intake and purposely going over or staying lower can keep your metabolism alert and working.
    But of course I'm not talking about eating 1000 calories one day and bingeing 2000+calories on top of that the next day!

    There are several roads leading to rome; the key is just knowing that there is no single rigid road that is right for everyone and you have to choose the path that fits YOU.
    Metabolism is always alert and working (unless one suffers from a metabolic issue). Differences in food intake usually balance out in the end since you need to be in caloric deficit to lose weight.

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  • Posts: 143
    Thanks! After reading this, I decided to adjust my weight loss to 1/2 pound per week as I only have 5 pounds to lose.

  • ^^ Ugh, me too^^

    Thanks for this post... it definitely helps!

    :( Saddest post I have read all day. Man! I will say that I have a couple of beers every night if they fit into my calorie goal.
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    7. High expectations- thinking that just because you're on a 1000 calorie deficit a day, that a 2lbs loss is GUARANTEED. Weight loss isn't linear. Again, your body is much smarter than you think and will do what it needs to do to survive. Look to just losing 1% of your body weight a week and stay consistent. Not every week will be the same.


    I'm really starting to learn this one!
  • Posts: 138 Member
    1. Inconsistency- Lack of being consistent on calorie intake, especially on the weekends. A couple of days of splurging (unless you're staying within your calorie deficit) WILL impede your progress.

    2. Doing the same old same old- Continuing the same workout that you did 6 months to a year ago. The body adapts to routines. Unless you challenge it, it will adapt to workload. Try changing it up after a month, 8 weeks max

    So you advocate inconsistency for workouts but same old same old for diet? Funny, the times I've dropped weight the best have been after making a change in diet. Sometimes that's a single-event splurge (usually a monthly meeting) for which I've saved up calories so that my *weekly* total is still within goal range), and sometimes it's when I've just not felt like eating more than a few hundred calories for a day and then went back to normal the next day. I think my body needs that change of pace to jolt me out of plateaus.

    Either way, I love the iPad app that can show me a weekly average, because it lets me see whether I need to rein it in for a few days, or whether I can afford to treat myself. I'm aiming for about a pound and a half a week, and I don't *want* to lose faster than that, because I think it's more likely to *stay* off it it's lost gradually.
  • Posts: 49,169 Member

    So you advocate inconsistency for workouts but same old same old for diet? Funny, the times I've dropped weight the best have been after making a change in diet. Sometimes that's a single-event splurge (usually a monthly meeting) for which I've saved up calories so that my *weekly* total is still within goal range), and sometimes it's when I've just not felt like eating more than a few hundred calories for a day and then went back to normal the next day. I think my body needs that change of pace to jolt me out of plateaus.

    Either way, I love the iPad app that can show me a weekly average, because it lets me see whether I need to rein it in for a few days, or whether I can afford to treat myself. I'm aiming for about a pound and a half a week, and I don't *want* to lose faster than that, because I think it's more likely to *stay* off it it's lost gradually.
    A once in awhile splurge may/may not affect you, but if someone splurges every weekend (which was my initial point) that will impede progress. If you're total calories in a week aren't in deficit, please explain how weight loss would happen?

    And I don't advocate inconsistency for workouts...........I stated that you need to change the routine due to the body adapting to the workout. That's NOT the same as inconsistency for workouts. Inconsistency for workouts would mean that there is no consistency of working out.

    Nice try though.

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  • Posts: 1,762
    With multiple threads on people questioning why they can't lose weight, just thought I'd give some quick info. So here goes:

    1. Inconsistency- Lack of being consistent on calorie intake, especially on the weekends. A couple of days of splurging (unless you're staying within your calorie deficit) WILL impede your progress.

    2. Doing the same old same old- Continuing the same workout that you did 6 months to a year ago. The body adapts to routines. Unless you challenge it, it will adapt to workload. Try changing it up after a month, 8 weeks max.

    3. You don't have much to lose- You can't lose if there isn't much to lose. And if you're shooting for a pound a week with just 5lbs- 10lbs to lose, then it probably won't happen. You're much better off going for 1/4 to a 1/2 pound loss a week. Adjust your deficit for that.

    4. Not eating enough- Trust me when I say your body isn't stupid. It's sole purpose is to do what it need to to survive. Part of that is conserving enough energy for regular function. If you don't supply enough calories, it will lower metabolic rate. Don't just think eating the minimum is the ONLY way to lose.

    5. Lack of rest/sleep- A killer. Body and mind need time to recover. Less than 5 hours a night is more than likely impeding your progress.

    6. New to training- Anyone new to exercise will more than likely gain a few pounds in the beginning due to water and glycogen retention. It's natural and common.

    7. High expectations- thinking that just because you're on a 1000 calorie deficit a day, that a 2lbs loss is GUARANTEED. Weight loss isn't linear. Again, your body is much smarter than you think and will do what it needs to do to survive. Look to just losing 1% of your body weight a week and stay consistent. Not every week will be the same.

    These are just some of the issues. I'm sure there are more, but these are just the common answers for most.

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    I don't get much sleep (you can tell by my name :P), how much can it affect it though? I want to lose 4lbs per week, is that possible at all?
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    I don't get much sleep (you can tell by my name :P), how much can it affect it though? I want to lose 4lbs per week, is that possible at all?
    I would have a tough time losing 4lbs a week. Your goal is unrealistic. 1% of your body weight is reasonable.

    Lack of sleep keeps cortisol high and reduces your GH (which is most abundant in deep sleep and is a hormone responsible for fat burning). You should get a assessment on your sleep patterns by a clinic.

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  • Posts: 816 Member
    Thanks for this
  • Posts: 1,762
    I would have a tough time losing 4lbs a week. Your goal is unrealistic. 1% of your body weight is reasonable.

    Lack of sleep keeps cortisol high and reduces your GH (which is most abundant in deep sleep and is a hormone responsible for fat burning). You should get an assessment on your sleep patterns by a clinic.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
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    Hmm okay, thanks. I'll look into my sleeping patterns more, I tend to stay up all night. Didn't think it will affect it too much.

    And how about 2% of my body weight?
  • Posts: 49,169 Member

    Hmm okay, thanks. I'll look into my sleeping patterns more, I tend to stay up all night. Didn't think it will affect it too much.

    And how about 2% of my body weight?
    Honestly with your sleeping patterns, 1% might even be tough.

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