Question for the guys - What do men look for in a woman?

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  • loserthirteen
    loserthirteen Posts: 2
    I am a woman and also taking notes, as I'll soon be entering the dating world. The question posed is brilliant and I find the responses from both sexes to be genuinely honest...and outright hysterical, at times! Thank you, guys, for candidly sharing the ins and outs of what truly gets your motors reved; mentally and physically. Chao!
  • 007bondage
    007bondage Posts: 631 Member
    It's pretty simple really:

    Class (not snobbery)
    Sexiness (not sluttyness)
    Humour (not psycho) and
    Reality (not living in LaLa land)
  • guapogringo
    guapogringo Posts: 201
    sweetness, personality, intelligence, independence, and natural beauty
  • Emmarogers2008
    Emmarogers2008 Posts: 26
    That will always be a mystery but my ability to bake and my ample bossom have never been a down side.
  • Mcmilligen
    Mcmilligen Posts: 332 Member
    Here is what I look for..

    Sense of humor - Absolute must. Nothing worse then hanging out with a girl who can't see the funny side of things.
    Overall looks & Appearance - A lot of initial attraction is physical in nature.
    Intellignece - Sorry but women who are as dumb as dirt are just unattractive to me.
    Funloving and outgoiong - While we don't have to have 100% the same interests it's good when someone is up for going out to do something. Even if it's something they have never gone to or aren't sure they will enjoy.
    Good lover - Sorry but if being intimate is boring or not good then it's not gonna work out between us.
    Good person at heart - Just a quality that not enough peopel have in genearal.

    Other things that I really find attractive but aren't 100% required
    Little to no baggage - Phyiscal and emotional. (Pets don't count as baggage)
    Eclectic - I like artsy women.
    Likes/plays soccer - I'm a huge fan so ladies score bonus points for getting it.
    Good taste in music - It helps as I really enjoy concerts and checking out new music.

    Last but not least she has to have that "it" factor.

    Hard to describe but it's something that makes the diffeernce between a smart match and a good match. It's that somthing about a girl that sets her apart from the others. Women who have it are a lot more desireable then the ones who don't have it. Can't really say exactly what it is but I know when it's there or not.

    "Intellignece - Sorry but women who are as dumb as dirt are just unattractive to me. " : You should spell-check this sentence :) hehe.

    But yes, there are a lot of little things that definitely add up in relationships. For me, I would never be able to date someone who isn't creative or open minded. Those two things I've learned are absolutely necessary, in my opinion. Anyways, it's interesting reading all of your responses. Carry on, carry on! :smile:
  • Topsking2010
    Topsking2010 Posts: 2,245 Member
    Confident

    Cooks like a chef

    Looks good in lingerie

    Sense of humor

    Has a passport

    Single

    Love sports
  • reyopo
    reyopo Posts: 210 Member
    I will be in the dating world soon, I am taking notes...carry on!!

    I have been in it for a few years now, it's not easy :(

    Hey! Optimism, please! I am just 2 weeks single for the first time in 18 years... (no dates, but) so far so good... I think.
  • DAM_Fine
    DAM_Fine Posts: 1,227 Member
    Confident

    Cooks like a chef

    Looks good in lingerie

    Sense of humor

    Has a passport

    Single

    Love sports

    Aww, damn - failed out on the last two... :cry:
  • mermer45
    mermer45 Posts: 77 Member
    I'm curious to know from the guys point of view, what it is that you look for in a girl/woman? Not just how they look, dig deeper then just appearance :)

    Loving, Tactile, curious and loves to learn, generous, kind, fun, positive, loving, sporty, musical,

    I could go on and on!
  • SelenityJ
    SelenityJ Posts: 168 Member
    After my thread this was a much needed thread to see to get me the rest of the way past the roadblock thrown into my life. Thank you for making it and thank you guys for all the great responses that have put my mind at ease.

    I give ya'll a Salute!
    ~Selenity
  • CryoMike
    CryoMike Posts: 9
    GOALS in life. Ambition to attain those goals.
    and a nice butt lol
  • mndamon
    mndamon Posts: 549 Member
    If I'm attracted to a girl and she can make me laugh it's pretty much game over man.
  • DBiddle69
    DBiddle69 Posts: 682 Member
    Nobody approaches a girl at a bar because of her personality.


    Boobs help. Big ones.

    I am a little boob man!!
  • Frankiecarrion
    Frankiecarrion Posts: 10
    The first thing I look for in a women is what is in between!!! Between her ears that is; the worst quality in a women is for her to be so beautiful; and have no intellegance whatsoever.
  • ErinBeth7
    ErinBeth7 Posts: 1,625 Member
    If I was a man, I'd look for a girl who didn't make a duck face in every picture.
  • nbhobbes
    nbhobbes Posts: 284
    Here is what I look for..

    Sense of humor - Absolute must. Nothing worse then hanging out with a girl who can't see the funny side of things.
    Overall looks & Appearance - A lot of initial attraction is physical in nature.
    Intellignece - Sorry but women who are as dumb as dirt are just unattractive to me.
    Funloving and outgoiong - While we don't have to have 100% the same interests it's good when someone is up for going out to do something. Even if it's something they have never gone to or aren't sure they will enjoy.
    Good lover - Sorry but if being intimate is boring or not good then it's not gonna work out between us.
    Good person at heart - Just a quality that not enough peopel have in genearal.

    Other things that I really find attractive but aren't 100% required
    Little to no baggage - Phyiscal and emotional. (Pets don't count as baggage)
    Eclectic - I like artsy women.
    Likes/plays soccer - I'm a huge fan so ladies score bonus points for getting it.
    Good taste in music - It helps as I really enjoy concerts and checking out new music.

    Last but not least she has to have that "it" factor.

    Hard to describe but it's something that makes the diffeernce between a smart match and a good match. It's that somthing about a girl that sets her apart from the others. Women who have it are a lot more desireable then the ones who don't have it. Can't really say exactly what it is but I know when it's there or not.

    "Intellignece - Sorry but women who are as dumb as dirt are just unattractive to me. " : You should spell-check this sentence :) hehe.

    But yes, there are a lot of little things that definitely add up in relationships. For me, I would never be able to date someone who isn't creative or open minded. Those two things I've learned are absolutely necessary, in my opinion. Anyways, it's interesting reading all of your responses. Carry on, carry on! :smile:

    LOL Yeah I really should have checked this before posting. LOL
  • nbhobbes
    nbhobbes Posts: 284
    If I was a man, I'd look for a girl who didn't make a duck face in every picture.

    People making duck faces in pictures sends a direct messge to me.. "Let's never hang out."
  • Molly_Maguire
    Molly_Maguire Posts: 1,103 Member
    OP, This is about the BILLIONTH thread I've seen asking the same d*mn question. :yawn: Boring. This subject has been beaten senseless, countless times before. When are people going to get it? EVERY MAN IS DIFFERENT, and is attracted to DIFFERENT TYPES OF BODIES.

    That's like asking "Men, what kind of car is best?" *eye roll* You are going to get a hundred conflicting answers.
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    I know what boys like, I know what guys want..
    http://youtu.be/5UX2afsTqFI
  • _JR_
    _JR_ Posts: 830 Member
    I love when a woman asks for guys' opinions on women, and 2/3rds of the responses are from WOMEN!!! Awesome!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Erisad
    Erisad Posts: 1,580
    A thigh gap of course. It's soooo obvious, right fellas? :P
  • _JR_
    _JR_ Posts: 830 Member
    A thigh gap of course. It's soooo obvious, right fellas? :P

    That's a hidden secret that we only leak out to the 16 - 23 year old crowd. Shhhhhh. :wink:
  • Erisad
    Erisad Posts: 1,580
    A thigh gap of course. It's soooo obvious, right fellas? :P

    That's a hidden secret that we only leak out to the 16 - 23 year old crowd. Shhhhhh. :wink:

    So that's how I know about it. Does it not apply to me anymore when I turn 24 next year?
  • _JR_
    _JR_ Posts: 830 Member
    A thigh gap of course. It's soooo obvious, right fellas? :P

    That's a hidden secret that we only leak out to the 16 - 23 year old crowd. Shhhhhh. :wink:

    So that's how I know about it. Does it not apply to me anymore when I turn 24 next year?

    Correct. By the time you turn 24, that bait no longer works on you. Then we play on your other fears. Buwahahahahahaha :wink: :laugh:
  • DannyMussels
    DannyMussels Posts: 1,842 Member
    I don't actually laugh at a lot of things.

    If she can make me laugh being silly or goofy , I really like that.
  • Erisad
    Erisad Posts: 1,580
    A thigh gap of course. It's soooo obvious, right fellas? :P

    That's a hidden secret that we only leak out to the 16 - 23 year old crowd. Shhhhhh. :wink:

    So that's how I know about it. Does it not apply to me anymore when I turn 24 next year?

    Correct. By the time you turn 24, that bait no longer works on you. Then we play on your other fears. Buwahahahahahaha :wink: :laugh:

    Noooooooooooooo! *shakes fist*
  • Peteshaped
    Peteshaped Posts: 37 Member
    Someone who I'm attracted to who says "yes" more than they say "no" to living life and doing fun things. As little drama as possible, liberal attitude to most stuff. I generally just look for someone happy who wants to enjoy life, pretty much.
  • ForTheSmile
    ForTheSmile Posts: 89 Member
    Apart from physical attraction...

    Smart...intelligent, funny, career minded/goal driven.

    There is also the what I don't look for which trumps the above:

    Not clingy, not needy, not insecure, not JADED...it's hard to find someone who doesn't lug arround these kind of attributes.

    Had to laugh because I'm clingy, needy, insecure, AND jaded. It's a good thing I'm not too concerned with finding a husband. :P
  • ready4fit
    ready4fit Posts: 39
    how do you quote people?
  • Peteshaped
    Peteshaped Posts: 37 Member
    how do you quote people?

    Like this!

    (Press the quote button under their post)

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