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  • MonicaLee92
    MonicaLee92 Posts: 222
    You really punched him for slapping your butt? That's a little extreme... I get that people have different boundries and he should respect that but going this far over butt slaps is a little over dramatic. I personally take it as a compliment. To me that means hey! You're lookin good! I see it more of a compliment from a SO...
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    Also on to your point that slapping a girl's butt is disrespectful to women, the only way it would be disrespectful to women is if you were going around slapping random strangers butts. I think you need to liberate your self a little sexually and open your horizons if these are your views of the world.

    She doesn't like it. She doesn't have to lighten up. It's not a ridiculous request in her eyes. It's something that she believes and she shouldn't have to "liberate herself". This is what's wrong with society right now. That we all need to "lighten up". If you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything.

    No, what's wrong with society is that people take offense with EVERYTHING. Especially in the U.S., it is not as serious here in Canada and much better in Europe.

    In Europe if you see a girl and say, hi beautiful, she'll smile back and wave. In the U.S. if you see a girl and say, hi beautiful "omg sexual harassment".

    I travel to europe and U.S., and am originally from Canada. So I know how it is in different regions of the world. And I'm not saying that everyone is like that, but the op is, and you are probably as well.

    Grab a woman's butt in the Middle East. See how far that gets you.
  • aplusgeek
    aplusgeek Posts: 49
    Grab a woman's butt in the Middle East. See how far that gets you.

    Walk around with your hair uncovered in the middle east and see what it gets you.

    Go for a drive in the middle east as a woman and see what it gets you.

    What's your point???

    Why would you even use the middle east as an example when they have the worst treatment of women in the world? And on top of that in any muslim regime, the rights of women are pretty much non-existent.
  • magj0y
    magj0y Posts: 1,911 Member
    Punching a boyfriend because he touched your butt is extremely over the top. 90% of your boyfriends will touch your butt. For future reference, tell your next boyfriend BEFORE he touches you there, instead of hauling off and punching him.
    If you're this quick to anger over this, you need to honestly figure out why, and it's not just "oh, in my parents culture..." I will, say I doubt you will be able to keep a boyfriend will will absolutely never touch your butt and be perfectly happy to never touch you there. If someone punched me in the face like that, they'd be gone. You're lucky he didn't break up with you on the spot.

    His 2nd time, he was being a jerk, and unacceptable.

    If it's a deal break for you, call it what it was. If you bend your "deal breaker" once, you'll do it a dozen more times.

    If a guy says "I'm a loser", he has a big problem with low self-esteem. I don't know how long you've been dating him, but it's NORMAL for couples to reassess their relationship and really need to ponder where things are going. I'd question someone who didn't. Why waste each other's time?

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