Expectations

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  • sixtyinchesoffury
    sixtyinchesoffury Posts: 321 Member
    bumpity bump

    thanks banks!!!
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,422 Member
    wow, Steve, that was reeeeaaallllllyy fascinating. Macro economics. Maybe I should read more....
    :noway: :tongue:
  • SHBoss1673
    SHBoss1673 Posts: 7,161 Member
    wow, Steve, that was reeeeaaallllllyy fascinating. Macro economics. Maybe I should read more....
    :noway: :tongue:

    I wouldn't recommend it, it'll drive you crazy. I see things in this country that make me bonkers!
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,422 Member
    wow, Steve, that was reeeeaaallllllyy fascinating. Macro economics. Maybe I should read more....
    :noway: :tongue:

    I wouldn't recommend it, it'll drive you crazy. I see things in this country that make me bonkers!


    :sarcasmface: I would have used it if there was one. :ohwell:
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    :glasses:
  • diamondD
    diamondD Posts: 6 Member
    stuck at phase 3 here. While I am not losing many pounds this month (5 total), I have noticed alot of changes in my body. My calves are super defined from 3 mile jogs daily and my legs are no longer jiggling.

    I have been more lax with the diet, where I was militant the first 2 months. I've resolved to go back to militant today and really try hard to hit my goal.
  • sindyb9
    sindyb9 Posts: 1,248 Member
    BUMPTY BUMP :laugh: :bigsmile:
  • SHBoss1673
    SHBoss1673 Posts: 7,161 Member
    All we need is love (and a bump)
  • ivykivy
    ivykivy Posts: 2,970 Member
    Bump:drinker:
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    I loved this then........it helps me now.

    Bump!!
  • DeeDeeLHF
    DeeDeeLHF Posts: 2,301 Member
    my time frames are longer than Banks has posted but I love this one and wanted to bump it again!
  • leelu
    leelu Posts: 136 Member
    Thanks - I was really suprised at how quickly the first few kilos came off - puts it into perspective for me
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,422 Member
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  • whew, i feel better....lol
  • Thats good advice and thanks or letting me know whats going to happen. Not going to lie temptation comes easlity for me and i tend to give up... its hard when im at my kunch table and all of my friends get up to buy candy and greasy pizza when i am tryng to loose weight ! i dont kno how to stop myself from cravings and doing what my friends do..which is bad..... help me someone .. with advice please!!!?
  • Thats good advice and thanks or letting me know whats going to happen. Not going to lie temptation comes easlity for me and i tend to give up... its hard when im at my kunch table and all of my friends get up to buy candy and greasy pizza when i am tryng to loose weight ! i dont kno how to stop myself from cravings and doing what my friends do..which is bad..... help me someone .. with advice please!!!?
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,422 Member
    Thats good advice and thanks or letting me know whats going to happen. Not going to lie temptation comes easlity for me and i tend to give up... its hard when im at my kunch table and all of my friends get up to buy candy and greasy pizza when i am tryng to loose weight ! i dont kno how to stop myself from cravings and doing what my friends do..which is bad..... help me someone .. with advice please!!!?

    Jillian, repost this as it's own topic, or research other topics about cravings etc.
  • I just wanted to post something about what to expect during the phases of weight loss.

    Overview (why I'm posting this)
    Over the course of about 7 months on here, I have seen many people suceed, I have also seen some drop off the map. I expect this is because some succumb to the demon that is temptation, and some to the devil that is dissapointment. I wanted to give a few "heads up"s to both new commers and vetrans to the site. Some may know already, some may not. But either way, if this helps anyone to set more realistic goals in their own head, I feel like it has done it's job.

    Phase 1. The start of a brand new day! (or week, or month, or year)
    Expectations are sky high, usually so is motivation and intentions. This is where most people lose the most weight. At the start it's not uncommon to see 4 to 8 lb losses per week. The reasons for this are mostly (sorry to disappoint) water weight. You drop excess water quickly, and you can have up to 5 lbs of water weight. The next biggest reason is the fat that is right next to the blood vessels, the stuff that you put on in the last month or three, it will melt like butter usually.

    Phase 2. Reality setting in.
    At about week 3 to a month or so, people suddenly realize that they are no longer dropping 8, 6, or even 4 lbs a week. This is a crutial phase in your journey. Expect this, it is natural. You have shocked your body by changing both eating habits and exercise routine. Now it has had a little while to become used to the new lifestyle, it's going to compensate. Your body still doesn't believe it's permenant yet, so it will still try to store some fat, so now that it knows how to regulate it's new metabolic levels, it tryies to store fat in earnest. It's not uncommon for people to hit a wall here, no loss for weeks. Expect this as well.

    Phase 3. The routine.
    At about 2 months or so, your routine is pretty much set, your body is beginning to believe that you really want to STAY the way you are going now. You will start to see more consistant (but lower, usually 1 to 2 lbs a week) loss, also, you should start seeing some muscle tone (depending on how much you had to lose in the first place). If you stop to think, you should realize that you have improved dramatically in your exercise levels. If you do cardio, you should notice how much longer and harder you can work. This is important to realize as it is just as big of an indicator as weight loss. Also, by now you may notice that your clothes no longer fit right. This is also very important. The weight may not be falling off anymore, but you are becomming a smaller person. Weight is arbitrary, if you are building muscle (which your body is doing at a furious pace by now) you won't notice huge losses, but you will notice wholesale changes in the mirror!

    Phase 4. Really digging in.
    This is where the second wall can happen. You're probably at between 3 and 4 months by now, and if you have gone this far, you feel like you have already suceeded. This is where many people stumble. they are tired of the routine, tired of eating different things from all their friends, limiting their alcohol intake. Basically the shine has worn off. this is when your really need to plant your feet. Maybe change up your exercise routine, make a concentrated effort to find different, but still nutritional food. Talk to people. And examine how far you have come. At this point, no matter how much external motivation you receive, it's all about believing in yourself!

    Phase 5. End game.
    5 or 6 months in you are probably working on that "last 10 pounds". This can be discouraging for many as it is a slow burn. Remember, your body probably feels like it is where it needs to be, your brain might think you need to lose 10 more, but your body is quite proud of itself now, it feels like it has "Done enough" and it wants to stay RIGHT HERE. The body LIKES to have a little fat around just in case, especially for the ladies (sorry girls, it's just human physiology). If you feel like you still need to lose it, prepare yourself for some guerrila warfare against your body. Design an exercise regimen that is very dynamic, forget the "same thing every day". Make a plan that challenges you both physically and mentally. Make sure you give yourself a day off here and there to just veg. And by all means, remember, muscle burns fat at rest. So get some weight or resistance training involved.
    The last 10 may take 3 to 6 months to lose. I know nobody wants to hear that, but it's true. And forget the idea of increasing your calorie deficite, healthy bodies need good nutrition, your body no longer has the fat reserves to handle the large deficites you could when you were 30 40 or 50 pounds overweight. Better to make it a 3 or 400 calorie deficite (NET, please count your exercise calories too!). It may take a bit longer, but your body will like you for it. Plus it feeds those new muscles and keeps them burning fat, keeps your skin healthy (elasticity is important when you want those places that were stretched out to "snap back") and keeps you from getting head aches and depressed.

    Conclusion:

    this is what I have learned, not just from my journey, but from others as well on here. It saddens me sometimes to see people hit one of these stages and not recognize it for what it is, a part of the process. If we all can have realistic expectations, then we are more prone to win the fight and stay healthy in the long run. Note that some people will hit these stages harder then others, some may take longer, but for the most part, this is the rule that the exceptions will come from.

    Best health to you all!

    -Banks
    Thanks! this was extremely helpful :)
  • AwMyLoLo
    AwMyLoLo Posts: 1,571 Member
    BBUUUUMMPPPP!!!!
  • SHBoss1673
    SHBoss1673 Posts: 7,161 Member
    BBUUUUMMPPPP!!!!

    you're just a bumping fool today aren't you Aw
  • AwMyLoLo
    AwMyLoLo Posts: 1,571 Member
    BBUUUUMMPPPP!!!!

    you're just a bumping fool today aren't you Aw

    I'm bumpin the crap out of em! LOL, well I've seen a flood of people asking all these questions recently.... so.
  • Banks, the phase description of weightloss your provided us with is great! Thank you for the motivation!
  • SHBoss1673
    SHBoss1673 Posts: 7,161 Member
    Banks, the phase description of weightloss your provided us with is great! Thank you for the motivation!

    Why thank you! Tis my pleasure.
  • lotusfromthemud
    lotusfromthemud Posts: 5,335 Member
    :bigsmile: bumpariffic.
  • erikazj
    erikazj Posts: 2,365 Member
    I love this post - just quoted it in another thread.

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  • leeslim4life
    leeslim4life Posts: 371 Member
    I'm so glad this post resurfaced b/c I alway stop at phase 3!!!
    This time I'm going to keep on pushing regardless of results on the scale!!!
    Thank you so much for this! :heart:
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    for some stupid reason this comes to mind when this thread gets bumped :laugh: sorry Steve :laugh:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRcj9WbHLjk
  • mroper
    mroper Posts: 92 Member
    Bumping :flowerforyou:
  • Magenta15
    Magenta15 Posts: 850 Member
    great motivating read :)
  • LivyJo
    LivyJo Posts: 355 Member
    Bump!!
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