Facebook and Relationship Problems!

I deleted mine, Facebook creates WAYYYY to much drama...

I was on the opposite side of this coin... Had a bf who continually liked sexy pictures, had girls flirting with him on his page, added ex girlfriends, and even had pics of himself with the ex girlfriends in his profile pics. It is not the reason we broke up, but it did cause a lot of stress/hurt in our relationship.

Yes, there is such a thing as being too clingy.... BUT I also think there is a certain level of respect you should show your significant other. This person is supposed to be one of the most important in your life, why do things that deliberately hurt them?

I think people are a little more liberal online. If you were walking down the street, and your significant other did these things in person, it would not be ok.

But as they say, different strokes for different folks. FInd yourself a person who has the same relationship values. For every guy out there NOT comfortable with these things, you are going to find one who IS. Why cause either of you so much stress?

Nothing good comes from facebook. It's just a way for people to be nosey and honestly a way to fish for compliments but posting tons of pictures (not saying you do that). As for the bf, I wouldnt waste time with him if hes that insecure. It will only become bigger issues later on. For instance, one of my friends had a husband like that....he later killed her and then himself. Move on is my best answer for you. He sounds controlling in so many ways.

Facebook is the devil.

That said, we had similar issues in my relationship - he was messaging someone behind my back that I had asked him to cut contact with. I found out and my trust was broken which lead to far worse issues. No he didn't cheat but of all his friends and acquaintances that was the one person I asked him not to contact and he did.

Facebook makes it easier to "cheat", contact people etc, but also easier to be caught.

What you should tell your bf is to not let Facebook be such an important part of his life. We don't even have in a relationship on fb even though we've been together for about 18 months. We just try to not read too much into fb or let the Internet control our lives/relationship

You can set up your FB profile so that he is unable to see posts from other people on your profile.

He sounds like a very insecure boy. May be time for you to reconsider your relationship status with him. Is this really the type of relationship you want to pursue?