WHy are the first 5lbs the harded??

The first 5lb were my easiest. It's the last 10lb that are proving to be the toughest.

PS. I love a good 'but, but, but' thread.

Get Ea sports active 2 as you like to use your WII that has real exercise and pushes you progressively harder as you work through the training program.

Add in lots of short bursts of activity throughout the day, for example run up any stairs don't walk, jog on the spot, or squats or jump jacks during ad breaks.

You don't have to do long stints of exercise if you can't find a spare 30-60 mins, but finding and utilising 3-5 minutes is 100% do-able for everyone.

Food - I will get criticised for this but you have to do what works for you - I don't like salads or cold foods so I take pots of oats to work for breakfast just have to tip in boiling water and microwave stuff for lunch - food doctor pots, baxter's chickpea and lentil pots, anything that just means I grab it on the way out and stick it in my bag but aim for well balanced stuff and try and avoid 'low calorie' meals as they are low calorie rather than healthy.

Do try and cook in the evening, there are thousands of meals that can be cooked as fast from scratch as a convenience meal.

I lose weight slowly as well, BUT I still make time for things. I have read this whole thread and I think you need to try and think of solutions to problems. I appreciate that you work and go to college and you have a puppy and this is all hard work and I congratulate you on taking control on this part of your life. But now you need to take control of your health. Why not prepare a packed lunch the night before work? A sandwich takes like 2 minutes to make. Prepare salads and leave them in the fridge, cook chicken breasts and have a healthy pick a mix, get fruit and take it as you want it. There are ways and if you really want this you will make time. I hate exercise (at the moment and I have CFS) but I make sure I walk up the stairs more than needed, I walk my dog (even though I am recovering from Agoraphobia) I use my treadmill, I do push ups on my bannister every time I visit the toilet. There are ways to get around things rather than concentrating on what you cannot do, find things you can and keep it up. I know sometimes I eat Processed food, but that is only when I am exhausted and have no quicker options, a crappy side affect of my illness which means that sometimes I cannot get out of bed! But I cook and prepare soups that I freeze etc etc, I find ways around things, you can too!

If everyone thinks I am wasting time on here by making "excuses" please stop posting and wasting your time on making comments and you are irritated with.

I've just sat here and read through all 4 pages, just to get a feel for what was being said. And, sweetie, they sound like excuses. In your mind they are not. Like you said, you are simply stating fact, right? But, the problem is these facts all have ways around them.

It's dark and a rough area by the time you get home, so why not get up a bit earlier? You can take your puppy for a walk, even for half an hour. That's an extra half an hour exercise for you, the puppy, and some time together you normally wouldn't have. Then, make lunch. If you get up even 1 hour before you normally do you'll have plenty of time to walk puppy and make a quick sandwich or salad. It takes 5 minutes and eventually it'll become second habit. It's a win for you both, but over a long period of time you'll find that the 3lbs you've struggled to lose will fall off week by week.

The trick to long-term weight loss is making small changes. Just by doing that above suggestion you'll lose quite a lot more calories a week and save a lot of calories/fat/sodium and all the other crap you'd find in premade things.

Instead of reading through the thread and reading what you perceive as people 'slamming' your lifestyle and focusing on nothing else, why not skim through, collect all the advice and really try and adapt it for you?

It's all comes down to 'Are you ready to commit to weight loss?' If the answer is 'Yes' then make small changes that will really help you and still fit around your lifestyle. Every little helps, after all.