Do you withhold doing it when mad at your significant other?

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  • FindingSamMon
    FindingSamMon Posts: 997 Member
    Only if the offense warrants it and I'm so upset that the idea of them touching me turns my stomach. But in that instance, we have bigger problems than not getting laid for a night. :P

    ^^^ Ditto
  • Tommy
    Tommy Posts: 127 Member
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  • p0tt3rgl33k
    p0tt3rgl33k Posts: 54 Member
    nope.
  • Farburnfred
    Farburnfred Posts: 333 Member
    Only if its good sex, if its crap sex it makes everything worse.

    WTF is crap sex?
    (LOL) actually that sounds wrong on a different level...The more I think about it, I agree crap sex is sh#@y, so it must stink, but at first I thought you were eluding to bad sex
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    Whoops, lost in translation? Crap= bad. And there is too much bad sex in my past
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
    Only if its good sex, if its crap sex it makes everything worse.

    WTF is crap sex?
    (LOL) actually that sounds wrong on a different level...The more I think about it, I agree crap sex is sh#@y, so it must stink, but at first I thought you were eluding to bad sex


    Anal? :laugh:
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    What used to irritate the crud out of me is when he'd provoke a fight, get mad when he GOT one, and then want sex like that would just solve everything and "un-say" all the things we said to each other.:explode:
  • frogz21
    frogz21 Posts: 314 Member
    What used to irritate the crud out of me is when he'd provoke a fight, get mad when he GOT one, and then want sex like that would just solve everything and "un-say" all the things we said to each other.:explode:

    My SO is like this. He thinks having sex after a fight is hot..he said it turns him on when I am mad. :grumble:
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    He's more likely to withhold in anger than I am. Personally I don't believe in it.
  • RealWomenLovePitbulls
    RealWomenLovePitbulls Posts: 729 Member
    i don't think its a matter of deciding to withhold it, i think it's an "i'm pissed at you, i'm definately NOT in the mood, don't touch me"
    however, you are correct, sometimes it's best when angry or making up :)
  • Litlbeast
    Litlbeast Posts: 340 Member
    I don't intentionally withhold, but I can't really get in that mental place until things are resolved. True, it doesn't take much to resolve things some times. And daaaaaaamn makeup sex. Hur hur.
  • carriempls
    carriempls Posts: 326 Member
    I can't say I "withhold" it, but if I'm angry or we're fighting, I am not in the mood in the slightest....but, the same goes for him.

    That's me as well. If I'm pissed at my bf I am NOT in the mood.

    I don't withhold it to be like nyah nyah nyah. But if I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it.
  • topsykretes
    topsykretes Posts: 14
    Angry sex? Sure, why not. I say go for it! Sometimes the best sex I've ever had with hubby is when I was the most pssd off at him. Oddly enough afterwards, I forgot why I was even mad in the first place.... :wink:
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,029 Member
    enivedlliw wrote: »
    Here is a hint... "The Silent Treatment" is not a punishment for a man, it is usually a well earned relief...
    Hahaha! Well it's fine for a day. After that, I would be concerned why she still isn't talking to me.

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  • Karb_Kween
    Karb_Kween Posts: 2,681 Member
    my relationship with my BF is so strained I often don't feel like I can "let go" and do it... it's kinda complicated but I'm a *kitten* lover because he's kind of a *kitten* companion
  • thisonetimeatthegym
    thisonetimeatthegym Posts: 1,977 Member
    CalJur wrote: »
    No. Life is too damn short. I can put things in different buckets. (I know typical male but I am one.) Anger whatever can be set aside for coitus anytime. Some of the best happens when mad, no? Just hate this whole withholding concept. I'm certain there are extreme situations where it may be warranted and possible lifetime ban (wasn't me baby wasn't me) but for routine arguments and disagreements just because? No way.

    Withholding sex within marriage is unbiblical. The Bible suggests frequent and passionate sex in marriages.
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