Would you use a 'unfit' looking personal trainer?

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  • JudeGilford
    JudeGilford Posts: 66 Member
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    I think there are a lot of good replies here but for me: NEVER! If I'm going to pay someone to help me, I want them to be the example of what I hope to become.

    Good luck with this!
  • nphect
    nphect Posts: 474
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    golden rule, never listen to someone fatter than you.

    and you can add to that someone who isn't running faster than you, lifting more than you, or already doing something your trying to achieve.
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
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    ever seen boxing coaches? ugly and fat.



    As for me, I base things on hotness not fitness.

    Unfit and hot? I'll still do whatever you tell me =)
  • BlisterLamb
    BlisterLamb Posts: 396 Member
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    Because of my Hashimoto's I carry more fat than I would like. I've busted my *kitten* to get to a size 12 and haven't been able to get any more off for 5 years. Even now that I am diagnosed and on meds. But I eat right and I work out. hard I do metric century rides, paddle board, run 5K's, lift weights, etc. I have a lot of muscle under my fat and I'm strong and healthy. However, before I got knocked down by the Hashimoto's I had lost over 100 pounds. I am a certified nutritional specialist (yeah, that's worth the paper it's printed on) and a certified trainer. I worked as an independent trainer at an independent gym. The reason my clients come to me is because I've been where they are and they know I understand their struggles. I can relate to them. I had one girl who had lap band surgery then gained back 50 pounds who I offered to train for free. Another of my clients told me about her because she was stressing out due to the fact that her brother needed her kidney and she couldn't donate until she lost 30 pounds. She had been trying a long time and he was starting dialysis. The clock was ticking. I offered her the training and It took me three months to get her in shape to donate the kidney and they are both doing well. While I was training her one day, another trainer, some big muscle head misogynist who thinks the only worth while women are in their 20's and built like a Barbie and who gropes his clients, lit into me because I had the gall to be working with my client on a piece of equipment that he wanted to use. He told me that obviously it hadn't ever done me any good...in front of my client and several people in the gym. He didn't know how much I had lost or how many women I had helped. I was humiliated. I don't train anymore, even though I am still certified. And I DID have something to offer that he didn't. None of those women would have ever gone to him. But because of people who think that unless you are ripped and toned and look like you could be on the cover of fitness magazine, you have no business in a gym, much less telling anyone else what to do in there, its just uncomfortable for me now. I only wanted to help women who struggle the way I did and still do.
  • ChrisRS87
    ChrisRS87 Posts: 781 Member
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    Would you train with an absolutely jacked trainer who couldn't have achieved their gains without steroids?

    Depends if he was decent eye candy or not. :tongue: :laugh:
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    take your pick... lol
  • JudeGilford
    JudeGilford Posts: 66 Member
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    And kooltray nailed it: You never get a second chance at a first impression!
  • dad106
    dad106 Posts: 4,868 Member
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    I think trainers are a scam in general.

    You can find all your training info and needs on the internet.

    Which is fine, but there is nothing like having a person telling you what you are doing wrong when lifting and being able to give you real time feed back.

    Plus for someone like me,I'm lazy... and I'd much rather pay someone to do all that **** for me so that when I workout, I don't even have to worry about if what I'm doing is right or wrong, or hitting all muscle goups or w/e.. it's all perfectly packaged and ready to go when I am.
  • ptjolsen
    ptjolsen Posts: 365 Member
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    I was just pondering the other day, whilst in the gym. We have several PT's at my gym, none of which, if i'm honest look like they practice what they preach so to speak. So would you use a unfit looking personal trainer? I know my view on it, just interested in other peoples ;-)
    I manage the PT department at my gym....I wouldn't hire anyone who didn't take care of themselves or look the "part"

    haha you obviously don't work at my gym then lol
    You don't look like you are from the north :wink: :tongue:
  • Tina180130
    Tina180130 Posts: 127 Member
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    IMO, PTs should practice what they preach UNLESS they are recovering from an injury and as a result got out of shape.
  • thr33martins
    thr33martins Posts: 192 Member
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    I am a Jazzercise instructor, and I consider myself to be VERY fit - though I have recently gained some weight and am now trying to take it off, I do not look as thin as I did 18 months ago, but you can still tell I work out.

    However, I have been teaching for over 7 years and in that time I have had two babies. Those first few weeks getting back into it after maternity leave, I am sure I didn't look the part at all! For a new student, they must have been like "????" But I still had as much to offer - even more with the experience of training through pregnancy and then having to lose the weight and resolve the atrophy afterward. In my experience, I find that a lot of my students appreciate that we are real people, just like them.
  • bhelmreich
    bhelmreich Posts: 254 Member
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    At my gym there is a trainer who in everyone eyes would be considered overweight or even obese. I don't really bother to look at who's teaching a class because I have loved every trainer and I was in a few of her classes. I've taken a yoga class and a Body pump class with this trainer. She did every move with the ease of someone who seems to be in much better shape!
    I've also seen skinny and/or muscular trainers who do not know what the heck they are talking about.
  • frando
    frando Posts: 583 Member
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    There was an issue about this with a personal trainer at my gym. The female trainer was coaching a woman, and talking to her about nutritional things, the woman laughed in the trainer's face 'why should I take this from you? You're so fat!' She didn't know the trainer was two weeks away from going on maternity leave!

    As always, I try not to judge a book by it's cover!

    *corrected due to wrote some convo with my bf in!
  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,488 Member
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    I don't want to be in better shape than my trainer - then what could they teach me? I want someone who knows what they are doing and are able to do it.
  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
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    No, absolutely not. I want someone to inspire me, not just tell me what to do.

    My trainer isn't ripped/toned/any kind of fitness superlative. But she doesn't carry a lot of excess fat, and she is muscular. She eats well and loves fitness. If she were obese, I wouldn't be a client. Sorry if that upsets any fat people who might aspire to the personal training world.
  • SashThompson
    SashThompson Posts: 130 Member
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    I used to PT and being young I used to get asked whether I knew what I was doing regardless of what condition I was in. While I understand people's reasons behind asking I know that being on the other side of it really sucks. How would you feel if a new person started at your work and then kept throwing sideways comments about whether or not you could do your job because of a few typos you made?
    Although in saying that, in an industry based on appearances I think a PT's best advertising is themselves so they'd be silly not keep themselves in a respectable condition.
  • Apazman
    Apazman Posts: 494 Member
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    Depends what you are looking for. I was very unfit and needed someone who could motivate me and help with a routine. Would have been intimidated by a super fit person

    Totally agree, Its also nice when people seem more approachable ..not the 6.5 foot / 0 body fat / Totally ripped black dude, who says, " I know exactly what you are going through" ... Ummmm .. No.. no you don't .. lol
  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
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    How would you feel if a new person started at your work and then kept throwing sideways comments about whether or not you could do your job because of a few typos you made?

    This is a terrible example.
  • sleepytexan
    sleepytexan Posts: 3,138 Member
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    I was just pondering the other day, whilst in the gym. We have several PT's at my gym, none of which, if i'm honest look like they practice what they preach so to speak. So would you use a unfit looking personal trainer? I know my view on it, just interested in other peoples ;-)

    there is an older, pudgy, male ballet coach at my dance studio -- huge wait list for his classes . . . his students are the serious ones looking to get into the big ballet companies. (he did formerly dance with Russian ballet then teach many many successful professionals). Looks can be deceiving.
  • LordBear
    LordBear Posts: 239 Member
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    appearance isnt everything..but that would depend on what u consider unfit.. some one could be overweight and look sloppy and be more fit than a skinny person. i would rather be trained by some one who has been to the dark side and then learned what they did wrong and fight through it... they know more of what they are talking about and know what it is like.. so if they know what they are doing...that thats who i would go with.
  • pants77
    pants77 Posts: 185 Member
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    I think trainers are a scam in general.

    You can find all your training info and needs on the internet.

    The internet can't watch your form and make sure you're doing your things properly, and most of the time you can't do it yourself by checking the mirrors - most times, if I'm looking in the mirror at the gym while lifting it means I've got my head/neck twisted or craned in a potentially harmful position. And the angles aren't great either.

    I have never had a PT but that's what I would use them for - what types of exercises should I do to get X results, and is my form correct?

    Whether they're in really good shape or not doesn't really have any impact on their ability to do these things.

    Do sports coaches have to be ex-players, able to outperform all their players in order to be effective coaches? Of course not.

    If anything, a really ripped PT probably has no idea what it's like to be me since they're probably genetically gifted and have never had to deal with the kinds of weight and athletic struggles that I have. I'd rather have a PT that knows where I'm coming from and has experienced what I am going through.