Which one is the most attractive to you?

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Hey Mr. 35, how YOU doin? :bigsmile:

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This one is kind of tough, I like 6%-25%, but frankly, the body at 25% has the best shoulders and chest, in my opinion. He just has a little bit of jiggle in the middle that could be whittled down pretty quickly. Its like its a pic of his progress because he is in the process of losing the body fat, you know?

30 and 35! Thick is beautiful!!!

Attractiveness goes alot deeper then how much water you can displace in the bath.

Regardless, most people don't approach strangers to try to get to know them unless they find that person physically attractive. Lets not pretend that we're all so deep that we don't care. We do. I might think my friend has an attractive personality and like hanging out with him, but I'm not going to date him if the notion of kissing him revolts me because I'm not even remotely attracted to him physically. And besides that, it really depends on what you're after. If you're just looking to get laid, who cares what the person's personality is like? Do the deed with someone you think is hot and then walk away. If you're looking for a relationship, you need both.

I mostly agree in that I think physical attraction is important in a long term relationship. However, sometimes physical attraction doesn't happen instantly. There have been times when I wasn't physically attracted to a guy when I first met him, but after getting to know him, I found myself more and more attracted to him. The flip side is when you meet someone that you're completely gaga over physically, but when you start talking to him, his personality or I.Q. level is a complete turn off.

Sure, that happens. I worked with one guy that I wasn't physically attracted to, and then I got to know him and I liked him. I would have dated him. But the only reason I got to know him was because we worked together. Honestly, if I saw him out somewhere, I wouldn't look twice at him, and I certainly wouldn't have approached him to talk to him. On the opposite end of the spectrum, I also worked with a guy when I was a lifeguard who was...stunning. And then he opened his mouth and he had the maturity level of an 8-year-old. Later, when girls would swoon over him, I'd think "Gross!"

When I wrote my reply, I was actually thinking of a specific person, a close friend of my sister and her husband. He'd had a pretty substantial crush on me, and I wasn't interested. He was a nice guy and we ended up hanging out together a lot. But he was quite overweight, and on the few occasions I sat down and forced myself to imagine myself in a sexual situation with him, or even just kissing and holding hands, it was literally shudder inducing. It was a huge point of contention because that was where he ultimately wanted to (and truly believed we would) end up, but I had told him that I wasn't interested. After a while we couldn't be friends anymore.

35%, or even 40%. (for women)

Attractiveness goes alot deeper then how much water you can displace in the bath.

Regardless, most people don't approach strangers to try to get to know them unless they find that person physically attractive. Lets not pretend that we're all so deep that we don't care. We do. I might think my friend has an attractive personality and like hanging out with him, but I'm not going to date him if the notion of kissing him revolts me because I'm not even remotely attracted to him physically. And besides that, it really depends on what you're after. If you're just looking to get laid, who cares what the person's personality is like? Do the deed with someone you think is hot and then walk away. If you're looking for a relationship, you need both.

I mostly agree in that I think physical attraction is important in a long term relationship. However, sometimes physical attraction doesn't happen instantly. There have been times when I wasn't physically attracted to a guy when I first met him, but after getting to know him, I found myself more and more attracted to him. The flip side is when you meet someone that you're completely gaga over physically, but when you start talking to him, his personality or I.Q. level is a complete turn off.

Sure, that happens. I worked with one guy that I wasn't physically attracted to, and then I got to know him and I liked him. I would have dated him. But the only reason I got to know him was because we worked together. Honestly, if I saw him out somewhere, I wouldn't look twice at him, and I certainly wouldn't have approached him to talk to him. On the opposite end of the spectrum, I also worked with a guy when I was a lifeguard who was...stunning. And then he opened his mouth and he had the maturity level of an 8-year-old. Later, when girls would swoon over him, I'd think "Gross!"

When I wrote my reply, I was actually thinking of a specific person, a close friend of my sister and her husband. He'd had a pretty substantial crush on me, and I wasn't interested. He was a nice guy and we ended up hanging out together a lot. But he was quite overweight, and on the few occasions I sat down and forced myself to imagine myself in a sexual situation with him, or even just kissing and holding hands, it was literally shudder inducing. It was a huge point of contention because that was where he ultimately wanted to (and truly believed we would) end up, but I had told him that I wasn't interested. After a while we couldn't be friends anymore.

Lol, yeah, because this guy was really into you and it sounded more like you lead him on than "gave it a try."

Men - 15%-25%

Women - 25%-30%.

I just had my body fat done last weekend & am at 31% and I have to say I don't look anywhere near the 30% pic, more like 40%

20 - 22 % women

anywhere between 25%-35%!

This!

ETA: After seeing the pic of men someone posted, I think anywhere from 10% to 25%

15% - 30%

Attractiveness goes alot deeper then how much water you can displace in the bath.

Regardless, most people don't approach strangers to try to get to know them unless they find that person physically attractive. Lets not pretend that we're all so deep that we don't care. We do. I might think my friend has an attractive personality and like hanging out with him, but I'm not going to date him if the notion of kissing him revolts me because I'm not even remotely attracted to him physically. And besides that, it really depends on what you're after. If you're just looking to get laid, who cares what the person's personality is like? Do the deed with someone you think is hot and then walk away. If you're looking for a relationship, you need both.

I mostly agree in that I think physical attraction is important in a long term relationship. However, sometimes physical attraction doesn't happen instantly. There have been times when I wasn't physically attracted to a guy when I first met him, but after getting to know him, I found myself more and more attracted to him. The flip side is when you meet someone that you're completely gaga over physically, but when you start talking to him, his personality or I.Q. level is a complete turn off.

Sure, that happens. I worked with one guy that I wasn't physically attracted to, and then I got to know him and I liked him. I would have dated him. But the only reason I got to know him was because we worked together. Honestly, if I saw him out somewhere, I wouldn't look twice at him, and I certainly wouldn't have approached him to talk to him. On the opposite end of the spectrum, I also worked with a guy when I was a lifeguard who was...stunning. And then he opened his mouth and he had the maturity level of an 8-year-old. Later, when girls would swoon over him, I'd think "Gross!"

When I wrote my reply, I was actually thinking of a specific person, a close friend of my sister and her husband. He'd had a pretty substantial crush on me, and I wasn't interested. He was a nice guy and we ended up hanging out together a lot. But he was quite overweight, and on the few occasions I sat down and forced myself to imagine myself in a sexual situation with him, or even just kissing and holding hands, it was literally shudder inducing. It was a huge point of contention because that was where he ultimately wanted to (and truly believed we would) end up, but I had told him that I wasn't interested. After a while we couldn't be friends anymore.

Lol, yeah, because this guy was really into you and it sounded more like you lead him on than "gave it a try."

I never gave it a try, and I never said I gave it a try. I couldn't, because I wasn't attracted to him at all physically. That was the point. And I told him from the very beginning that I would never date him but that we could be friends, so if he was "lead on" than he lead himself on.

I think the pictures are a little off for a few for the women. For the men, they left out a very important 8-9% middle ground.

Also, bf% is only one side of the story. If you have a very low bodyfat with no muscle behind it, you won't look very good.

20-30% on women and 10-20% on men.

35%

25%