Gutter Gang - Report in!!

I know you guys are thinking I am completely lying out my muscular manly buttocks, but I promise this is the truth.

I absolutely hate the phrase 'having sex'. I despise it. To me that's far too clinical and impersonal. I know it's argueing semantics, but to me...it's not.

Yes, I do enjoy cuddling. Sexual relations is so much more for me than a simple race to an orgasm. It's the experience, its the sharing of one's soul, it's looking someone in the eye as you have them in a completely vulnerable state, and knowing that you are sharing a part of yourself.

No. I'm not lying. Yes, I do feel like this. And yes, this really *is* how I love and want to be loved.

That's just how it is.

-J

1. Love the way you said muscular manly buttocks :huh:
2. When I have relations, there is no race... I enjoy taking my time.
3. I'm not an "after the fact" cuddler but I don't mind it.
4. Looking into my husbands eyes as I kiss him ever so gently turns me on more than anything.

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I know you guys are thinking I am completely lying out my muscular manly buttocks, but I promise this is the truth.

I absolutely hate the phrase 'having sex'. I despise it. To me that's far too clinical and impersonal. I know it's argueing semantics, but to me...it's not.

Yes, I do enjoy cuddling. Sexual relations is so much more for me than a simple race to an orgasm. It's the experience, its the sharing of one's soul, it's looking someone in the eye as you have them in a completely vulnerable state, and knowing that you are sharing a part of yourself.

No. I'm not lying. Yes, I do feel like this. And yes, this really *is* how I love and want to be loved.

That's just how it is.

-J
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I just have to say, that's probably the sexiest thing I've ever heard. It's good to know there are still guys like you out there!

forearms and legs. big beefy thighs and calfs... nothing sexier. oh and big broad shoulders... and a little tubby belly lol.

ooo just big strong hands in general...hehe

Aww J, we love you

:embarassed: :embarassed:

I'm the only non-cuddle chick here so far.

"Thanks honey, scooch on over now. Goodnight!" :bigsmile:

No you aren't.
I used to want to cuddle when my hubby and I were first together but after 13years, just give it to me and go away!! lol

I know you guys are thinking I am completely lying out my muscular manly buttocks, but I promise this is the truth.

I absolutely hate the phrase 'having sex'. I despise it. To me that's far too clinical and impersonal. I know it's argueing semantics, but to me...it's not.

Yes, I do enjoy cuddling. Sexual relations is so much more for me than a simple race to an orgasm. It's the experience, its the sharing of one's soul, it's looking someone in the eye as you have them in a completely vulnerable state, and knowing that you are sharing a part of yourself.

No. I'm not lying. Yes, I do feel like this. And yes, this really *is* how I love and want to be loved.

That's just how it is.

-J
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Do you have an older brother or uncle that thinks like you? :blushing:

(((This was supposed to quote J's post about cuddling... oh well :ohwell: )))


Yup gals, take heart, there are a few of them out there. I married one! :blushing:

And I thought it was just an act, to get my attention, but 6 1/2 years later, he's the exact same guy.

Cuddle afterwards? Yes or No??? :smokin:

Not only yes, but HECK YES.

that's the best part. :bigsmile:

LIAR!

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UM...WHAT DO YOU ACTUALLY do WHEN YOU HAVE SEX? :laugh:

I know you guys are thinking I am completely lying out my muscular manly buttocks, but I promise this is the truth.

I absolutely hate the phrase 'having sex'. I despise it. To me that's far too clinical and impersonal. I know it's argueing semantics, but to me...it's not.

Yes, I do enjoy cuddling. Sexual relations is so much more for me than a simple race to an orgasm. It's the experience, its the sharing of one's soul, it's looking someone in the eye as you have them in a completely vulnerable state, and knowing that you are sharing a part of yourself.

No. I'm not lying. Yes, I do feel like this. And yes, this really *is* how I love and want to be loved.

That's just how it is.

-J

"lying out my muscular manly buttocks"!?!?! oh my word, way to make me look like a fool laughing out loud here by myself!! :laugh: I love that you can be having a serious conversation and be funny at the same time!

that's awesome

It's hard to cuddle afterwards in the shower, water is always cold. Nighty night nookie, always (if we didn't wake the kids up), everything else, depends on the mood. Give me a hard man in a hot uniform!! Eyes, hands and chest and a super sweet sexy voice.

Dangggg, the things that happen when I'm away! HAHAHAHA!

I like a great smile, cute butt and nice eyes.

Well, it begs to be told that I managed to marry the one woman in the world that didn't think that my qualities were all that. I used to feel like I was relatively special, a unique man in an army of guys...but she took every bit of pride in those qualities away.

After my divorce, I tried to be a regular guy....but I hated it....I couldn't live with myself, so I just decided that if nice guys finish last, I will just have to learn to be happy being last.

I am finally happy to be last again.

Ya'll give me so much joy and confidence. You are all amazing human beings. I am so blessed.



-J

J,

Definitely just be yourself because you are a very special person and you deserve to be VERY happy!! I wish that for you SO much bro! As hard as it seems at the time, things do happen for a reason.


Tam

And I agree

Wow, Sarge. I haven't been on here in awhile so I'm not sure I know you, but you sound like an absolute sweetheart! I wish ya the best and always know....good women are also hard to come by, as are men. That's why I realized I should drop my girlfiends and get a dog. So I did and life is dandy.:happy:


ALL HAIL THE GOLDEN RETRIEVER!!!

Haha, and that is why I own two pugs. :laugh:

Tall, not too muscular, not skinny, with strong forearms that laughs at my jokes. Good thing I married him!