Matching Underwear

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  • StrengthIDidntKnow
    StrengthIDidntKnow Posts: 543 Member
    Not always a matching set, but always coordinated and the same material.
  • Ephena
    Ephena Posts: 610 Member
    More often than not I match, but it may not always be the bra and undies. Sometimes it's my bra and shoes or my undies and my shirt. I'm odd like that.

    One thing I do try to match on is if I'm wearing a skirt or dress (especially if they're shorter) I try to make sure my undies match the skirt/dress. When I had a guy he appreciated it because it was one of those private things we could joke about without people around us knowing what we were talking about.
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    From a male perspective I prefer a woman to always be wearing a matching bra and panties, shows a woman thinks about her appearance, even though majority of the time it's not on display. I also believe that wearing a sexy underwear set makes a woman feel sexy.
    My husband says if you're paying that much attention to the underwear, and not the woman, you might need to rethink your sexuality.
  • _Elemenopee_
    _Elemenopee_ Posts: 2,665 Member
    The best part of this thread? All of the side and bottom bar ads are for "big girl bras and panties" REALLY?!?!?!?!
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    I don't usually have both on at the same time. Bra during the day just needs to be comfortable and not show through my clothes. No panties. At night the bra comes off and the panties go on. Lol
  • moosegt35
    moosegt35 Posts: 1,296 Member
    I don't wear pants so I guess my bra matches itself!

    martyx

    Where I come from you can't just go out in public with no pants.
  • I'm glad I'm not the only one! I went through the VS matching sets phase when I was newly single. Now I'm back to the comfort of cotton low rise hiphuggers from Hanes. Of course they discontinued the style I liked ... sigh. I still like to "dress up" occasionally (matching VS) but overall, it's comfort before lace.
  • mrstravisjones
    mrstravisjones Posts: 104 Member
    only for anniversaries, valentine's, special date nights, husband's birthday...

    i doubt my husband cares either way, but i see it as me making an effort for a special occasion.

    other than that, all underwear decisions are made based on the laundry cycle.
  • Juliejustsaying
    Juliejustsaying Posts: 2,332 Member
    I always thought guys perfered women to be naked. But! I actually had to go out and buy panties just so my bf could unwrap me like a present...his words. And yes, he does get whatever he wants...lol
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    From a male perspective I prefer a woman to always be wearing a matching bra and panties, shows a woman thinks about her appearance, even though majority of the time it's not on display. I also believe that wearing a sexy underwear set makes a woman feel sexy.
    My husband says if you're paying that much attention to the underwear, and not the woman, you might need to rethink your sexuality.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • TheViperMan
    TheViperMan Posts: 235 Member
    I scrolled through this thread for ZERO pictures?!?

    Worse. Thread. Ever!
  • EmGetsFit
    EmGetsFit Posts: 151 Member
    From a male perspective I prefer a woman to always be wearing a matching bra and panties, shows a woman thinks about her appearance, even though majority of the time it's not on display. I also believe that wearing a sexy underwear set makes a woman feel sexy.
    From a womans persepective I prefer if mean would keep their pie holes shut. I feel sexy regardless of the kind of underware I am wearing. but thanks.

    Haha, this made me laugh. Love it! I like mine to match in general because I find coordinating fun. However, it's not because I care what men I don't even know think of my appearance. If I'm dating him, yes, then he gets to see it and take it off. ;) If not, they'll just have to live with the mystery (read: pie hole shut, haha).
  • Louisianababy93
    Louisianababy93 Posts: 1,709 Member
    if they dont match, the colors go together atleast.

    but,i never match my socks if that counts for anything!
  • katescurios
    katescurios Posts: 224 Member
    I have huge boobs so matching sets are always super expensive. One of my goals is to be able to fit into a more standard size so I can take advantage of all the great underwear available that's pretty and cheap :D
  • Jipples
    Jipples Posts: 650 Member
    So, in short.....if you are a guy, and ya boo is going out of town for business, and you notice she's wearing matching bra and panties, where she normally doesn't, is that a sign?
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
    When I am a working ranch girl, I wear basic cotton, top and bottom in either black, grey or white(socks to match). The rest of the time, I run the gamut from wildly sexy bra/panty sets(Target, Walmart and VS) to commando...
  • tinad120
    tinad120 Posts: 267 Member
    I try to coordinate everyday- it just makes the day feel better. I dont' but matching sets, but I but things int he same color and material so it feels like a match to me.

    I usually get things at VS or Macy's :)
  • kimmianne89
    kimmianne89 Posts: 428 Member
    90% of the time I match.
    Although most of the time my socks don't match! :(
  • iAMsmiling
    iAMsmiling Posts: 2,394 Member
    From a male perspective I prefer a woman to always be wearing a matching bra and panties, shows a woman thinks about her appearance, even though majority of the time it's not on display. I also believe that wearing a sexy underwear set makes a woman feel sexy.
    My husband says if you're paying that much attention to the underwear, and not the woman, you might need to rethink your sexuality.

    I'd only notice the underwear if she kept it on too long or left it there in the morning. Otherwise, not so much.
  • Don't think I own a matching set!
  • PixieGoddess
    PixieGoddess Posts: 1,833 Member
    I don't have any "sets" but I do color-coordinate 99.9% of the time. My mother demanded it. She's a nurse and is all about the "What if you're in an accident?!?" My response has always been, "If I'm in an accident and at the point where they're having to cut my clothes off, I would hope they have other things on their mind than whether or not my underwear matches!" But yes, I do tend to make sure they match most days, just not for that reason. I like feeling like I have on an entire outfit, and will often try to match my blouse as well. Sometimes my heels, too - especially if I'm going to see my boyfriend! :wink:
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    oh you mean I am supposed to wear them both at the same time??? My bad
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I feel off kilter all day when my bra and panties dont match - so much so that I only buy them in sets or solids I can pretend came together.

    My fave places for panties are taget simply because you can find a cut you love and then get them in like 40 different patterns and color combos for like 3-5$ ea.

    Also - forever21 is having a sale on panties right now - I got some Wonder Woman ones and some Twister ones.

    But yeah - Target and VS are my forever go-tos for panties.
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
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  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    I wear matching bra, panties when i KNOW someone will see it. lol.
    otherwise its what is comfy and clean and goes with what im wearing for the day!

    :)

    ^^^^ This
  • Cranktastic
    Cranktastic Posts: 1,517 Member
    wearing panties is overrated.
  • ShaSimone
    ShaSimone Posts: 270 Member
    Gap Body most recently with my weight loss. They have decent sales and the undies are cute and seem well made.
    I don't usually match bras and panties, it is usually whatever is clean and doesn't show lines, etc. I do agree that I strut a little more when I feel sexy, don't know if undies are 100 percent of the credit. Panties are replaced every 2-3 years, Bras can go 3-5 years. depends on wear and tear, how often they are washed.

    When I was larger, Lane Bryant was my store of choice and I had more opportunity to match bra and panty because of how thier underwear line is sold.
  • millions0fpeaches
    millions0fpeaches Posts: 195 Member
    Mine don't have to match 100% but the colors and/or patterns have to compliment each other somehow. I've found that most guys don't notice if your underwear match your bra... but they DO notice if they don't. It just looks wonky. Even so, for me, it has nothing to do with who will see me in my undies... It just drives me nuts. I also have about 25 bras and over 150 pairs of underwear, so there's no reason for me not to match. I have plenty of options.

    Most of mine come from Victoria's Secret because it's hard for me to find my size elsewhere. Aaaand because I have one of their Angel cards...

    ETA: For some reason, my socks almost never match though... We're not just talking white socks, either.
  • PixieGoddess
    PixieGoddess Posts: 1,833 Member
    So, in short.....if you are a guy, and ya boo is going out of town for business, and you notice she's wearing matching bra and panties, where she normally doesn't, is that a sign?

    That's not just a sign - that's a marquee!
  • HopefulLeigh
    HopefulLeigh Posts: 363 Member
    From a male perspective I prefer a woman to always be wearing a matching bra and panties, shows a woman thinks about her appearance, even though majority of the time it's not on display. I also believe that wearing a sexy underwear set makes a woman feel sexy.

    It took me a long time to realize this as a woman. Equally important as sexy is comfort, though, and I'm having trouble finding comfortable matching sets. Especially those that don't break the bank. No one's sexy if they're constantly adjusting their cleavage so the underwire doesn't hurt or digging lacey panties out of their cracks.

    OP, I'll do you one better. I used to buy the six packs of granny panties at Walmart. They were comfy and really, who was going to see them other than me and my husband? I got stuck in a rut, then had my daughter, let my appearance go even more and not surprisingly found myself rather depressed. Nothing fit right, nothing was comfortable, I wasn't sexy, you name it. Then I said, "Screw it" and picked up the riskier sexy boyshorts and a handful of lacey goodness. I still wear the grannies now and then, but I feel like I can take on the world in the tiniest panties I could find and it's a good feeling.

    ETA - I still buy my panties on the cheap at Walmart and will until I'm at goal. Then I'm splurging on all sorts of sexy goodness and it damn well better match.