Are looks enough to get girls?

WeekndOVOXO
WeekndOVOXO Posts: 779 Member
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  • PropertyofRTH
    PropertyofRTH Posts: 10
    No
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    Absolutely not. At least, not this kind of girl.
  • Lindsay_N
    Lindsay_N Posts: 100
    looks are nothing to get girls... atleast the good girls
  • Lindsay_N
    Lindsay_N Posts: 100
    Find someone with an attractive personality, and they will have an attractive appearance.
  • brevislux
    brevislux Posts: 1,093 Member
    For flings, yes. For a relationship - only girls with pretty low standards.
  • wellbert
    wellbert Posts: 3,924 Member
    ugly and rich beats poor and beautiful any day
  • maxiimise
    maxiimise Posts: 16 Member
    I totally agree, Lindsay.. people that look back are not going to remember you by how you looked.... they'll remember you for your personality and how you treated others.
  • invisibubble
    invisibubble Posts: 662 Member
    Some girls, yes, at least to draw them to you. Keeping them, however, no.
  • abbsjhux
    abbsjhux Posts: 31
    Yes, but only if you want a very selfish air head type of girl. A girl worth being with will get sick and tired of not having anything in common and nothing to mentally stimulate her. And then of course she would probably get annoyed at how you manage to be so attractive all the time!
  • ElizaRoche
    ElizaRoche Posts: 2,005 Member
    not at all... Its a combination of looks and personality
    Girls might be attracted at first to hot guys, but if a hot guy has a personality that sucks, it wont last.
  • KarmaxKitty
    KarmaxKitty Posts: 901 Member
    No. At least not entirely. Beauty (handsomeness???) should never be only skin deep.
  • Lindsay_N
    Lindsay_N Posts: 100
    .. edit
  • Jenny_Taylia
    Jenny_Taylia Posts: 540 Member
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  • JosephVitte
    JosephVitte Posts: 2,039
    Looks are good enough to get girls........................it's gonna take more than that to keep them though. Some studly looking guys can't perform up to par with a womans standards (bedroom)............some don't know how to treat a woman (emotionally).............and some don't have any interest past getting laid initially anyways. (you just got played..... I hope you're a playa)
  • PropertyofRTH
    PropertyofRTH Posts: 10
    They forgot to mention money. You need that. Lots of it.
  • Lindsay_N
    Lindsay_N Posts: 100
    Looks are enough to get any superficial or materialistic guy or girl. If you want a long term, HAPPY relationship you need to have good personalities that match. Nothing has to do with how you perform in the bedroom... if a guy isnt up to par, he can use his tongue or toys.

    If we are just talking about one night stands, ofcourse looks are one of the first priorities.
  • Louisianababy93
    Louisianababy93 Posts: 1,709 Member
    you have to be some kind of attracted to that person in some aspect to wanna atleast date them
  • Debbe2
    Debbe2 Posts: 2,071 Member
    Looks are enough to get girls to look. But looks aren't enough to get girls. Make sense?
  • KuroNyankoSensei
    KuroNyankoSensei Posts: 288 Member
    There's always initial attraction, considering that's how the homosapiens have always worked, (and animals in general,) but since humans are more complex beyond looking for the ideal partner to mate with and produce progeny, it usually comes down to how the guy treats his girl ;3.

    Emotional issues are usually the problem in most relationships o_o.
  • WeekndOVOXO
    WeekndOVOXO Posts: 779 Member
    So we've established that:

    It's possible to be enough if it's just for hooking up, if the girl is materialistic, and/or low standards. However for relationships, it is not enough, but you still need some sort of attraction.

    Mhm.

    And @ PropertyofRTH:

    http://youtu.be/BaLRpFdZ2V4
  • theWinchester
    theWinchester Posts: 68 Member
    Um personally no, if I find a person attractive their personality will either build more attraction or ruin it completely. I know that is true for others as well.

    It is the personalty that decides, You may look like Tom Hardy but if you are a *kitten* you might as be pee wee herman. :laugh:
  • PropertyofRTH
    PropertyofRTH Posts: 10
    Beer goggles...work every time.
  • emzypemzy93
    emzypemzy93 Posts: 185
    For a short term thing like just a fling or a one night stand then yeah... but if you're talking about a long term/serious/potentially marriage kinda thing then no.. But yeah looks draws a persons attention to you in the beginning..
  • ReinasWrath
    ReinasWrath Posts: 1,173 Member
    Not enough for the type of chick you would want, and even if it is it isn't going to be enough to keep them long term.
  • ifyouknew
    ifyouknew Posts: 68 Member
    Nope. Looks are all a woman needs to get a guy, but looks are almost irrelevant when women look for a man. If a man is smart, responsible, funny, kind etc that's all he needs. Good looks would just be a bonus!
  • Lindsay_N
    Lindsay_N Posts: 100
    Well I have seen quite a few men that I have thought "That guy would be so attractive... if he didnt have such a piece of **** personality" .... I would be so sad if I found out Bradley Cooper, Johnny Depp, and Ryan Gossling, had cocky, *kitten* personalities. It ruins everything about them Im attracted to. I can see a guy and notice his good looks, but if his personality sucks, then hes no good.

    Meanwhile, if I meet a guy that doesnt have all the looks, but his personality is completely awesome, then its a go.
  • needernt
    needernt Posts: 675 Member
    Whisch aspect you care the most in men?

    personality
    beautiful look
    attractive body
    education
    welth

    rate them
  • amnsetie
    amnsetie Posts: 666 Member
    How about ability to cook??
  • NOTLUPUS
    NOTLUPUS Posts: 32
    people are superficial by nature. Notice how the majority of people in this thread unanimously agreed that they need some "good looks in there somewhere" for them to be attracted?

    I wish it wasn't that way, for me you need to have some passion ( in something ) and not half *kitten* things to be attractive. I tried online dating and the majority of women only sent me messages such as "Hey" and "Hello" and always my favorite "yo". If I can make the effort to type up four or five personalized sentences after reading someone's profile I want to meet, it would be nice for one of two in return. Don't even get me started about putting the damn cellphone away during a date for 5 minutes.

    Ladies, you know you can be just as judgmental about looks as men. In todays society The Beast never gets Beauty, he gets Gaston's axe to the back of the head while Beauty swoons over how brave looking Gaston is. If the beast defends himself and injuries Gaston he's being "an *kitten*"
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    This is more than just a yes or no question. Looks are enough to get SOME girls, but not keep them (atleast not a girl with some self-esteem). However, looks aren't the only thing that gets you the girls. Anyone that knows me irl will say that I'm not a looker yet I do decent with girls.

    If you got looks going for you, it will certainly help. If you got money, that will help too (and not due to gold digger factor, money can bring you expensive clothings etc. which lets face it, even quality girls won't say no to). But you can always count on the way you interact with women to be the deal closer.

    And if all else fails, you can do what I do and get the ladies with the accent and the brown skin!

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