Relationship advice...Please!

I'm sorry, but that's just sad. Maybe you're the one that doesn't deserve him? Why is it so wrong for people to have friends of the opposite gender AND compliment them?

You asked for honest, and you're getting it. DUMP HIS SORRY *kitten*.

Give him his wish and let him date the other chick.

Forbidding him for them to be friends? Yeah...good luck with that.

By sparing her feeling he hurt yours. You should be priority. If it's one slip up then i think it's something to look past. But if it really taints what you have with him (which it might for me), then there's little sense in staying with someone when such a roadblock is there. Again, if it's just a minor slip up you might need to step up and forgive : )

men aren't mind readers. if you didn't make it CRYSTAL clear that you are not comfortable with him being around this girl (especially in a one on one situation) you can't blame him for assuming it would be okay. sounds like you need to speak up and set some concrete boundaries.

This. Especially if the other girl - a couple weeks ago - basically asked him out on a dinner date. Remain calm and tell him that what she did was over the line and you don't want them fraternizing any more than with circle of friends - if even that much. If he respects your opinion and agrees, great. If not, then don't keep yourself in a (likely) bad situation.

I'm sorry, but that's just sad. Maybe you're the one that doesn't deserve him? Why is it so wrong for people to have friends of the opposite gender AND compliment them?

You have a strange view on the term compliment.

"You look nice today." = compliment.

"You're smart, funny and gorgeous. You'll find someone amazing." = compliment.

"If I wasn't with my girlfriend, I would be with you." = Seriously?

Have your man say that to some chick and see how you react to it.

I was about to say the EXACT same thing.

no actually....i dont think that he will now....we have been together for 2 years now. when he said that it was about 13 months into the relationship.....but that mesage made me concerned about their emotional bond, and if he secretly likes her....idk

being together two years does not mean that he will not cheat.. my relationship of three years ended last month because he started an affair on the side two months ago. If he has some sort of insecurity or is a commitment-phobe (my-ex cheated because we were moving in together and discussing rings, blah blah blah, this 31-year old woman (he's 24) was pursuing him and he just eventually fed into it) and there are other women that are feeding these insecurities or making him feel good about himself, he can stray. But what I learned from my situation is that you should never EVER be worried about someone elses actions. I was willing to work through the cheating issue, but then I came to realize that I, or any other woman for that matter, should NOT be a second choice in her relationship. You deserve someone who will make you happy and who will give you all their love. You're not going to be able to enjoy a relationship if you're constantly worrying about your security in the girlfriend position. It's hard..but I think you need to move on if it's still bothering you.

If you're still festering about it a year later then whether it was innocent of not, the damage is done. Time to move on and either find someone who won't give you these feelings or check yourself to make sure you don't have jealousy issues. Good luck!

Run, don't walk. My husband had a woman who was his best friend and it didn't turn out very well.... When you are dating, you are on your best behavior. I wouldn't waste any more time at all. Let her have him.

He sounds like a douche. Did you ask him about it?

Yes i confronted him about it, and he said he was just trying to boost her self-esteem

I don't buy it. But you would know him best. Does he have any other past behavior that may prove him to be unfaithful to you?

REALLY, SERIOUSLY.... that's BS.