Whats the diff between a flirt and a creeper???

valluco75
valluco75 Posts: 65
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Can somebody tell me what the difference is between a flirt and a creeper?
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  • vjohn04
    vjohn04 Posts: 2,276 Member
    If you're asking, you're probably a creeper :):flowerforyou:
  • victoria4321
    victoria4321 Posts: 1,719 Member
    If you're asking, you're probably a creeper :):flowerforyou:

    LOL yup.

    Usually the creeper is unattractive, but to the person they're creeping on. Someone else might not think the flirting is creepy though
  • Irish_Chica
    Irish_Chica Posts: 295
    A naked picture request for starters
  • valluco75
    valluco75 Posts: 65
    If you're asking, you're probably a creeper :):flowerforyou:

    LOL yup.

    Usually the creeper is unattractive, but to the person they're creeping on. Someone else might not think the flirting is creepy though

    So a creeper is judged on hotness?
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    Creeper straight up messages you "hey sexy". Flirt might say that after establishing a friendship. Of course, if later in said friendship they try to send you nude pics, no longer flirt. Creeper.
  • victoria4321
    victoria4321 Posts: 1,719 Member
    If you're asking, you're probably a creeper :):flowerforyou:

    LOL yup.

    Usually the creeper is unattractive, but to the person they're creeping on. Someone else might not think the flirting is creepy though

    So a creeper is judged on hotness?

    In person, yes. On the internet, I'm not too sure.
  • trojanbb
    trojanbb Posts: 1,297 Member
    The ONLY difference is that if the girl finds the person attractive, he is automatically upgraded from creeper to flirt.
  • WeekndOVOXO
    WeekndOVOXO Posts: 779 Member
    If the guys unattractive.

    //thread
  • marvelprime
    marvelprime Posts: 91 Member
    Can somebody tell me what the difference is between a flirt and a creeper?
    In general, I agree with the attraction rule.

    However, any person can quickly get demoted or promoted depending on the circumstances.
  • gmallan
    gmallan Posts: 2,099 Member
    Whether the attention is wanted or unwanted.

    Whether the person flirts back
  • mjrkearney
    mjrkearney Posts: 408 Member
    A creeper makes you uncomfortable. A flirter makes you feel special.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Whether the attention is wanted or unwanted.

    Whether the person flirts back

    I think this is pretty fairly stated.

    Though I do think the attractiveness comments play a large role.
  • jboccio90
    jboccio90 Posts: 644 Member
    a flirt is someone who starts off with innocent banter where as a creeper just flat says nasty things..

    I have had attractive guys creep and message random dirty things.
  • carryingon
    carryingon Posts: 609 Member
    a flirt is someone who starts off with innocent banter where as a creeper just flat says nasty things..

    I have had attractive guys creep and message random dirty things.

    tru dat:smile:
  • Ivey05131980
    Ivey05131980 Posts: 1,118 Member
    I had a random guy a few days ago send me a private message...by the things he was saying I was thinking to myself " is this my husband testing me?" lol...idk, thin line between the two IMO.
  • Louisianababy93
    Louisianababy93 Posts: 1,709 Member
    Creepers are just.. Idk there's just a creepy vibe about creepers, you know!?

    & flirts are fun!
  • NocturnalGirl
    NocturnalGirl Posts: 1,762
    The ONLY difference is that if the girl finds the person attractive, he is automatically upgraded from creeper to flirt.

    Sadly, this is correct. It is based on attractiveness (oh and age sometimes).
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    a flirt is someone who starts off with innocent banter where as a creeper just flat says nasty things..

    I have had attractive guys creep and message random dirty things.

    I agree with this. Obviously there is no hard and fast rule, because it doesn't depend on attractiveness for me! Doesn't matter how hot you are; if you nasty, you a creep! And I've had older overweight dudes flirt with me, but I wouldn't think of them as creeps. All depends on the approach!
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
    do guys really think sending a message and being dirty right off the bat will get them anywhere?
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    do guys really think sending a message and being dirty right off the bat will get them anywhere?

    I've wondered that too. Hmm maybe I'll reply to the next creepy message and ask if they've ever had success with their approach.
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    do guys really think sending a message and being dirty right off the bat will get them anywhere?

    I've wondered that too. Hmm maybe I'll reply to the next creepy message and ask if they've ever had success with their approach.

    Hah. I wonder what kind of reply you would get.
  • marvelprime
    marvelprime Posts: 91 Member
    I have a lot of female friends who are more a bit less old fashion than I am (hence why just friends)

    Yes, I can attest to that sometimes dirty works right off the bat. Then, usually, they come to me as a sounding board about how the guy treated them wrong. And, they also try to sell me on "having fun". It's kind of like a used car dealer who really believes that the lemon they have is the greatest sports car ever made. And, they try to sell you that you should get the same kind of ride.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I have a lot of female friends who are more a bit less old fashion than I am (hence why just friends)

    Yes, I can attest to that sometimes dirty works right off the bat. Then, usually, they come to me as a sounding board about how the guy treated them wrong. And, they also try to sell me on "having fun". It's kind of like a used car dealer who really believes that the lemon they have is the greatest sports car ever made. And, they try to sell you that you should get the same kind of ride.


    HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
    everyone knows you have to wait at least 7-10 emails before getting naughy...duh.
  • shiraLA
    shiraLA Posts: 272 Member
    a flirt is someone who starts off with innocent banter where as a creeper just flat says nasty things..

    I have had attractive guys creep and message random dirty things.

    tru dat:smile:

    I agree
  • jboccio90
    jboccio90 Posts: 644 Member
    do guys really think sending a message and being dirty right off the bat will get them anywhere?

    obviously because numerous have done it, my favorite are the married ones with children -_-
  • Firephoenix013
    Firephoenix013 Posts: 214
    Creepers usually have that creepy music playing as they creep along...........you know kinda like that jaws music.......I think I hear it now......................................dum dum............dum dum...............dumdumdumdumdumdumdumdum DUM DUM DUM DUM.....DUMDUMDUMDUMDUMDUMDUMDUM
  • _JR_
    _JR_ Posts: 830 Member
    A Flirt tells you "you're beautiful in that dress"

    A Creeper tells you "you're beautiful in that dress" while violently spanking his monkey outside your office window!
  • pullipgirl
    pullipgirl Posts: 767 Member
    creepers are more harassing and overly intense
  • rlmiller73190
    rlmiller73190 Posts: 342 Member
    A creeper has a tendency to be unattractive, yes, but usually they are a little overzealous or overbearing.

    Example: Last night, my friend's friend bought us beer. I was drinking my beer, and the guy who bought us beer thought that because he had paid for a beer, he had a right to touch my butt. Every time I moved away, he moved closer and put his arms around my hips and touched my butt. Wasn't happy about that.

    When I got away from him, a man came up to me and asked if I had ever been with a black man before and that he thought I needed more black men in my life. He proceeded to pet my hair and put his arms around me. Again, unsolicited and I was unhappy about it.

    Regardless of whether or not those men were attractive (to me), they were overstepping my boundaries, and thus, were deemed creepers. .

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