What's the most backhanded compliment you've ever recieved?

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  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,026 Member
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    You look amazing for your age!

    I just creeped your pictures and trust me, you look amazing for ANY age.
  • VaingloriousVictoria
    VaingloriousVictoria Posts: 137 Member
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    (At the time, I had lost 75 pounds...)

    Coworker: OMG, pretty soon I am going to walk in and see a floating head.
    Me: What?
    Coworker: You're losing so much weight there is going to be nothing left of you.
    Me: Awkward silence...Thanks! Strange smile...

    -Scene closed- (-.-)

    This cracked me up!!! What a strange thing that person said.

    We don't really get along, but she was trying to be nice... I laughed about this for about a week solid! :)
  • salsasally
    salsasally Posts: 38 Member
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    How about, 'your so lucky your tall, it hides your extra weight.'

    Urr, thanks.
  • smittybuilt19
    smittybuilt19 Posts: 955 Member
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    The wife and I were gossiping about former classmates and how they have changed over the past 6 years or so and I said to her "I wonder what they think of me?" she said, "they probably think you're a skinny looking freak."

    Thanks for the support! oh yea, and the compliment. It's nice that someone thinks I'm skinny, even with about ten pounds left until goal weight.
  • young1726
    young1726 Posts: 347 Member
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    My husband and I started dating almost 9 years ago...which is when I initially started putting on my weight. Just a couple months after we started dating I was having a feel sorry for myself fat evening (crying about it, of course). He really was trying to be nice.

    "I don't know what you're making such a big deal about. You're no fatter than the day I met you."
  • ericaknight95
    ericaknight95 Posts: 127 Member
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    From a guy I had been hopelessly crushing on in high school, "You're really pretty, but you'd be hot if you lost some weight."
    Eff you too.
  • Effpcos
    Effpcos Posts: 350 Member
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    "I have a box of old clothes in the garage that are too big for me now. I bet they'd look great on you; you should go take a look!"

    No mom, I don't want your fat clothes.

    Why is that such a mean thing? Were the clothes not nice or something?

    I've offered clothes to a friend once but I didn't think it was offensive at the time. I figured they were pretty expensive and nice business clothes so why not offer it to a friend first before donating them.

    I can't speak for the op of that quote but when my mother offered her FAT clothes to me I did find it insulting, because of the way she said it, and because she is quite a bit bigger than me.
  • MariaMariaM
    MariaMariaM Posts: 1,322 Member
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    I was out with some girlfriends having a good time when this "kid" sits next to me and offers to buy a drink. I said thanks but no thanks. He then says what is someone in her mid 20s doing by herself. I replied that I was not by myself (friends were all single and left me alone for awhile), 2 that he might want to add at least 12 years to that mid-20s range and 3) I am married. He then says: Wow, I would not have guessed you were that old. For what it is worth you are really hot for someone of your age.

    I am 37, this kid was probably just turning 21. LOL
  • chopzgurl05
    chopzgurl05 Posts: 84 Member
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    You look good. . . For being a mom *sigh*
  • annahuebscher
    annahuebscher Posts: 114
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    "You are hot...for a black girl." Sad but true.

    I once got "you're the hottest white girl I've ever seen"....yeah.
  • manda1978
    manda1978 Posts: 525 Member
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    My mother in law asked what size I am, I told her, her response 'you only lost weight to look good to other men' WTF?

    When she later asked what I weigh, her response 'you just said that to upset me' again WTF?
  • bkknights
    bkknights Posts: 93 Member
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    You look like you've lost weight...your face was much rounder. Really??
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
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    My mother in law asked what size I am, I told her, her response 'you only lost weight to look good to other men' WTF?

    When she later asked what I weigh, her response 'you just said that to upset me' again WTF?

    Wow, oversensitive much?? That's terrible!
  • LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo
    LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo Posts: 3,634 Member
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    "You have such a pretty face, and you look hot..... if only you're thinner"

    The main source: my nosey family

    EDIT: Btw that happened years ago when I was still obese
  • nphect
    nphect Posts: 474
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    My mother in law asked what size I am, I told her, her response 'you only lost weight to look good to other men' WTF?

    When she later asked what I weigh, her response 'you just said that to upset me' again WTF?

    PSYCHOOOOOOOOOO
  • nphect
    nphect Posts: 474
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    In high school " you would be pretty if you would dress better and when your face clears up" Needless to say middle school and high school sucked *kitten*!! I had acne, big boobs and was a huge Tomboy.. Fun times

    yes big boobs those are terrible :|
  • paxetamore
    paxetamore Posts: 399 Member
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    How about, 'your so lucky your tall, it hides your extra weight.'

    Urr, thanks.

    Oh yeah, that's one of my faves, along with "you carry your weight so well" :noway:
  • Laura_Suzie
    Laura_Suzie Posts: 1,288 Member
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    I do theatre and I'm constantly around other actresses, there are far too many to mention...
  • sweetbippy
    sweetbippy Posts: 189 Member
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    She loves to make snide little comments in her loving voice, nobody notices except the person she is making the remark to.

    Do we share a mother-in-law?!

    Our MIL's should all be in a club.
  • faithorfood
    faithorfood Posts: 11
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    I was excited about going to my high school reunion but hadn't lost all my weight yet. I picked out a new outfit and my sweetie nodded his approval. The day of the reunion when I put it on and asked him what he thought he smiled and said..."It's kinda cute." KINDA OF CUTE!!!! Men don't ever tell a lady she looks kinda cute. Didn't wear it but its forever known as my kinda of cute outfit: :wink:

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