Girls only

Turn on - good sense of humor
Turn off - someone with no empathy, or someone who is controlling

Attractions: a nice smile, a good listener, and a good sense of humour.

Turn-offs: someone who is critical, gossipy or judgemental

Turn on- good sense of humor (cliched but so true), intelligence
Turn off- smoking

turn offs : not respectful, mean spirited, angry, never smiles, no motivation, heartless, putting everyone down, excessive drinking/smoking, player

turn ons: being a great guy, wonderful sense of humour, kind, always smiling, motivated in many aspects of life and love, romantic, loving, sweet natured, strong, sensitive, shows emotion, protective, caring, fun, fun, fun, genuine and honest, truthful and has an open heart

that ought to do it lol

For me the first thing is scent - I love a man who smells good! my best guy friend is not the sexiest man alive looks wise, but he smells hella awesome - I'm sure he wears Issey miyake, and it really makes the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.

Turn off - try hards

agree

Attraction of course....a great sense of humor is very important, loyal, trustworthy, and overall a great personality!

Turn on: Job, education, manners, class, old-fashioned moral values, hard worker, helps little old ladies cross the street,

everything above plus good humor, kind, loving and beautiful eyes.

turn off: being rude, language, smoker and someone that puts himself first before others.

Turn on: Job, education, manners, class, old-fashioned moral values, hard worker, helps little old ladies cross the street, loves cats.

Turn off: Smoking, tattoos, criminal record, drinker, saggy pants, piercings, disrespectful, no ambition, swearing, poor hygiene, and poor grammar.

Wow maybe you should move to Pleasantville :laugh:

Turn on: Job, education, manners, class, old-fashioned moral values, hard worker, helps little old ladies cross the street, loves cats.

Turn off: Smoking, tattoos, criminal record, drinker, saggy pants, piercings, disrespectful, no ambition, swearing, poor hygiene, and poor grammar.

Wow maybe you should move to Pleasantville :laugh:

Pleasantville, Utah?

Turn on - CONFIDENCE (but not douche cocky), Good sense of humor, Geek :P

Turn off - Having no goal/purpose in life, LAZINESS, Douche Canoe

Turn off - Douche Canoe

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Traditional manners--opening doors for me, deferring to me in lines (especially in church at communion time,) financial stability, good hygeine, great smell, loyalty. For me, I like dominate men--a little control doesn't bother me. I like to know that he is in control and that I am safe in his protectiveness.

Turn off to me are not working, drinking to excess, poor hygiene especially oral care, fake sincerity, not dressing to the occasion, mean attitudes or disrespect in any way, etc.

Attractive things: Being a good person, thinks family is important, good hygiene
Unattractive things: Smelliness, jealousy, snobiness, sexism

The smile is what usually gets me first. Humor and intelligence are also very important. It also helps if you have something in common so you can build on it. I usually go for the clean-cut, nerdy type.

And I agree with most of the others with turn-offs: Being overly cocky, smoking, lots of tattoos, etc.

Truth be told, I wasn't initially attracted to my bf when I first met him (hopefully he doesn't ever read this!), but then we started talking and I found out he's quirky and not afraid to show it. He's passionate and not money-driven. His dad is his best friend.
He likes to dress nice and smell good, that's just a perk :P

turn-offs: arrogance (there's a difference between being confident and being arrogant. the earlier you learn it, the better off you'll be!); ed hardy clothes (personal opinion, some people like it, i'm not one of them); drugs