do you ladies like to hear....

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  • cbormac
    cbormac Posts: 19
    Coming from a shy person such as myself, it takes courage to compliment a woman. From me anyways, it IS sincere

    I agree, if I say it I definately mean it... In fact sometimes I get frustrated when I tell someone who I think is beautiful, that they are beautiful and they disagree with me.
  • themeaningofthemorning
    themeaningofthemorning Posts: 320 Member
    I like to hear it. But only from people I know are being earnest. If it's just some low-class idiot on the street who thinks catcalling is going to get him laid, no.
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    Yup, I enjoy it. I smile, and I say thank you.

    However, if I tell you I am married, please do not continue to hit on me.

    I would get compliments, then it usually follows with, "are you happy in your marriage?" and other crap like that.

    That gets annoying! What type of skank am I to cheat on my husband?

    LOL yes, after saying I'm married it's often followed with "Happily?"
  • DiaryOfaThickFitWoman
    DiaryOfaThickFitWoman Posts: 406 Member
    Yes of course, self consciously or not!
  • rompers16
    rompers16 Posts: 5,404 Member
    I'd rather be told I'm loved/liked/appreciated than sexy or hot (not that I would turn down a compliment of any kind) :bigsmile:
  • FORKDOWN
    FORKDOWN Posts: 1,754
    I hate it when a man says that to me......oh you mean ladies..:embarassed:
  • BIRT1956
    BIRT1956 Posts: 31 Member
    Not from random people, no.

    when its from random people its the best.

    They don't know you and don't HAVE to tell you that you look a certian way.

    Also its more sincere
    I agree. A doctor visiting the medical facility where I work came up to me and told me I had the most beautiful smile. I had never seen him before or since but it makes me smile to this day whenever I think about it. Just a random comment with no underlying motive.
  • kmorg22
    kmorg22 Posts: 180
    Yes, ladies like to hear those things. :)



    Even if she says she doesn't believe you - if you stop saying it, she'll really start to doubt herself.

    this
  • TheFitHooker
    TheFitHooker Posts: 3,357 Member
    I hear it a lot nearly every day if not every day. I just love it and eat it up. It's actually gotten me to believe it. SO no, you are not wasting your time...
  • Flame073
    Flame073 Posts: 62
    Compliments make me feel awkward .. not sure whats up with that but if or when I get one I prefer compliments like .. Nice eyes or smile or whatever .. Rather that the sexy/hot ones .. Even though there is a place for that too ????
  • RLDeShazo
    RLDeShazo Posts: 356 Member
    :explode: anything but.... babe or hun... eww

    I HATE when random strangers use terms of endearment. You have to earn calling me baby or sweetie. Been dating a guy for about 2 months, and we just started this week calling eachother names like that.
  • carryingon
    carryingon Posts: 609 Member
    Depends on who is saying it... Are we talking about someone leering and mouth breathing while asking way too much info for someone who doesn't know us:frown: ? or just a regular guy:heart: ?
  • Subowski
    Subowski Posts: 71
    You say, "Babe, you're looking hot tonight. You're so beautiful."
    We hear, "Eh love, put your lips around this and say Showaddywaddy."
  • Strobins05
    Strobins05 Posts: 716
    Coming from a shy person such as myself, it takes courage to compliment a woman. From me anyways, it IS sincere

    I agree, if I say it I definately mean it... In fact sometimes I get frustrated when I tell someone who I think is beautiful, that they are beautiful and they disagree with me.

    Wow, this is nice guys.
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
    You say, "Babe, you're looking hot tonight. You're so beautiful."
    We hear, "Eh love, put your lips around this and say Showaddywaddy."

    Are you saying that when men are being nice all they are actually doing is offering d*ck?

    Good lord!
  • xSakura
    xSakura Posts: 288 Member
    I don't like hot, sexy or anything like that.. 'Beautiful' has much more meaning :heart:
  • kdevitis
    kdevitis Posts: 2 Member
    from you? no. from friends and family yes
  • trophywife24
    trophywife24 Posts: 1,472 Member
    I like "the look"

    It says a lot more than any compliment ever could.
  • trophywife24
    trophywife24 Posts: 1,472 Member
    :explode: anything but.... babe or hun... eww

    I HATE when random strangers use terms of endearment. You have to earn calling me baby or sweetie. Been dating a guy for about 2 months, and we just started this week calling eachother names like that.

    Really? Where do you live? I don't think I can go anywhere here without some sweet, Southern old guy calling me "darlin". I sort of love it.
  • deadbambi
    deadbambi Posts: 368
    If it sounds sincere, then yea why not? it's a compliment, and compliments make everyone feel good & awkward & flattered. :happy: but not if its from oddballs on the internet that are just hopin to see some tits ~ :sick:
  • sylvuz323
    sylvuz323 Posts: 468 Member
    I love when my man tells me I'm beautiful and that he appreciates me! Of course the key word is my man, of course sincere compliments are always nice too.
  • Beckyloo80
    Beckyloo80 Posts: 1,088 Member
    I love when my man tells me I'm beautiful and that he appreciates me! Of course the key word is my man, of course sincere compliments are always nice too.

    ^^^ This, right here. but just because you throw me a compliment, no, this does not mean I will send you naked pictures :noway:
  • redfireangel
    redfireangel Posts: 15
    I love it when my other half tells me he is proud of me :)

    No better feeling in the word and it makes it all worth while :)
  • Kathy_TheVampireSlayer
    Kathy_TheVampireSlayer Posts: 189 Member
    I like to hear that i am funny....sometimes i feel like only i get my own jokes and wit :(
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,207 Member
    I'm in the "if it is from my partner and is genuine (and it always is :) it's great" camp.

    Random strangers - no thanks.

    I've been complimented on my ability to take a compliment before, because I don't do the whole "no I'm not" thing. I think that is just rude. Even if you don't think you are as pretty as someo says, say thank you and move on. Protesting makes you seem ungrateful at best and fishing for more compliments at worst.
  • determined136
    determined136 Posts: 330
    I love it all! It makes me smile and I appreciate it so much!!!:blushing:
  • SPBROOKS68
    SPBROOKS68 Posts: 561 Member
    I like to hear all of that but do want the guy to mean it and not just wanting to get me in bed....

    I am always told that I am "cute" though so I have learned to like it and hope to one day find the guy that thinks I am beautiful.:blushing:
  • paintedlady77
    paintedlady77 Posts: 154 Member
    When hubby says those things and I'm un showered, greasy haired, no make up, and needing to lose 20 lbs - NO! When I'm feeling fit annd took the time to put together a cute outfit and did my hair and make up- YES! Bless his little heart for caring!
  • RLDeShazo
    RLDeShazo Posts: 356 Member
    :explode: anything but.... babe or hun... eww

    I HATE when random strangers use terms of endearment. You have to earn calling me baby or sweetie. Been dating a guy for about 2 months, and we just started this week calling eachother names like that.

    Really? Where do you live? I don't think I can go anywhere here without some sweet, Southern old guy calling me "darlin". I sort of love it.

    Oklahoma. Something like that doesn't bother me. But when a guy is talking to me for the very first time, and calls me "baby"? Uh, no.
  • HurricaneElaine
    HurricaneElaine Posts: 984 Member
    I just like to hear - "You look really nice today" or "That's a lovely outfit on you" - or "Your hair is just gorgeous, how do you get it to do that?" <-- that's the funniest one too, my hair has a mind of its own, crazy waves.. :wink:

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