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Why are womens' bodies always up for scrutiny?

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  • Posts: 293 Member
    Maybe you interacted with the wrong clerks/salespeople. I mean I was one. The only time I would comment was to actually compliment someone or ask where they got something. I like to think I added something positive to their day, but if extra positive attention isn't a good thing?....
  • Posts: 1,517 Member
    Ok...I get a lot of attention but I not so many people asking me questions like that. Where the heck do you LIVE? Maybe b/c we are all so jaded in NJ...they look, and some guys of course try to chat me up, but I don't get all these questions about my thighs, etc

    You're from NJ?
    Excellent.
    So am i
    LOOK! something interesting might come of this!
  • Posts: 34,415 Member
    Oh, YESSS!!!! I was sad when this thread went poof! before.

    In for the WIN!

    I missed the original.

    Definitely in for the sequel.
  • Posts: 336
    Waaah, people like my body! Waaah!
  • Posts: 1,286 Member
    Dammit. :( I hate when I miss a good original thread and can only read a silly follow up. Bleh.
  • Posts: 2,275 Member
    You kind of answered your own question. It's the way you're presenting yourself.
    Maybe take a long hard look at the clothes that you are wearing and the kind of image you put off vs. what you want to represent.

    What you consider everyday clothes some people may consider too revealing.

    Obviously there's something getting people's attention.
  • Posts: 293 Member
    Dammit. :( I hate when I miss a good original thread and can only read a silly follow up. Bleh.

    Me too! (LOVE your profile pic, by the way)
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  • Posts: 1,012 Member
    Won't make that mistake again.

    Apparently you did!
  • Posts: 131 Member
    Boo! Missed the original thread... sounds like it was a good one.
  • Posts: 718 Member
    I love it when men stare at my cleavage and give me free stuff. it makes me feel sexy, sooo.....

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    LOVE that you postes this. I thought I was the only Arrested Development lover.
  • Posts: 3,452 Member
    Didn't see the original thread, OP, but I know what you mean. It's kind of weird how casually complete strangers sometimes feel entitled to comment on a person's body. I've had it happen to me, by customer service people, in both very positive and very negative contexts, and I remember feeling humiliated on a few of those occasions.
  • Posts: 5,030 Member
    So we have ONE actual answer and then just crap.

    And people wonder why folks advise against ever using the forums for help. Won't make that mistake again.

    Funny. For someone who "won't make that mistake again," you sure do have a lot of mistakes.. erm *cough* I mean, posts.
  • Posts: 15,228 Member
    TROLL!
  • Posts: 289 Member
    So we have ONE actual answer and then just crap.

    And people wonder why folks advise against ever using the forums for help. Won't make that mistake again.

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  • Posts: 5,030 Member

    I missed the original.

    Definitely in for the sequel.

    The sequel is never as good as the original.
  • Posts: 8,701 Member

    The sequel is never as good as the original.

    I know, the OP is not even defensive about what size she wears in this one...trying to convince....somebody (herself maybe?)...that she fits in to whatever size the cashier doubted she fit in to.
  • Posts: 6,998 Member
    It must be hard to be so attractive.
  • Posts: 4,733 Member
    ...was going to comment, but i've got nothin'.

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  • Posts: 171 Member

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    Great gif, or greatest gif?
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    Great gif, or greatest gif?

    Yes. Best gif of the thread... definitely fits my sentiments well. LOL!
  • Posts: 5,030 Member

    I know, the OP is not even defensive about what size she wears in this one...trying to convince....somebody (herself maybe?)...that she fits in to whatever size the cashier doubted she fit in to.

    I fit into a size two.

    ..

    Eh, it was worth a try but I suck at lying.
  • Posts: 289 Member

    Great gif, or greatest gif?

    This was my first time posting it, but it pretty much sums up my reaction to most threads. :-P
  • Posts: 556 Member
    Women's bodies are beautiful that's why! Just wear what makes you feel comfortable :)
  • Posts: 3,150 Member
    Oh good, I'm SOOO glad you posted about this again. Am I in before the personal attacks from the OP?
  • Posts: 1,078 Member

    I fit into a size two.

    ..

    Eh, it was worth a try but I suck at lying.

    lol
  • Posts: 34,971 Member
    I remember the original post...and I'll refrain from repeating exactly what the original post said...but...

    Everyone's body is scrutinized...male or female..don't matter. It happens and I think you should get over it and quit letting little things like this affect you so dramatically.
  • Posts: 1,487 Member
    Waaah, people like my body! Waaah!

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  • Posts: 1,487 Member
    The (FEMALE) vet isn't staring at my boobs and asking what my current jean size is

    You shouldn't put up with that from your Vet

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  • Posts: 28,072 Member
    So we have ONE actual answer and then just crap.

    And people wonder why folks advise against ever using the forums for help. Won't make that mistake again.

    You probably should have realized it when you made the first edition thread.
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