The Friend Zone

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  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    Also, no reasonable employer would treat a job candidate like this. They would just dismiss them and both sides would go on with life.

    So why does this dynamic play out like this in male-female social interactions?
  • brookes999
    brookes999 Posts: 4
    whhyyyyyyy do you have a profile pic of just your tits! Whyyyyyy do women do that?!
  • brookes999
    brookes999 Posts: 4
    whyyyyyy do women do this? Seriously.

    whhyyyyyyy do you have a profile pic of just your tits! Whyyyyyy do women do that?!
  • StaceyJ2008
    StaceyJ2008 Posts: 411 Member
    Just so you know, Guys do the friend zone thing to girls too. I've been there for the majority of my life.
  • louised88
    louised88 Posts: 159
    I get kinda irked about guys who ***** about being friendzoned. Women are not machines you put kindness into until sex falls out. Sometimes they just don't feel any chemistry with you, so get over it. Besides, what's wrong with having more friends? :huh:

    Agreed.

    Basically, they're approaching us dishonestly to be "friends" with an ulterior motive already in mind and then they get mad because we...just want to be friends?

    How about not being entitled? How about mustering up some courage to just be straight about what you're trying to get from us? Honesty instead of manipulation. Then think of how many perfectly nice women YOU have rejected in the past.

    Besides, a lot of the men I know who complain about this phenomenon are NOT nice guys. They're mad because a chick who is out of their league didn't want to have sex with them. Period, end of story. Not exactly a "nice guy" mindset.

    I love you two. Guys are complaining because the woman they;re pretending to be friends with and who they would rather try to manipulate into sleeping with them rather than being upfront and asking them out (and then accepting either as yes or a no as FINAL) are not 'nice guys' who've been 'friendzoned', they're creepy.
  • Umeboshi
    Umeboshi Posts: 1,637 Member
    I get kinda irked about guys who ***** about being friendzoned. Women are not machines you put kindness into until sex falls out. Sometimes they just don't feel any chemistry with you, so get over it. Besides, what's wrong with having more friends? :huh:

    Agreed.

    Basically, they're approaching us dishonestly to be "friends" with an ulterior motive already in mind and then they get mad because we...just want to be friends?

    How about not being entitled? How about mustering up some courage to just be straight about what you're trying to get from us? Honesty instead of manipulation. Then think of how many perfectly nice women YOU have rejected in the past.

    Besides, a lot of the men I know who complain about this phenomenon are NOT nice guys. They're mad because a chick who is out of their league didn't want to have sex with them. Period, end of story. Not exactly a "nice guy" mindset.

    I love you two. Guys are complaining because the woman they;re pretending to be friends with and who they would rather try to manipulate into sleeping with them rather than being upfront and asking them out (and then accepting either as yes or a no as FINAL) are not 'nice guys' who've been 'friendzoned', they're creepy.

    This.
  • Illona88
    Illona88 Posts: 903 Member
    I went to a tech Uni, so most of my friends are men.

    If they don't want to be "friendzoned", they should ask me out rather than pretending to want to be friends.
    Simple as that. Women can't magically detect whether you want to be friends or dating, you know. Tell us.
  • kaylaandthestarcatcher
    kaylaandthestarcatcher Posts: 836
    I get kinda irked about guys who ***** about being friendzoned. Women are not machines you put kindness into until sex falls out. Sometimes they just don't feel any chemistry with you, so get over it. Besides, what's wrong with having more friends? :huh:

    Agreed.

    Basically, they're approaching us dishonestly to be "friends" with an ulterior motive already in mind and then they get mad because we...just want to be friends?

    How about not being entitled? How about mustering up some courage to just be straight about what you're trying to get from us? Honesty instead of manipulation. Then think of how many perfectly nice women YOU have rejected in the past.

    Besides, a lot of the men I know who complain about this phenomenon are NOT nice guys. They're mad because a chick who is out of their league didn't want to have sex with them. Period, end of story. Not exactly a "nice guy" mindset.

    I love you two. Guys are complaining because the woman they;re pretending to be friends with and who they would rather try to manipulate into sleeping with them rather than being upfront and asking them out (and then accepting either as yes or a no as FINAL) are not 'nice guys' who've been 'friendzoned', they're creepy.

    This.

    I was going to post very similar things, but it seems that I don't have to. Thank you, lovelies.
  • myth4ever
    myth4ever Posts: 372
    Lol......hmmmm if you can't spot me while I squat or bench....baby I can't be your friend. Thanks for the offer!
  • Brunner26_2
    Brunner26_2 Posts: 1,152
    Just a warning to the guys about friend zoning a girl and getting benefits. Don't do it if you can tell she wants more, you'll break her heart eventually. I've done this more than once. Then again, I married a girl from my friend zone.

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