embracing bigger boobs??

I've heard of people who buy 'for their boobs' and then get them tailored to fit the rest of them. I can't afford that, alas. Apparently Bramissimo/Pepperberry create clothes for bigger breasted women, never tried them myself. What I tend to do is make sure there's a little bit of stretch in the fabric and look for curvier-friendly designers like Cue, in Australia.

Guess this is why I'm a t-shirt and jeans kinda girl. If I buy a large t-shirt it fits good on my chest and is still an okay fit on the rest. I don't like my shirts skin tight anyway.

I always do skirts and tops unless the dress is a really drapey material that hangs nice on the rest of my body.

As I loose weight though, my boobs are going too. I'm kinda bummed about it but it does make shopping easier.

I have also gone to Victorias Secret bras only. They are expensive but only if you pay full retail. There are tons of coupons and sales where you can get them for the same price as a department store bra. They will fit you so you can be sure you are getting the correct fit and my VS bras last ten times longer than department store ones.

Hi! I have the same issue. I have a 29-1/2 inch waist... and 42-inch boobs. Depending on the brand, I'm anywhere between a 34F and a 36H. I've found what's best (for me) is layering! I'll have a couple of dressy button-down shirts that fit through my waist, and I'll pair those with stretchy sweaters so that the top can be unbuttoned but still give me a flattering shape. Also, don't knock shopping in the maternity section (sounds cray, I know). Those clothes are designed for bodies which are constantly changing and growing. Some of my best-fitting shirts and dresses came from Target's maternity clearance rack. Look for shirts that tie around the waist, so that you can fit for your boobs and then tie back the extra material. Also, just adding a thin belt around the middle really defines your shape. I'm rather proud of having size 14+ boobs and a size 8-to-10 waist =p
Also, I've no idea if you have this issue, but exercising can be really painful for me. So I wear an old normal bra and a sports bra on top of it. That really keeps them from moving too much.

Also, I've no idea if you have this issue, but exercising can be really painful for me. So I wear an old normal bra and a sports bra on top of it. That really keeps them from moving too much.

Me too!

ya it is really annoying at times. Camis are a good idea and wide belts.
There's really nothing you can do except remember that the boobs are the reason that you have to wear the larger size and not you.

well you said it yourself! money isn't an issue! so buy the size to fit your boobs and get the rest tailored to a single digit number... and Embrace Bigger Boobs!

I'll embrace em for ya Seriously though, I've always had the opposite problem, as in buying dresses to fit my butt and having a sad baggy top I think that look is worse then snug dresstop/loose bottom, but I guess the upside is I don't have to buy sport panties for my butt (hmm, makes me wonder though). I guess we just gotta learn to live with what we got! Or plastic surgery

I have also gone to Victorias Secret bras only. They are expensive but only if you pay full retail. There are tons of coupons and sales where you can get them for the same price as a department store bra. They will fit you so you can be sure you are getting the correct fit and my VS bras last ten times longer than department store ones.

also, I wouldn't trust their fitting, like go get a real fitting, they just measure under and tell you your band size not your cup size and they aren't really trained at all. VS is expensive, expensive does not equal good. i learned that from VS

Yeah, their fittings are AWFUL. They actually told me...and ARGUED WITH ME...that I was a 36C. My underbust measures 31" and my chest measures 37.5". Every decent bra fitter I have ever been to (obviously not VS) has put me in a 32F or a 34E (32DDD or 34DD) depending on the brand and style.

I do have some of their bras, though, and I find a couple styles quite comfortable. But definitely have to try it on first. To get a decent bra in my particular size, I have to spend money. It seems that most people can't possibly fathom that my size exists, even though it is quite average (most people wear the wrong size anyway).

I am 32F and a UK 12 (US 8). I used to be 32F and UK 10 (US 6)

I just embrace it. Certain shops are better than others. And I have a friend that can sew who takes things in at the waist for me. You can also be inventive with layering which allows you to wear some dresses open (this doesn’t always work so try it on.)

I shop around until I find what I want in a size or style that fits. I have tailored some things in at the waist to give more shape, but I definitely don't wear the all-over hanging sack look just to fit the breasts (32F) because I feel it is not flattering at all and makes me look 5 sizes bigger...or worse...pregnant.

You can still dress them professionally without hiding them into an apologetic sack. Breasts are breasts. Big breasts deserve to be out there just as much as their perky cousins.

I dont find i have any trouble at all with mine, Im a 38DD and to be honest if anything i'd like them bigger. I have always suffered with confidence issues because of my weight but my boobs have been my saviour. They are my favourite asset and as long as they are on display to a certain extent i feel comfortable. I do always need to wear a good sports bra though as I do energetic dance and they can ache for days after if i haven't worn a good bra xx

I'd try to ignore the size on the label. I'd rather buy a size 12 dress and be comfortable in it, than buy a size 8 or 10 and be squeezed into it, feeling like I'm having to constantly breathe in and not feel confident in it.

Why not cut out the label?

I'm a 32G and as such I can feel your pain! (I have a 30 inch waist, but 40" hips as well so I get the whole hour glass issue of neither pants nor tops being flattering in some cases.)

But the tricks that I have found are these:

1) Invest in good bras. They're expensive but they're necessary, a well fitted underwire that is actually your size makes you go from having a "shelf" to having 2 distinct breasts. It's a subtle different but a necessary one.

2) Avoid tops (and dresses) that create the "shelf effect" or the "uniboob" In general V-necks, cowl necks and scoop necks are all flattering on big chested women. Turtle necks make us looks ridiculous. Button up shirts can be a HUGE challenge as well, I tend to avoid them if I can, they make me feel frumpy and gape awkwardly when they're the right size everywhere else.

3) Belts are your friend. you can accent your waist in something that is a little too big by tossing a belt over it.

4) Cardigans. A fitted tshirt or camisole underneath a cardigan is a great look. Cardigans tend to be v-necked (with deep "v"s) and they cling more around your waist while letting your girls have a bit more leeway. They can work very nicely over dresses as well as pants and a top so they're great for office wear.

5) NEVER buy tops or dresses with lines that are supposed to designate where your breasts are supposed to end. They look ridiculous when those lines end up in the middle of your chest.

Find the styles that work well and I'm betting you'll find that the sizes correspond. Even with my measurements I am now in medium sized tops for the most part!

As a member of the IBTC, I have to tell you - the grass is always greener. Embrace those babies and be pround of them - they will get you a lot of free drinks! Don't let the sizes get you down. If you have a great bra fitter then I'm sure that she can recommend a great tailor!