Revenge Weight Loss....

sgtrowley
sgtrowley Posts: 246 Member
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So MFP Friends... who here has honestly had a hidden motive to let an EX see you sexy an happy due to weight loss in order to make them jelious.......
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  • LGrill27
    LGrill27 Posts: 337 Member
    Im guilty.
  • fleur_de_lis19
    fleur_de_lis19 Posts: 926 Member
    Already have... it felt great. He now stalks me on Facebook calling me his number one "MILF" Bahaha.. loser
  • Phoenixchichima
    Phoenixchichima Posts: 416
    DUH~!
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Yep left me when I was bulking and now cutting.
  • itsdonna35
    itsdonna35 Posts: 59
    Oh definitely count me as a YES
  • chubbygirl253
    chubbygirl253 Posts: 1,309 Member
    It's not my motivation because I don't care what my exes think. But it might be a happy accident at some point. Lol
  • feliciajonesmejia
    feliciajonesmejia Posts: 9 Member
    Been there done that! LOL ten years ago my ex husband cheated on me constantly and always blamed it on my weight that it was my fault... this provided the hatred that provided the motivation to keep on track! I worked out two hours a day five days a week and stuck to high protein low carb low fat diet... and i lost 55 pounds. Looked great, felt great and ahahaha of course he wanted me back. but it was TOOOO late. If someone loves you, they will love you for YOU no matter what your weight. It was wonderful to see that look on his face when he saw me. Priceless!
  • BonnieandClyde29
    BonnieandClyde29 Posts: 1,026 Member
    Well, I honestly for one did it to make ANY EX jealous! LOL, and it has WORKED!!! and my boyfriend now, would like me to lose more weight, but only so i am healthy and is extremely supportive! I feel like karma has worked in my favor for once!!! :happy:
  • Cassi_Eats_Apples
    Cassi_Eats_Apples Posts: 235
    STAHP. Thats not why you do it. You do it to be healthy.
  • ahart78
    ahart78 Posts: 28
    I think the better question is Who DOESN'T have this motive ;)
  • sgtrowley
    sgtrowley Posts: 246 Member
    lol... Not what I intended ... But Honestly... Id love an EX to see me with a six pack lol... "oh how the tables have turned..."
  • MissKalhan
    MissKalhan Posts: 2,282 Member
    Guilty, that was way before myfitnesspal though. Now I'm doing it for me and I want to be a tank xD
  • PrimroseFlower
    PrimroseFlower Posts: 110 Member
    At least you were honest....:wink:
  • lisadiane41
    lisadiane41 Posts: 141
    Been there done that! LOL ten years ago my ex husband cheated on me constantly and always blamed it on my weight that it was my fault... this provided the hatred that provided the motivation to keep on track! I worked out two hours a day five days a week and stuck to high protein low carb low fat diet... and i lost 55 pounds. Looked great, felt great and ahahaha of course he wanted me back. but it was TOOOO late. If someone loves you, they will love you for YOU no matter what your weight. It was wonderful to see that look on his face when he saw me. Priceless!


    I am so proud of you.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    Nope. I like being strong and healthy.

    By the way, most people won't care, because they probably didn't break up with their partner solely because of their weight.
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
    So MFP Friends... who here has honestly had a hidden motive to let an EX see you sexy an happy due to weight loss in order to make them jelious.......

    wife divorced me at 320lbs...about a year later she wanted me to drop off something she left at home...i dropped it off at her work at about 230lbs...her co-workers were like "wow, he looks great!!"...she was upset I heard.
  • jpuderbaugh
    jpuderbaugh Posts: 318 Member
    I think the better question is Who DOESN'T have this motive ;)

    Those of us who don't have exes.
  • MaraJade13
    MaraJade13 Posts: 8
    Guilty! big time!
  • rascallycat
    rascallycat Posts: 248 Member
    STAHP. Thats not why you do it. You do it to be healthy.


    really? this is why I do it! And if that means making an ex jealous.. so be it

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  • lovelyMYlovely
    lovelyMYlovely Posts: 1,066 Member
    im doing this because im jealous watching movies with topless scenes.. that bothers me.. ALOT.... and im trying to be the best me yet!!!!! im planning by 2014 i will be!
  • lisadiane41
    lisadiane41 Posts: 141
    I agree if someone loves you then they love you for who you are whether you gained weight or not. You take vows for better or worse. Or do they do not matter anymore?
  • Maidofmer
    Maidofmer Posts: 908 Member
    first time around! and it worked! was skinny (for me) toned, just got married, and then got a pu$$y *kitten* email from him whining about how sorry he was and how he missed me. replied with my wedding pic.
  • lovelyMYlovely
    lovelyMYlovely Posts: 1,066 Member
    doing this for an ex isnt the reason but rather the bonus for many people.. i for sure look better than i did when i was with my 2 exs and if they saw me now the way i am before i start my sexy journey they would already be jealous....... so... im not doing this for my exs.. im doing this to look at myself naked and feel WOW!!!
  • sgtrowley
    sgtrowley Posts: 246 Member
    lol, Ya know I dont think a whole lot about my EX's but deep down.. Everyone that "Broke up with me" I want to see me now... Im so Much "Hotter" ... I think its human nature..
  • HurricaneElaine
    HurricaneElaine Posts: 984 Member
    I think the better question is Who DOESN'T have this motive ;)

    Those of us who don't have exes.

    This applies to me also.
  • fmouco
    fmouco Posts: 100 Member
    I think the better question is Who DOESN'T have this motive ;)

    I was asking myself this same question...
  • gitanagirl
    gitanagirl Posts: 207 Member
    Oh..... Yes..... I am so going to look like Megan Fox when I'm done with this... :)
  • vice350z
    vice350z Posts: 1,066 Member
    I agree if someone loves you then they love you for who you are whether you gained weight or not. You take vows for better or worse. Or do they do not matter anymore?

    not really...if you married someone slim and they gained a lot of weight over the years, i'd understand them losing attraction.
  • FJcntdwn2sknyluv
    FJcntdwn2sknyluv Posts: 651 Member
    Guilty! lost 35lbs then gained 30 back when I fell in love with the right guy.. then took 40 off and still going.. all over the last 2 years... :)
  • lisadiane41
    lisadiane41 Posts: 141
    I was skinny when I divorced my ex I weighted 124 pounds. And he weight 300. I did not divorce him for his weight he was just mean to me and my children. Now after 7 years I gained a few pounds so I am losing the weight for me and not anyone else. I never judge people by their weight. It is who you are in the inside that matters to me. I just want to be healthy for my children because I have health issues.

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