Question for the ladies...

Hahaha I'm right there with you! I refuse to tell him. Lol it's a pride thing maybe. But we both admit we've let ourselves go over the last 10 years so we're both working on it.

My husband knows. I would prefer that he didn't because it's embarrassing! He only weighs 10lbs more than I do and he is extremely fit and muscular! And now that I'm pregnant, he will be at all my prenatal appointments and see my weight every time they weight me! Ugh!

I weighed more than him when we first started dating, but he gained weight. I was secretly happy lol but he does know how much I weigh

My boyfriend now knows :blushing:

I have lost like 20 lbs since we started dating over a year ago and I always hid it from him.

Then we moved in together and things like that just weren't hidden. He decided he needed to drop a few since I was trying to be healthier. He also saw how much clothes I gave to goodwill because before I met him I was an additional 10-12 lbs heavier than when I met him. Now 30 lbs lighter...

He didn't judge...well maybe a little in his head hehe...but now we do weigh ins together and I can share my specific victories with him and vice versa.

I don't think guys have any idea how much women weigh to begin with and/or they grossly underestimate our weights. I'm 141 now, but I think he thought I was more like 125.

Really though, I would share it with him. Maybe you guys can start working on it together! It was scary for me, but I am glad I did it!

He knows. We are both getting healthy and losing weight together.

Ditto! We have a our weekly weigh-in chart taped to the inside of the medicine cabinet - so we can hold each other accountable. Yeah I was embarrassed at first for him to see how much I weigh, but in the long run it's done us BOTH good so we can support each other!

I didn't tell my husband for a long time. We have been married for 4 years and he just found out what my true weight is probably about 6 - 8 months ago . I have gained about 40 pounds since we met 5 years ago which is MAJORLY depressing. He still outweighs me by about 40 pounds but he is a really big muscular guy. He has never had anything negative to say about my weight though so I love him for that - he says he still finds me attractive (although I don't know how!).

My ex husband (but still my best friend) knows, and has always known. When we started dating 10 yrs ago, we were both at 145. I started gaining weight, and he still said I was sexy. It wasn't until this past year (after we got divorced) that he said that I was actually looking fat. I know he said it because he cares and knows that I needed a kick in the *kitten*. But the funny thing is, in the last 3 years, he slowly gained weight and is also at 179. We have gained the same amount of weight since we met --- and he is my gym partner now and we are both working to get healthy again.

I tell my husband because he's my best friend. When the scale is going up, he's my biggest support and encouragement in words and actions to help me get it back down. And when it goes down, he is the one that celebrates with me.

Ditto ... I give my husband the play by play! His encouragement helps keep me going. I know he'll love me no matter what weight I'm at, and him knowing keeps me honest.

Sharing your weight with your hubby or boyfriends is the hardest thing I think us girls will have to do. But if they love you, they wont care how much you weigh even if it is more than them. They will be there for you to encourage your weight lose. When I first met my Fiance back in 06 we weighed about the same which was like 170 for me which is a good weight for me being 5'11. Same for him since he is 5'10.

Then when we got pregnant with our first I weight about 200. I gained 50lbs and my baby was right there with me lol. The lowest I got down to was 215, after my first son. Then 2 yrs later when I got pregnant with our second boy, I was right around 230. Then got all the way up to 275 at 9months pregnant. Now weighing in at 229. 3 months after my son was born.

My point is, he was by my side the whole time, pregnant or not, cuz the year in a half between my pregnancies, I was 50lbs heavier than when we met, and he treated me just the same, never loved me any less just because I was bigger. I think telling you significant other is the best thing you can do, because they are or should be your closest friend, and your biggest support system.

I've been married to my husband almost 5 years now... he knows. That was NOTHING compared to showing my credit report when we got married! LOL! When he loved me and supported me through that I was pretty sure that he could love me through anything. My husband is 6'2 - I'm 5'2... when we met we weighed the same amount 250. When I started this journey - my first goal was to get back down to that... I reached it last week. Don't ya know that all the healthy cooking took its toll on him too... he now weighs 239! Oh well... eventually I'll weigh less than him!

Sometimes it really bothers me that I weigh more than he does... then he reminds me that I carry a lot of weight in my chest and that I have hips.... then he points out that I have more muscular legs than he does.... it's all good.

I'm good with him knowing... the fact that he knows... he sees me naked... AND he still loves me? It makes me feel pretty darn secure in my marriage!

I'm comfortable with numbers, unlike a lot of women, so yes, my boyfriend knows. He now weighs more than I do, after my 20 lb weight loss... and he's 6 inches taller. It kinda sucks but when I weigh and see a loss, I can tell him how much I weigh and he'll congratulate me... I was 150 when we first started dating and I got to 180 3 months later... so I'm 10 lbs away from where I was when we met.

I agree with all the women saying their husband or man is their biggest support. I wouldn't say my bf is my BIGGEST support but he definitely encourages me. The other day, he texted me and asked how I was. I told him I was frustrated with my weight, and he told me, "Baby, you're beautiful. Don't worry about it, it'll come off as long as you keep working hard." I instantly felt better. :bigsmile:

he knows wha ti weigh but it dont bother me...hes more embaressed because hes over weight n he knows im losing weight so i know hes trying to lose weight secretly but wont admit it when i ask him if hes trying to lose weight! ....n i thought girls were worse with that type of thing!

I've been with my SO for 6 years and he knows and has always known how much I weigh. Will I get on the scale in front of him? No.

LOL - me either. It's one thing for him to "know" - another thing for him to see... kinda like pooping... I'm pretty sure he knows that I "do" - he just doesn't need to "see" me do it! LOL!

Do your hubby or boyfriend know how much you weigh? My husband has NO idea and I refuse to tell him until I'm at my goal. haha! I weigh more than he does and I HATE it! I'd be mortified if he ever found out!

Just wondering if your SO knows your weight?

My husband has never asked me what my weight is, so I suppose he doesn't know, but I'd have no qualms telling him what it is.