Ladies, what qualities do you like in Men?

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  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    Come on ladies.. let's be honest. Most want a 6 pack, a 10 inch cawk, and a 6 figure income. Full head of hair is a plus too.

    I can buy my own 6 pack at the liquor store.
    Skill and ability goes a lot further than size.
    I make good money, I just expect someone to pull their own weight

    And actually I liked a nice smooth shaved head.

    Tell the truth you like someone that can hold you upside down

    Well yes, that is on the list of criteria, but I was afraid I might intimidate some people. :bigsmile: :blushing:
  • runwmeNC
    runwmeNC Posts: 612 Member
    Wow... what I have so far.. in a man you need......

    Honesty
    down to earth
    makes me laugh so hard I snort
    a good kisser, intelligent
    Manly Man
    into sports
    outdoors
    Make you feel feminine
    sense of humor
    lifestyle stability
    decent communicator,
    intelligence.
    amazingly awful sense of humor walk around naked ALL THE TIME.
    6 pack] big sausage
    6 figure income
    head of hair.
    perhaps a skilled tongue would be necessary as well
    to make you feel desirable, wanted and loved.
    honest
    has integrity
    care of themselves
    similar interests.
    runner
    affiliation with fitness
    like movies
    intelligence
    confidence
    success
    ambition
    high sex drive
    good family
    relationship skills
    fast cars
    suave moves.
    nerdy guy you can play Halo 4 with!
    treat me like I deserve to be treated
    partner in all things
    Somewho who will walk through life with
    call you on your sh!
    give undying support.
    Skill and abilit
    pull their own weight
    nice smooth shaved head.
    emotionally available.
    let you put your feet under his butt to keep them warm.
    make you laugh
    smiles a lot
    holds intelligent conversations
    passionate,
    make sure you're happy
    listens.
    Computer hacking skills
    brings six pack of beer .
    good listener or willing to listen
    a hobby that takes them out of the house
    dirty mind
    intellegence
    honesty
    loyalty
    Physical attraction
    self sufficient
    independant
    confident
    kind
    patience of a saint
    witty
    smart guy
    intellectual conversationist
    loves to travel
    adventurous
    love your crazy side

    Lots of good information here. I'm almost afraid to ask since I have so much to work on already, but is there anything else?
  • trojanbb
    trojanbb Posts: 1,297 Member
    intelligence, confidence, success, ambition, high sex drive, good family & relationship skills, fast cars and suave moves.

    reporting for duty
  • Icelandic_Saga
    Icelandic_Saga Posts: 2,926 Member
    Women only like guys who have lots of skills.

    nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skills....GOSH
  • yelliezx
    yelliezx Posts: 633 Member
    Women only like guys who have lots of skills.

    Computer hacking skills

    AMEN! That is SO sexy
  • Kind-hearted, witty, and this may be just me but I like it when a guy is a little shy. Flirty guys are fun but a good woman deserves someone who only want to be with her~
  • Gonads.
  • Someone I can laugh with, drink with, walk with, have a good fight with, who can cheer me up, who has some of the same interests as me, has brains - oh and of course he's gotta be good in bed!!!
    If I don't mind his beer breath he passes the test :wink:
    the list is not exhaustive ...

    as for good looking ... well of course ... but beauty is in the eye of the beholder ...
    hey I think I've got this guy :happy:
  • He has to be HARDWORKING, likes to spoil her ALOT! ex: spend some $$$$ ! who doesnt like to have nice things! ha!

    Family oriented, good sense of humor, respectful, kind, thoughful, NOT CHEAP!
  • Vain_Witch
    Vain_Witch Posts: 476 Member
    Honesty, intelligence, a crazy sense of humor, an ability to be spontaneous but also an ability to be responsible when necessary, someone who is still in touch with his inner kid, someone who will tell me when I'm wrong (it's rare, but it happense lol)...honestly, looks don't play a huge part in it with me. Every time I've ever dated someone who was traditionally "hot" he wound up being an *kitten* and being completely unattractive to me. Every time I've given someone who wasn't technically my "type" a chance, he wound up being a great guy who was extremely attractive to me.
  • _crafty_
    _crafty_ Posts: 1,682 Member
    All I wanted was a man who would let me put my feet under his butt to keep them warm.
    he does.
    I'm set.

    Win!
  • lolagurlx0x0
    lolagurlx0x0 Posts: 149 Member
    Sense of humor. Definitely- It can save Most Character flaws. Also Stability- do you have a job? How long have you had it? Etc. Though we all know even that can be negotiable- We women don't always have our own best interests in mind lol. The ability to flirt will score you major points, most men do not know how- and the ones who know how do it too much. As in with too many girls.
  • A pulse :smile:
  • SakuraRose13
    SakuraRose13 Posts: 621 Member
    I'm happily married but best qaulities honesty and men who are secure with themselves insecurities are unattractive and they cause jealousy. When I say honesty I mean even when the truth hurts, when you have an arguement dont attack the other person two are too blame,communicate its highly important if you are unable to talk about small things then what happens when big things happen.Be true to yourself.
  • BlackStarDeceiver
    BlackStarDeceiver Posts: 590 Member
    I'm surprised no ladies have responded with "open to prostate massage"
  • awake4777
    awake4777 Posts: 190 Member
    Well, you've certainly got the sense of humor. I also like honesty, and a man who wants to be "actively" involved in the relationship and wants to make sure that I am happy.:happy:
  • Come on ladies.. let's be honest. Most want a 6 pack, a 10 inch cawk, and a 6 figure income. Full head of hair is a plus too.

    If that was true I would be SCREWED (figuratively) as I am only batting 33%...wanna guess which one? LOL
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    Come on ladies.. let's be honest. Most want a 6 pack, a 10 inch cawk, and a 6 figure income. Full head of hair is a plus too.

    I can buy my own 6 pack at the liquor store.
    Skill and ability goes a lot further than size.
    I make good money, I just expect someone to pull their own weight

    And actually I liked a nice smooth shaved head.

    WIN.
  • heymirth
    heymirth Posts: 448
    Wow... what I have so far.. in a man you need......

    Honesty
    down to earth
    makes me laugh so hard I snort
    a good kisser, intelligent
    Manly Man
    into sports
    outdoors
    Make you feel feminine
    sense of humor
    lifestyle stability
    decent communicator,
    intelligence.
    amazingly awful sense of humor walk around naked ALL THE TIME.
    6 pack] big sausage
    6 figure income
    head of hair.
    perhaps a skilled tongue would be necessary as well
    to make you feel desirable, wanted and loved.
    honest
    has integrity
    care of themselves
    similar interests.
    runner
    affiliation with fitness
    like movies
    intelligence
    confidence
    success
    ambition
    high sex drive
    good family
    relationship skills
    fast cars
    suave moves.
    nerdy guy you can play Halo 4 with!
    treat me like I deserve to be treated
    partner in all things
    Somewho who will walk through life with
    call you on your sh!
    give undying support.
    Skill and abilit
    pull their own weight
    nice smooth shaved head.
    emotionally available.
    let you put your feet under his butt to keep them warm.
    make you laugh
    smiles a lot
    holds intelligent conversations
    passionate,
    make sure you're happy
    listens.
    Computer hacking skills
    brings six pack of beer .
    good listener or willing to listen
    a hobby that takes them out of the house
    dirty mind
    intellegence
    honesty
    loyalty
    Physical attraction
    self sufficient
    independant
    confident
    kind
    patience of a saint
    witty
    smart guy
    intellectual conversationist
    loves to travel
    adventurous
    love your crazy side

    Lots of good information here. I'm almost afraid to ask since I have so much to work on already, but is there anything else?

    I used to have some of these. Now I'm just a beaten down hunter gatherer.
  • Pookylou
    Pookylou Posts: 988 Member
    Come on ladies.. let's be honest. Most want a 6 pack, a 10 inch cawk, and a 6 figure income. Full head of hair is a plus too.

    My current love has none of those things, and I love him more than anyone! He is nice to me, has a brilliant sense of humour, and has gorgeous eyes (that he is a tiger in the sack is a help too).
  • awake4777
    awake4777 Posts: 190 Member
    Women only like guys who have lots of skills.

    Computer hacking skills

    AMEN! That is SO sexy
    Yes, smart men.
    :laugh:
  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    Came her so my friends would see this post!
  • Well what attracted me to my boyfriend was his personality. Sure i know thats corny but its true. We met on a dating site and normally id have flicked straight past his profile because he's very good looking and i dont usually date very good looking men (due to my own hang ups and piss poor self esteem not anything wrong with them)
    But he messaged me and he's very intelligent and crazily funny which was honestly so refreshing after endless 'cor youre fit and 'oh youre gorgeous' messages which i cant help it but make me retreat( years of being fat does nothing for your own view of yourself trust me).
    I've never met anyone with such a multi faceted personality before and we just really hit it off.
  • awake4777
    awake4777 Posts: 190 Member
    I like bald men, who are good in the sack also. He wants to make me happy!
  • ptjolsen
    ptjolsen Posts: 365 Member
    Come on ladies.. let's be honest. Most want a 6 pack, a 10 inch cawk, and a 6 figure income. Full head of hair is a plus too.

    I can buy my own 6 pack at the liquor store.
    Skill and ability goes a lot further than size.
    I make good money, I just expect someone to pull their own weight

    And actually I liked a nice smooth shaved head.

    WIN.

    Soooooo your saying there's a chance!!??? :bigsmile:
  • runwmeNC
    runwmeNC Posts: 612 Member
    Well what attracted me to my boyfriend was his personality. Sure i know thats corny but its true. We met on a dating site and normally id have flicked straight past his profile because he's very good looking and i dont usually date very good looking men (due to my own hang ups and piss poor self esteem not anything wrong with them)
    But he messaged me and he's very intelligent and crazily funny which was honestly so refreshing after endless 'cor youre fit and 'oh youre gorgeous' messages which i cant help it but make me retreat( years of being fat does nothing for your own view of yourself trust me).
    I've never met anyone with such a multi faceted personality before and we just really hit it off.

    Love this !
  • lolagurlx0x0
    lolagurlx0x0 Posts: 149 Member
    Wow... what I have so far.. in a man you need......

    Honesty
    down to earth
    makes me laugh so hard I snort
    a good kisser, intelligent
    Manly Man
    into sports
    outdoors
    Make you feel feminine
    sense of humor
    lifestyle stability
    decent communicator,
    intelligence.
    amazingly awful sense of humor walk around naked ALL THE TIME.
    6 pack] big sausage
    6 figure income
    head of hair.
    perhaps a skilled tongue would be necessary as well
    to make you feel desirable, wanted and loved.
    honest
    has integrity
    care of themselves
    similar interests.
    runner
    affiliation with fitness
    like movies
    intelligence
    confidence
    success
    ambition
    high sex drive
    good family
    relationship skills
    fast cars
    suave moves.
    nerdy guy you can play Halo 4 with!
    treat me like I deserve to be treated
    partner in all things
    Somewho who will walk through life with
    call you on your sh!
    give undying support.
    Skill and abilit
    pull their own weight
    nice smooth shaved head.
    emotionally available.
    let you put your feet under his butt to keep them warm.
    make you laugh
    smiles a lot
    holds intelligent conversations
    passionate,
    make sure you're happy
    listens.
    Computer hacking skills
    brings six pack of beer .
    good listener or willing to listen
    a hobby that takes them out of the house
    dirty mind
    intellegence
    honesty
    loyalty
    Physical attraction
    self sufficient
    independant
    confident
    kind
    patience of a saint
    witty
    smart guy
    intellectual conversationist
    loves to travel
    adventurous
    love your crazy side

    Lots of good information here. I'm almost afraid to ask since I have so much to work on already, but is there anything else?

    hahahaa- youre making a shopping list of what A lot of women want. First you have to know what you are shopping for guy or your going to leave the store with a cart full of things you don't want and forget the one thing you did want that would have gotten the girl thats right for you lol
  • cheerforsteelers
    cheerforsteelers Posts: 686 Member
    Big booty heauxs...


    oh sorry, wrong thread.
  • Liatush
    Liatush Posts: 627 Member
    Come on ladies.. let's be honest. Most want a 6 pack, a 10 inch cawk, and a 6 figure income. Full head of hair is a plus too.

    Add to this a non-drooler and you got yourself a winner.... haha
  • rushikareddy
    rushikareddy Posts: 604 Member
    Wow... what I have so far.. in a man you need......

    Honesty
    down to earth
    makes me laugh so hard I snort
    a good kisser, intelligent
    Manly Man
    into sports
    outdoors
    Make you feel feminine
    sense of humor
    lifestyle stability
    decent communicator,
    intelligence.
    amazingly awful sense of humor walk around naked ALL THE TIME.
    6 pack] big sausage
    6 figure income
    head of hair.
    perhaps a skilled tongue would be necessary as well
    to make you feel desirable, wanted and loved.
    honest
    has integrity
    care of themselves
    similar interests.
    runner
    affiliation with fitness
    like movies
    intelligence
    confidence
    success
    ambition
    high sex drive
    good family
    relationship skills
    fast cars
    suave moves.
    nerdy guy you can play Halo 4 with!
    treat me like I deserve to be treated
    partner in all things
    Somewho who will walk through life with
    call you on your sh!
    give undying support.
    Skill and abilit
    pull their own weight
    nice smooth shaved head.
    emotionally available.
    let you put your feet under his butt to keep them warm.
    make you laugh
    smiles a lot
    holds intelligent conversations
    passionate,
    make sure you're happy
    listens.
    Computer hacking skills
    brings six pack of beer .
    good listener or willing to listen
    a hobby that takes them out of the house
    dirty mind
    intellegence
    honesty
    loyalty
    Physical attraction
    self sufficient
    independant
    confident
    kind
    patience of a saint
    witty
    smart guy
    intellectual conversationist
    loves to travel
    adventurous
    love your crazy side

    Lots of good information here. I'm almost afraid to ask since I have so much to work on already, but is there anything else?

    I used to have some of these. Now I'm just a beaten down hunter gatherer.
    LOL you'd be surprised at how many women just fall for hunter gatherers these days! Besides these qualities are a wish list! Most women find their happiness in a man who is NOT perfect! :)