Ladies, what qualities do you like in Men?

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  • SlickFootAnna
    SlickFootAnna Posts: 611 Member
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    Sense of humor is important but you know what is even more important? Intelligence! While I enjoy conversations about what tv show was on last night, I also enjoy talking about other things like video games (yes, we can have a very meaningful discussion about video games), travel, different cultures, music, etc.
    Responsibility is paramount with adulthood but under all those bills, job, life, etc there must be something to laugh about in a childish way so any man who isn't afraid to be a kid at heart is golden to me.

    Did you see me mention money and 6 pack abs? No. ZzzZzzville
  • awake4777
    awake4777 Posts: 190 Member
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    Wow... what I have so far.. in a man you need......

    Honesty
    down to earth
    makes me laugh so hard I snort
    a good kisser, intelligent
    Manly Man
    into sports
    outdoors
    Make you feel feminine
    sense of humor
    lifestyle stability
    decent communicator,
    intelligence.
    amazingly awful sense of humor walk around naked ALL THE TIME.
    6 pack] big sausage
    6 figure income
    head of hair.
    perhaps a skilled tongue would be necessary as well
    to make you feel desirable, wanted and loved.
    honest
    has integrity
    care of themselves
    similar interests.
    runner
    affiliation with fitness
    like movies
    intelligence
    confidence
    success
    ambition
    high sex drive
    good family
    relationship skills
    fast cars
    suave moves.
    nerdy guy you can play Halo 4 with!
    treat me like I deserve to be treated
    partner in all things
    Somewho who will walk through life with
    call you on your sh!
    give undying support.
    Skill and abilit
    pull their own weight
    nice smooth shaved head.
    emotionally available.
    let you put your feet under his butt to keep them warm.
    make you laugh
    smiles a lot
    holds intelligent conversations
    passionate,
    make sure you're happy
    listens.
    Computer hacking skills
    brings six pack of beer .
    good listener or willing to listen
    a hobby that takes them out of the house
    dirty mind
    intellegence
    honesty
    loyalty
    Physical attraction
    self sufficient
    independant
    confident
    kind
    patience of a saint
    witty
    smart guy
    intellectual conversationist
    loves to travel
    adventurous
    love your crazy side

    Lots of good information here. I'm almost afraid to ask since I have so much to work on already, but is there anything else?

    I used to have some of these. Now I'm just a beaten down hunter gatherer.


    Anything else? Yes, be yourself.
  • kerricolby
    kerricolby Posts: 232 Member
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    Big insurance policy.
  • crazybookworm
    crazybookworm Posts: 779 Member
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    Sense of humour! My fiance and I were best friends before we started dating, and I remember going home at night and still laughing at some of the things he said or did. It really made me fall in love with him. And surprises. Nothing materialistic but little surprises that your thinking about her. I'll be a work and fishing for something in my purse, and I'll find a note he left for me. Or My phone will Buzz with a reminder on my Calender and it's a message that he programmed in there. It's those little things that make me love him so much. 8 years together and he still give me butterflies!
  • awake4777
    awake4777 Posts: 190 Member
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    Wow... what I have so far.. in a man you need......

    Honesty
    down to earth
    makes me laugh so hard I snort
    a good kisser, intelligent
    Manly Man
    into sports
    outdoors
    Make you feel feminine

    Women's needs vary quite a bit, depending on the woman.
    sense of humor
    lifestyle stability
    decent communicator,
    intelligence.
    amazingly awful sense of humor walk around naked ALL THE TIME.
    6 pack] big sausage
    6 figure income
    head of hair.
    perhaps a skilled tongue would be necessary as well
    to make you feel desirable, wanted and loved.
    honest
    has integrity
    care of themselves
    similar interests.
    runner
    affiliation with fitness
    like movies
    intelligence
    confidence
    success
    ambition
    high sex drive
    good family
    relationship skills
    fast cars
    suave moves.
    nerdy guy you can play Halo 4 with!
    treat me like I deserve to be treated
    partner in all things
    Somewho who will walk through life with
    call you on your sh!
    give undying support.
    Skill and abilit
    pull their own weight
    nice smooth shaved head.
    emotionally available.
    let you put your feet under his butt to keep them warm.
    make you laugh
    smiles a lot
    holds intelligent conversations
    passionate,
    make sure you're happy
    listens.
    Computer hacking skills
    brings six pack of beer .
    good listener or willing to listen
    a hobby that takes them out of the house
    dirty mind
    intellegence
    honesty
    loyalty
    Physical attraction
    self sufficient
    independant
    confident
    kind
    patience of a saint
    witty
    smart guy
    intellectual conversationist
    loves to travel
    adventurous
    love your crazy side

    Lots of good information here. I'm almost afraid to ask since I have so much to work on already, but is there anything else?

    I used to have some of these. Now I'm just a beaten down hunter gatherer.
  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
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    as long as he ties me up and does dirty things to me.....

    i'm good.
  • BreakingUpWithObesity2013
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    Someone who supports me no matter what. Someone who can love me no matter what my flaws are and can overlook them. Someone who can suprise me so I'll know they care. And mostly..someone who makes me feel loved, so I don't have to question it =) Luckly...i found that man.
  • Jribeiro86
    Jribeiro86 Posts: 108 Member
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    Sense of humour! My fiance and I were best friends before we started dating, and I remember going home at night and still laughing at some of the things he said or did. It really made me fall in love with him.

    THIS! A guy definitely gets my attention-- and holds it-- if he can make me laugh. There's nothing sexier than a dude who knows how to work a conversation.
  • CupcakesAndRazorblades
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    Come on ladies.. let's be honest. Most want a 6 pack, a 10 inch cawk, and a 6 figure income. Full head of hair is a plus too.


    Nope, not true but it's easy to think that way if you have't found someone yet. Then again, I'm not your typical chick so who knows? I was instantly attracted to my husband because of his bald head. INDEPENDENT girls don't care abot MONEY because they have their OWN :)
  • sclarktiw
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    as long as he ties me up and does dirty things to me.....

    i'm good.

    I'll bring the rope!
  • brevislux
    brevislux Posts: 1,093 Member
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    Someone who isn't afraid to be who they are, talkative, open minded, intelligent, has a sense of humor, relaxed and confident. Interesting more than anything else.
  • LaSutopia
    LaSutopia Posts: 1,195 Member
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    Come on ladies.. let's be honest. Most want a 6 pack, a 10 inch cawk, and a 6 figure income. Full head of hair is a plus too.

    Ill trade 6 pack and head of hair for a man that thinks the world of me and never rejects me....You can keep your 10 inches but the income would be a plus:) not gonna lie
  • LaSutopia
    LaSutopia Posts: 1,195 Member
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    Come on ladies.. let's be honest. Most want a 6 pack, a 10 inch cawk, and a 6 figure income. Full head of hair is a plus too.

    No. No. No. No.


    All we want is to feel desirable, wanted and loved. That's it. Okay, a little sex-appeal is always a bonus :wink:.

    yes...this.
  • LaSutopia
    LaSutopia Posts: 1,195 Member
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    Wow... what I have so far.. in a man you need......

    Honesty
    down to earth
    makes me laugh so hard I snort
    a good kisser, intelligent
    Manly Man
    into sports
    outdoors
    Make you feel feminine
    sense of humor
    lifestyle stability
    decent communicator,
    intelligence.
    amazingly awful sense of humor walk around naked ALL THE TIME.
    6 pack] big sausage
    6 figure income
    head of hair.
    perhaps a skilled tongue would be necessary as well
    to make you feel desirable, wanted and loved.
    honest
    has integrity
    care of themselves
    similar interests.
    runner
    affiliation with fitness
    like movies
    intelligence
    confidence
    success
    ambition
    high sex drive
    good family
    relationship skills
    fast cars
    suave moves.
    nerdy guy you can play Halo 4 with!
    treat me like I deserve to be treated
    partner in all things
    Somewho who will walk through life with
    call you on your sh!
    give undying support.
    Skill and abilit
    pull their own weight
    nice smooth shaved head.
    emotionally available.
    let you put your feet under his butt to keep them warm.
    make you laugh
    smiles a lot
    holds intelligent conversations
    passionate,
    make sure you're happy
    listens.
    Computer hacking skills
    brings six pack of beer .
    good listener or willing to listen
    a hobby that takes them out of the house
    dirty mind
    intellegence
    honesty
    loyalty
    Physical attraction
    self sufficient
    independant
    confident
    kind
    patience of a saint
    witty
    smart guy
    intellectual conversationist
    loves to travel
    adventurous
    love your crazy side

    Lots of good information here. I'm almost afraid to ask since I have so much to work on already, but is there anything else?

    So can I pick like 10-15 things from here? Is there an order form somewhere? LOL
  • CherokeeBabe
    CherokeeBabe Posts: 1,704 Member
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    Humor, personality, intelligence. Not much else worth it in the long run. Looks fade, tight tummies eventually bulge, arms can get flabby, but what's inside sticks around for a lifetime, so it better be awesome!
  • runwmeNC
    runwmeNC Posts: 612 Member
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    Great stuff ! Keep it coming.. I'm making the list and checking it 2x times.
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
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    I never gave a rats rear end about six pack abs. For me, they had to be TALLER THAN ME, at least some decent muscles on the arms, and a killer sense of humor.

    Money would have helped too, but I married for humor. I should have stuck it out for money.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Lifting_Knitter
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    I liked your answer! :laugh: made me laugh.
  • ZombieChaser
    ZombieChaser Posts: 1,555 Member
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    Intelligence. I like someone who challenges me, and who doesn't mind being challenged. I like sarcastic dry humour. I like someone logical, because I'm more of a dreamer/creative so it grounds me. I love to learn from a person who loves to teach. I love to be treated as an equal.
  • Dark_Roast
    Dark_Roast Posts: 17,689 Member
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    I'm lucky, I got what I wanted. He's honest, sexy, fit and great with my kids. Oh, and he makes a decent amount of money. Exactly what I was looking for!