Want to start dating?

It really does happen when you least expect it. The best love occurs by accident when you don't go looking, but instead it finds you. Just do you, get your education and live your life. It WILL happen

I said the same as you.. I work full time as a sub, and go to school two nights a week for a total of 5 hours and 30 minutes.. meeting someone seemed impossible.

Meet a few people through Meetup groups, but nothing serious ever happened except learning exactly what I don't want. After how horribly things ended with the last guy, I pretty much swore off any man.

I recently went on a date with a man that I met on a dating site.. and I couldn't be happier.. lol. It just feels like we fit, and I don't feel like it's too good to be true... which could either be good or bad, but I guess I'll find out.

Maybe join a dating site, and see what happens... granted you'll have to weed out a lot of werido's who only want one thing, but there are decent ones out there.

personally i wouldnt want to date a guy i met in a bar. Most men from bars are looking for a good time. Ive been single for awhile but i think its because im looking and not just waiting for it to happen. I went through a string of bad luck i relationships its definatly made me set my standards higher. I dont just want to settle for less than i deserve but it does suck being lonely.

Why are people lonely? Lonely is sad, alone, down, crying over ice cream. Lonely is pathetic.

I don't understand this. But, I think it's part of the problem. Stop being lonely. It's not an attractive trait at all.

Ohh no hunny you got it wrong im not lonely like that. Im a mommy to 2 kiddos and have lots of friends. I meant i dislike being lonely as in i miss the cuddling , the affection, and romance. Im not alone at all. sometimes it be nice to have a little me time be alone but then id probably hate it

Men love a woman with confidence. Only boys dig chicks with low self esteem and no confidence.

Not true. Whilst confidence can be attractive, over confidence for me i.e. women who "know" / think they are gods gift to men are totally unattractive to me. The confidence that is attractive is someone who is happy with who she is and confident in that, and doesn't feel the need to ram that confidence down everyone else's fault.

But at the same time, if I am attracted to someone then I like them for who they are irrespective of whether they are confident or not. If you like them and get in to a relationship then to me part of being together is about helping that person to believe in themselves. There are amazing people out there in this world, who given a chance can be an amazing partner given a little chance and a boost, but unless i'm misunderstanding you, real men should just write these people off?

To me real men would do everything that they could to make the woman that they like feel like the most important person in the world irrelevant of what their confidence was to start with.

Are you asking me out? or am i supposed to give advice?

Aint nobody got time for this dating you speak of.

I know as for me and all my guy friends. We love a woman who is interesting, respectful, humble, nice and who can put down the iphone to talk.