What's the worst thing said about your weight ?

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  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,341 Member
    My Gramma offered to buy me some clothes. I said I had heaps of summer clothes but come winter, I'd need a new wardrobe. She said "Well, hopefully you'll have lost some weight by then, so you can buy something nice for once".


    Old bag.
  • jade2112
    jade2112 Posts: 272 Member
    I work in a motel and was walking down the hall in front of three little girls. I could hear them laughing and stomping their feet like an elephant or something was walking down the hall.

    I turned around and told them it would be best if they walked in front of me.

    Not two minutes after I got back to the desk their mother called and was screaming at me for yelling at her children and calling them brats. I said maam I did not raise my voice and I said one sentence to them.

    A few minutes after that here they come to apologize. Turns out the older one confessed what really happened.

    That was, honestly, the only time I remember being mistreated due to my fat.
  • tjl2329
    tjl2329 Posts: 169 Member
    I am finally out of plus sizes. Just barely cause I can fit most 17s and a few 15s. I have small hips but a fat stomache. I have until recently wore my clothes fairly large and typical plus clothing. A few years back I was at kohl's shopping. I was in juniors and I asked a lady for help. She pointed me to ladies. When I assured her I was in the right section. I was looking for a fifteen. She told me there was nothing there to fit me and refused to help me. I was shopping for my daughter. I was completely humiliated. Now I will soon be in a 15. Almost unbelievable. Also that I moved fast for a pregnant lady. I was just fat and I knew I didn't fit in juniors. People are so insensitive. Since soon I will not be fat anymore they are going to have to come up with a new Insult
  • dawnj87
    dawnj87 Posts: 98 Member
    Just recently had a patient say to me "you are pregnant, aren't you?" Hell No! My co-workers were more pissed than I was, they all agreed that I look like I've lost weight and the lady was just rude.
    Looking at your medical records and it says "morbidly obese"
    Trying to get on rides at Busch Gardens only to be humiliated when the bar would not lock down over my hips and stomach.
  • maggs155
    maggs155 Posts: 258
    A long time ago in my first marriage i worked at wal mart and this man said if u would take ur weight off u could find a man ur not bad looking. Well i didnt say this but for one i was married and had a man and two i wouldnt care about his opinion anyways. That was just so rude it really hurt my feelings!!!
  • Fit_Mama84
    Fit_Mama84 Posts: 234 Member
    The worst thing ever said to me was by my husband when he told me he was no longer attracted to me and that I let myself go. I don't think any words could cut me as deeply as those words did. It's been nearly 2 years and 42 pounds lost since he said that and it still makes me cry.
  • NewCaddy
    NewCaddy Posts: 845 Member
    I was called thunder thighs in high school and it made me feel horrible. Now looking back, yes, I was pear shaped even back then, but I only weighed 140 and I was 5'6" -- I'd take it now!!!
  • Thena81
    Thena81 Posts: 1,265 Member
    "you have sch a pretty face, too badd your ...."
    ummm.... ouch!!
  • Stella_Leigh
    Stella_Leigh Posts: 189 Member
    I can't even remember specifics. It just seems like high school was one long blur of a group of guys moo-ing at me.

    This.
  • feliligram
    feliligram Posts: 45
    when I was younger my mother use to tell me that since I weighed as much as a grown women and I should be able to lift as much as a grown women. I was probably around 13 at the time. :embarassed: Needless to say it always stuck with me. :grumble:
  • Queen_JessieA
    Queen_JessieA Posts: 1,059 Member
    Nothing. I can't believe people would say that. Terrible.

    Definitely not like anything I have read on here! Geez!

    I have been told I have a pretty face, tho. And once when I was little, my dad told my mom she needed to have me running laps around the house. I wasn't meant to hear it, but hear it I did . And yes, it still sticks with me :(
  • Blair_Waldorf
    Blair_Waldorf Posts: 41 Member
    Wow, I'm glad I found this discussion. I've heard alot of hurtful things in my life and now see that I'm not the only one. It helps comfort me a little somehow. There are alot of mean and inconsiderate people in the world.
  • susannegreen
    susannegreen Posts: 48 Member
    I hate how people have to mention when you gain weight......it's like, "Oh no!! Really? I hadn't noticed. Glad you let me know."

    I am only 4 months into my weight loss journey and people tell me how I look SOOOOOOOOOOOO much better now.....I mean I appreciate the recognition, but it makes me feel like I was disgusting them before.
  • lachesissss
    lachesissss Posts: 1,298 Member
    It's not the things that were said that cut deepest.
  • mandyneedtolose
    mandyneedtolose Posts: 398 Member
    Let hater's be hater's .. Don't pay them no attention !! If they are going to be rude, and degrading they aren't worth your time. Don't let asshat's like that get to you!!! Be happy with yourself!!! You know what I do to hater's *bends over* see this jiggly *kitten* .. KISS IT!!! :) Move on and don't pay them no attention!!!
  • altinker
    altinker Posts: 173
    I guess everyone has a preference. I've never been big, but I have had some guys some I'm too big and others say I'm not thick enough.

    I used to work with a group of guys, and they were just obsessed with making fun of fat people. There was this elevator that the larger people would use, and they thought it was funny to call it the person's name Express. I'm not sure why they were so obsessed with discussing this one lady's weight. I mean, she was 5'2" and maybe 200 lbs. It's not the end of the world.

    I did have somebody tell me I had a fupa because I have a little extra belly fat. I guess that was payback for me telling him he had DSLs. lol
  • imstrong4me
    imstrong4me Posts: 119
    I was teased in high school they use to call me fat pig and fat cow it really hurt my feelings im trying to lose my weight so most of the ppls that teased me they are not skinney anymore
  • Thisisnotadiet
    Thisisnotadiet Posts: 89 Member
    My father kept on calling my legs "Parma hams" through out my whole childhood and teenage times.... this was harsh. Also, my mum would keep on asking me why the hell I can't loose some weight. This was also harsh.
  • MindyG150
    MindyG150 Posts: 1,296 Member
    Only what I have said to myself...unless I didn't hear?
  • mayalin03
    mayalin03 Posts: 3
    I've gotten 'stop laughing, no seriously, stop laughing. it makes your stomach jiggle and that doesn't look good.' To what really got me wanting to chance myself was from my daughter who's 4 1/2 'I want to grow up and be skinny, not big like you mommy.'
  • clarkeje1
    clarkeje1 Posts: 1,641 Member
    You are pleasantly plump.
    Lay off the fried fish.
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    In middle school we had an assembly with a film about anorexia and bulimia. After school, kids on the bus were pointing and saying I looked just the girl from the film - all skinny and pale. I was extremely shy. It was super embarassing and I was ashamed that people thought I had an eating disorder when I didn't! (I've always been and still am naturally slimmer than my peers.) :embarassed:
  • redbreastedsapsucker
    redbreastedsapsucker Posts: 42 Member
    My daughter said my double chin is disgusting!!
  • MicroHez
    MicroHez Posts: 125 Member
    A co-worker of mine was in her like 7th or 8th month of her 2nd pregnancy. She is naturally thin as a rail due to a hyperactive thyroid. We were walking down the hall together and she said "Look, Heather, I'm almost as big as you now."

    Ouch...
  • MorbidMander
    MorbidMander Posts: 349 Member
    I remember in elementary school I got called tubby. That's the only one I can remember. The other fat comments/abusive in general, came from my uncle (who is a c*nt to be fair). I remember he looked at one of my photos that was hanging up and said, "Oh, who's that ugly girl?" there where other fat comments that I can't really remember/didn't give a crap enough to store in my brain.
    However, it's kinda funny now, because I am pretty smoking now and get hit on quite a lot... and well...he is fat and balding. C:
  • sunshine11111
    sunshine11111 Posts: 48 Member
    My ex- boyfriend told me once, "You know what men really want? A girl that looks good that they can show off to their friends."
  • lightdiva1
    lightdiva1 Posts: 935 Member
    What has been the most hurtful coming out of someone's mouth regardless of whether it is directed at me or someone else is this, ".I never got THAT big." As if being "that big" means your less of a person. Somehow worth less, or worthless, or otherwise not worthy of happiness.

    Now when I hear this kind of talk, regardless of whether the comment is made to me, about me, or someone else I speak out. Weight does not make a person worth more or less, and does not define them. Those who determine what "THAT BIG" is and how awful it is need a check up from the neck up.
  • benflando
    benflando Posts: 193
    I was said to be "Rounding" which pissed the fuark outta me. Now I'm ripped. Thank you to the person that said that to me.
  • casi_ann
    casi_ann Posts: 423 Member
    My mother aways calls me fat since I was 8 years old. She did this too when I was 95lbs and I suffered from anorexia. She aways says nobody want a fat girl and nobody will want me. And maybe she's right because well, I'm 21 and nobody wanted me in my whole life.

    Amelia, You are only 21 years old and you are beautiful. Hang in there. Someday you will meet someone that is perfect for you.
  • cicisiam
    cicisiam Posts: 491 Member
    I myself have said the most brutally honest things to myself after viewng myself in pictures. Otherwise just a couple of exes comments like "Whale" Or "Butt as big as Alaska" Or the best from a obese ex that informed me it made intimacy a problem logistics wise and was the reason for lack of attention. Uh..??? Could his own selfish behaviors and own weight issues have also been the problem? Yea..walked away on that one for good. I am my own worst honest critic.

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