To the lifters...would you be annoyed if...
Lisah8969
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Ok...I just started a lifting routine. Currently only doing 60 pounds on the bench press and yes, my arms are stressed on the last couple reps (do 2 sets of 10/12 reps). I would like to try and up the amount by 5 or 10 pounds, but I don't have someone to spot me and really don't want to drop it on my chest. So to all the lifters, how annoyed would you be if while you were between sets of something else or just standing around, I asked you to spot me so I could try and safely lift my measely 65 pounds (after you have just finished 3 or 4 times that much)? And I'm not that hot looking girl you are hoping will talk to you...i'm the lady in her 40s just trying to get in some exercise. Thanks.
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I wouldn't be annoyed. I actually offer to spot people because I'd rather people not get hurt lol. And I often need a spotter since I have no friends to lift with.0
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No, I wouldn't be annoyed.0
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Not annoyed at all.
that's just part of being involved in the community at the gym. People should be more than happy to help you out.0 -
No problem spotting someone at all. However i move up weight in the bench without a spotter right now. I do starting strength. 3 sets of five reps across. Add weight each time i bench0
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Good question because I've often wondered the same thing.
I wouldn't mind helping, BUT it must be crystal clear that I'm between sets and in my rest period. I would gladly be a spotter but then I need to get right back to my lifting program, no time for chit-chat until my next rest period.0 -
Not even a little bit. I'd rather ask you to be a spotter for you than watch your head become smashed beneath the weight you're trying to lift. THAT would annoy me. LOL.0
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I work for a gym, and I know at our gym we are more like a family, cheering on eachother. I haven't seen anyone get annoyed bc someone asked them to spot them no matter the weight. Everyone's stength is different and its better to be safe than sorry, Try to shoot for a 1 rep max0
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Ok...I just started a lifting routine. Currently only doing 60 pounds on the bench press and yes, my arms are stressed on the last couple reps (do 2 sets of 10/12 reps). I would like to try and up the amount by 5 or 10 pounds, but I don't have someone to spot me and really don't want to drop it on my chest. So to all the lifters, how annoyed would you be if while you were between sets of something else or just standing around, I asked you to spot me so I could try and safely lift my measely 65 pounds (after you have just finished 3 or 4 times that much)? And I'm not that hot looking girl you are hoping will talk to you...i'm the lady in her 40s just trying to get in some exercise. Thanks.
That's what you're supposed to do.0 -
People do it all the time for one another at my gym. I would guess that as long as someone is taking a break and you let them help you and get right back to it, then ask away. I've never heard anyone refuse to help. Most guys are very helpful in the weight room when I am there (a 40 year old just trying to work out too). Luckily my son or fiance usually can lift with me, but I know either one of them would gladly help someone out.0
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Also, until you're getting close to a 1 rep max, it's fine to move the weight up by yourself, just be cautious and rack the bar 1-2 reps shy of failure.
If you're hitting 65x10 now, shoot for 70 for reps next time, and just rack it if you're uncertain about the next rep.0 -
And here I was being proud of my 45 pounds. I'll work on upping that.0
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Wouldn't have any problem helping you, or anyone else, needing a spot on their lifts. It's what we do!
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I always ask someone to spot me at the gym the first time i increase weights, mainly because the other girls i go with would not be able to catch the weigths if they fell. Its gotten to the point some of the people ask me if i need them as a spotter today before they leave the gym. I think it would be a lot more annoying for you to drop the weight on your head and have a medical emergency where that part of the gym needs to be closed while they wait for medical help.0
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Also, until you're getting close to a 1 rep max, it's fine to move the weight up by yourself, just be cautious and rack the bar 1-2 reps shy of failure.
If you're hitting 65x10 now, shoot for 70 for reps next time, and just rack it if you're uncertain about the next rep.
Good advice. I have to get out of my mind that I "must" do a certain number of reps every time.
Thanks to everyone! I am definitely not chit chatty so I won't hold anyone up, but good to know I won't be annoying either.0 -
I would be flattered honestly to be asked. The only reason I would say no is if I was in a huge hurry for some weird reason, but I have to rest between sets anyway so why not help someone out?!
@Adrini - be proud of your 45 lbs! That means you can use the oly bar!0 -
I always ask someone to spot me at the gym the first time i increase weights, mainly because the other girls i go with would not be able to catch the weigths if they fell. Its gotten to the point some of the people ask me if i need them as a spotter today before they leave the gym. I think it would be a lot more annoying for you to drop the weight on your head and have a medical emergency where that part of the gym needs to be closed while they wait for medical help.
:laugh: That's just the image I will keep in mind when I think I can't ask for help! :laugh:0 -
Heck, I'd be so happy just seeing another woman my age in the weight room I'd probably thank you for asking. But yeah, ask away. Every once in awhile someone will be rude about it, but that's their problem, not yours. (And sometimes they aren't rude, but still have some other reason not to spot you right then, don't take it personally.)0
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I've been asked and I didn't mind0
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I wouldn't be annoyed. It doesn't matter what weight you are lifting.
But, and I might get flack for this here, I would actually suggest focusing on lifting a weight that challenges you with good form instead of trying for a weight where you risk failure. I have been lifting on my own, without a spotter, and I've been making gains without ever being close to hurting myself. Just my 2c.0 -
You can also drag a bench into the squat rack and set up the safety pins so you won't be pinned if you can't get the bar up. I do this all the time because I hate having to ask for a spotter and because I have gotten pinned by the bar before!0
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I always ask someone to spot me at the gym the first time i increase weights, mainly because the other girls i go with would not be able to catch the weigths if they fell. Its gotten to the point some of the people ask me if i need them as a spotter today before they leave the gym. I think it would be a lot more annoying for you to drop the weight on your head and have a medical emergency where that part of the gym needs to be closed while they wait for medical help.
No spotter can "catch" the weights if they fell. They're not there for that. The spotter is there to provide some extra oomph on a rep that you can't complete. Even a weak person can spot a person doing a big bench press.0 -
Great thread, thanks for asking this question. I was wondering too.0
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Nope, not annoying at all! It's part of lifting.
I had my trainer spot a 1/2-get-up weight increase to 22 lbs. :laugh:0 -
Absolutely not!!!! You'll likely even make some cool friends. 0
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I round up 3 guys regularly to spot me squatting...
i've never had anyone who was annoyed/refused to help.0 -
You are supposed to ask for a spot when one is needed. Either from another lifter or the staff at the gym.
It is the person that has a problem with you asking them that is the jerk, not you for asking.
Make sure you tell your spotter how you want to be helped though. Tell them the number of reps you want to try and if you want them to grab the bar off or just assist you if you struggle.0 -
I would be glad to help...no annoyance at all.0
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Not the slightest. I am proud of everyone that has the courage to walk through the doors of the gym. it can be intimidating.
I seek to be an encouragement.
plus, the lifting community has a sense of 'togetherness'. I have never had someone balk at my request.
btw, if you don't get the spot, you will either:
* get hurt or
* limit your progress
(bot don't lift to fatigue every set, every day...)0 -
Asking for a spot, and spotting someone when asked, is the most basic courtesy in a weight room. doesn't matter who the spotter or spottee is0
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Nope, not annoyed at all. As a matter of fact, if i see you struggling i will offer some assistance, which some ppl tend to be annoyed by WTH0
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