Guys perspective

Okay but that didn't answer my second question...oh and does a girl calling take the fun out of the chase?

The entire notion that a guy wants to chase is a myth perpetuated by a bunch of book writers saying what their target audience wants to hear and believe.

Guys do not enjoy rejection any more then you do,get the princess notion out of your head and be willing to be a partner.

I call bull****. Even I, as a female, like to chase every once and again. Its fun to watch them slowly capitulate, muah ha ha!

I would have already called you if I was interested.

Should girls call guys? What goes through your mind when we do call?

I've always thought that women who called me had good judgement and were especially discriminating. Delusional or correct, it's what I thought.

I'm not certain what you mean about women calling men. If you don't have business to conduct, then I don't see why you would. Nor, if it's business, why you would hesitate. If you're referring to telephoning a potential suitor, then it's another matter entirely; and a matter I don't endorse! I'm not certain what sort of a woman would do that but I wouldn't like to meet her in a dark alley. There are certain rules, young lady, that are there to protect you. If you haven't been taught such things then you may well be in for a difficult life.
With love,
Burt

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Should girls call guys? What goes through your mind when we do call?

No. Women should never be allowed near technology or books. It gives them ideas and before you know it they'll start thinking.

This.

There is nothing wrong with calling a guy. Some of us well respect you more for it. Remember what they say: "First impressions last a lifetime." Not just first impressions, but patterns after that first impression. I can't speak for anyone else, but in my opinion, the days of responding to the games are over. Games are the quickest way of turning most men off. Sure. we still want to be the knight in shining armor when you need a flat tire changed, or a jar opened. But you will lose a quality man off you play games too much.


I enjoy the chase like any other guy, but if I have to work so hard just to get a date, that tells me that a relationship with you is WAY more work than it should be and I'll move on. If you show me that my work is paying off, then you will continue to get that hard working guy, trying to impress you and make you happy.


Hope this helps!

Yes, and for someone like me who never had the ladies flocking on him for his looks alone, it's exciting. If he is a GQ pretty boy who never had to try and couldn't summon a personality to save his life, he will probably be annoyed.