how come i see girls checking me out (psychologist welcome)

furenaef
furenaef Posts: 157 Member
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but i rarely approach them? its like i know i can get at least a number but i just brush it off and walk away.
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  • ChloeRoseLejeune
    ChloeRoseLejeune Posts: 488
    are you fishing for compliments
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    nope, but thanks for the compliment
  • Tercob
    Tercob Posts: 151 Member
    are you fishing for compliments

    LOL,riiiight?
  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
    Apparently you're not interested just because someone is interested. That's normal.
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    You may be seeing things that don't exist. :wink:
  • ChloeRoseLejeune
    ChloeRoseLejeune Posts: 488
    nope, but thanks for the compliment

    and that is why they don't approach you.
  • iulia_maddie
    iulia_maddie Posts: 2,780 Member
    are you fishing for compliments
    You say it like it's a bad thing.
  • jayche
    jayche Posts: 1,128 Member
    no balls brah beta4lyfe
  • oudixon
    oudixon Posts: 389 Member
    You may be seeing things that don't exist. :wink:

    It could be because the phone is in front of his eyes.
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    Apparently you're not interested just because someone is interested. That's normal.

    i always meet these beautiful women, but most of them dont have no goals or hobbies in life other then shopping and going clubbing.
    its like ive stopped talking to them since all of them are the same.
  • Ed98043
    Ed98043 Posts: 1,333 Member
    1. Decide what type of women you want to meet.
    2. Find out where those types of women spend their time.
    3. Go there.

    Are you meeting all these shopping and clubbing girls...at the shops and clubs?
  • UrbanLotus
    UrbanLotus Posts: 1,163 Member
    Maybe you need to meet better women...not ones that don't have no goals lol.
  • dstromley1
    dstromley1 Posts: 165
    simple. your gay
  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
    i always meet these beautiful women, but most of them dont have no goals or hobbies in life other then shopping and going clubbing.
    its like ive stopped talking to them since all of them are the same.

    Going out and doing things that relate to your goals and hobbies is a great way to meet people. I met my SO while I was performing at an AIDS benefit.
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    1. Decide what type of women you want to meet.
    2. Find out where those types of women spend their time.
    3. Go there.

    Are you meeting all these shopping and clubbing girls...at the shops and clubs?

    yes, but i have no idea where i can meet women, all the ones i meet are 19-25

    and the older then that have kids or are divorced. so do not want
    simple. your gay

    interesting...
  • dezcast
    dezcast Posts: 429 Member
    1. Decide what type of women you want to meet.
    2. Find out where those types of women spend their time.
    3. Go there.

    Are you meeting all these shopping and clubbing girls...at the shops and clubs?

    yes, but i have no idea where i can meet women, all the ones i meet are 19-25

    and the older then that have kids or are divorced. so do not want



    There's your problem... who cares if they are divorced? Have you slept with someone else? Im sure you have, so what's the problem
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    So OP, what else are you doing besides feverishly checking your inbox every 5 seconds for messages from women?
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    i always meet these beautiful women, but most of them dont have no goals or hobbies in life other then shopping and going clubbing.
    its like ive stopped talking to them since all of them are the same.

    Going out and doing things that relate to your goals and hobbies is a great way to meet people. I met my SO while I was performing at an AIDS benefit.

    ok my hobbies

    guitar
    lifting
    unicycling
    reading
    cycling
    kayaking

    dont see many women doing these excpt the gym, but i work out by my self.
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    So OP, what else are you doing besides feverishly checking your inbox every 5 seconds for messages from women?

    touching myself
  • dstromley1
    dstromley1 Posts: 165
    damnn the unicycling usually has the ladys flocking to ya
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    That's a mirror. You see you checking you out, and then you lose interest in you.

    Problem solved.
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    damnn the unicycling usually has the ladys flocking to ya

    actually you would be surprised how much action you do get on a uni
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    So OP, what else are you doing besides feverishly checking your inbox every 5 seconds for messages from women?

    touching myself
    Challenge yourself and use your off hand...it'll burn more cals.
  • Junken_Diraffe
    Junken_Diraffe Posts: 716 Member
    <~~Reads, lifts, kayaks.
    <~~Is a woman.

    Just keep doing what you'e doing. you'll meet a girl.
  • cyberskirt
    cyberskirt Posts: 218
    So it's not that you want to know why they are checking you out and you are brushing them off.

    It's that you want to know how to meet quality women... that answer is pretty simple.

    Be a quality man. No woman with substance is going to look at you twice if you behave shallow.

    Hope this helps!
  • subconscious_ink
    subconscious_ink Posts: 194 Member
    i always meet these beautiful women, but most of them dont have no goals or hobbies in life other then shopping and going clubbing.
    its like ive stopped talking to them since all of them are the same.

    Going out and doing things that relate to your goals and hobbies is a great way to meet people. I met my SO while I was performing at an AIDS benefit.

    ok my hobbies

    guitar
    lifting
    unicycling
    reading
    cycling
    kayaking

    dont see many women doing these excpt the gym, but i work out by my self.

    Maybe see if there is a group for cyclists in your area? Lots of women around my area join walking and cycling fitness groups. Try finding some groups on a site like www.meetup.com (website for groups based around hobbies).
  • DonnaNCgirl
    DonnaNCgirl Posts: 372
    simple. your gay

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    but i rarely approach them? its like i know i can get at least a number but i just brush it off and walk away.

    Why make the effort? Eventually you'll pass two super models walking down the street and they will cat fight over you and you'll be glad you never did any heavy lifting.
  • Marcellus_08
    Marcellus_08 Posts: 253
    damnn the unicycling usually has the ladys flocking to ya

    Hahahahaha I'm dyyyying.
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    <~~Reads, lifts, kayaks.
    <~~Is a woman.

    Just keep doing what you'e doing. you'll meet a girl.

    If you are ever in miami lol
    i always meet these beautiful women, but most of them dont have no goals or hobbies in life other then shopping and going clubbing.
    its like ive stopped talking to them since all of them are the same.

    Going out and doing things that relate to your goals and hobbies is a great way to meet people. I met my SO while I was performing at an AIDS benefit.

    ok my hobbies

    guitar
    lifting
    unicycling
    reading
    cycling
    kayaking

    dont see many women doing these excpt the gym, but i work out by my self.

    Maybe see if there is a group for cyclists in your area? Lots of women around my area join walking and cycling fitness groups. Try finding some groups on a site like www.meetup.com (website for groups based around hobbies).

    no unicycle groups in my area, but yeah i went on a kayaking meet up, it was nice, but the women where 35+ , not my cup of tea

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