I approached my gym crush .....

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  • clarkeje1
    clarkeje1 Posts: 1,641 Member
    bump! i'm intrigued
  • toomuchbootyindapants
    toomuchbootyindapants Posts: 811 Member
    I told my gym crush that she was my gym crush....and she doesn't really talk to me now. :indifferent: Think I came across too creepy? :embarassed:
  • djsupreme6
    djsupreme6 Posts: 1,210 Member
    keep on laying the hints and he'll be unsure. Just cause you talked to him doesn't mean he knows as he may get this type of thing all the time. Guys will know you're interested if you make it really obvious but not in a weird way...yes its tough but do it lol
  • Aello11
    Aello11 Posts: 312 Member
    patiently waiting for the next installment (tapping foot)
  • shreck05
    shreck05 Posts: 77
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  • TravisBikes
    TravisBikes Posts: 674 Member
    Sooo....
  • esmeralda44
    esmeralda44 Posts: 62 Member
    A quote from the movie Legally Blonde, 'the bend and snap works every time!'

    Too right!!

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    Ha ha ha .....I need to try the bend and snap!!!
  • esmeralda44
    esmeralda44 Posts: 62 Member
    I did go to the gym yesterday, but no sign of the crush.....booooo! However, I will go to the gym tomorrow and I am sure I will see him then.:tongue:
  • esmeralda44
    esmeralda44 Posts: 62 Member
    I told my gym crush that she was my gym crush....and she doesn't really talk to me now. :indifferent: Think I came across too creepy? :embarassed:

    Maybe?!? That's what I am afraid of!!!
  • esmeralda44
    esmeralda44 Posts: 62 Member
    keep on laying the hints and he'll be unsure. Just cause you talked to him doesn't mean he knows as he may get this type of thing all the time. Guys will know you're interested if you make it really obvious but not in a weird way...yes its tough but do it lol


    What is not a weird way??!!??!!
  • esmeralda44
    esmeralda44 Posts: 62 Member
    Bumping to see if she straddled or not :tongue:
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    lol:blushing:
  • esmeralda44
    esmeralda44 Posts: 62 Member
    A quote from the movie Legally Blonde, 'the bend and snap works every time!'

    Too right!!

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    Yay! :bigsmile:

    lool


    This just made my day!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • esmeralda44
    esmeralda44 Posts: 62 Member
    Already Friday here, off to work now but I hope to be able to sit down with a glass of wine tonight and read the next instalment of "gym crush musical"....

    Good luck OP, please wear your prettiest spandex and do your hair all nice before you go. Don't lift anything too heavy, wouldn't want to break a sweat and get all red in the face. Oh, and leave one of your earphones out for a little signal...

    I don't ware make up to the gym, my hair is either on a bun or pony tail, and I do lift. I feel that if I change how he is use to seeing me I would come of as desperate.

    what you guys think? ??
  • bookworm_847
    bookworm_847 Posts: 1,903 Member
    The next time you go to the gym if he comes up and asks to work in a set or whatever do this:

    Pull your earbuds out and smile at him. Then say "Of course you can. By the way my name is xxxxx. I figured since we see each other here all the time and are often using the same equipment that we should at least be on a first name basis." Then perhaps you can start with small talk from there, or at the least a "See you tomorrow!" Kind of friendly thing.

    ETA: I get that you're shy but even if you just introduce yourself it's a start.

    I think this is a pretty good idea. It's friendly and invites conversation, but isn't aggressive. Good luck OP! I'll be checking back here to see what happens :smile:
  • twanthe1
    twanthe1 Posts: 407
    He prob thought you were being a creeper.
  • SkimFlatWhite68
    SkimFlatWhite68 Posts: 1,254 Member
    Already Friday here, off to work now but I hope to be able to sit down with a glass of wine tonight and read the next instalment of "gym crush musical"....

    Good luck OP, please wear your prettiest spandex and do your hair all nice before you go. Don't lift anything too heavy, wouldn't want to break a sweat and get all red in the face. Oh, and leave one of your earphones out for a little signal...

    I don't ware make up to the gym, my hair is either on a bun or pony tail, and I do lift. I feel that if I change how he is use to seeing me I would come of as desperate.

    what you guys think? ??

    I wasn't serious about the spandex etc.
    Just do what you do and be natural. Take a real life friend with you and get their take on it.
    If it fails, join RSVP or something, go speed dating. He's just one guy. There are a few more out there. Even some nice ones.
  • Jonesingmucho
    Jonesingmucho Posts: 4,902 Member
    Just wait till he gets on the bench press and then straddle him... Problem solved

    Exactly!!!!

    Haha You guys are so funny! She can't spot him if she's straddling him! LOL All she could do from that position would be...oh...O.O! oh my.....my....my..mmmm
  • Hezzietiger1
    Hezzietiger1 Posts: 1,256 Member
    Just wait till he gets on the bench press and then straddle him... Problem solved

    lol
  • Deipneus
    Deipneus Posts: 1,854 Member
    He prob thought you were being a creeper.
    Thought?
  • richard205
    richard205 Posts: 18 Member
    my thoughts: Just say hi, go over, say, so what's your name, introduce yourself. remember to breathe.

    I love it when a girl introduces herself. shows confidence. she's just being friendly. not like we are getting hitched later.. become acquainted. Then he knows its ok to approach you and he knows your name (some of us guys don't want to be that annoying 'he hit on me" guy)
  • Sweet_Gurl_Next_Door
    Sweet_Gurl_Next_Door Posts: 735 Member
    most of the guys I know prefer that he approach the lady himself. at least the Arkansas men do. they get caught off guard by a lady approaching. sometimes when guys are working out in the gym they are focused on that and don't expect a lady to approach them.
    guys are very unpredictable it is hard to know what signals mean they like you. I just let a guy approach me its his job to lead.
  • Peppah7
    Peppah7 Posts: 64 Member
    Just try to be yourself & let it play out... good luck!
  • csman49
    csman49 Posts: 1,100 Member
    Ok, can't be bothered to read all of it...
    Are you f@@king him yet or what??
  • obwize
    obwize Posts: 102
    I wanna know what's happened!!!

    I had a gym crush when I was in Utah, overheard him saying he would never date a girl if she hadn't watched all episodes of Star Wars. Then he and his friend discussed whether that meant episodes 4-6 or included 1-3 (didn't find out the conclusion, I moved on to different equipment). After hearing that I was smitten. But did nothing. I wish I had, if not for anything other than fun.
  • Peachoid
    Peachoid Posts: 10 Member
    I have a gym crush, rather I am someone's gym crush. He's a trainer and he is cute. Way younger to me and very direct about his admiration. Looks straight at me, wherever I am working out and stands there with a big smile. I catch him looking at me many times, way too many times. I think I picked up on this some 6 months ago and he carries on (relentlessly). Its adorable and a bit much all at the same time. He knows I work out with my husband. My husband has picked on it and so have some of his buddies but it doesnt seem to affect him. Its amusing. I am flattered - he is cute, young, very fit, chatty, popular and looks like a real nice guy. I am a married, older woman, who isnt the best 'anything' in the gym... there are so many other women/girls who dress better, are fitter, nicer looking and I look very ordinary in comparison. I am surprised he zeroes in on me the way he does, in no subtle way. Although its not intrusive, it is distracting.
    I am not interested in him - I am married and happy and not looking for anything. He sees my lack of interest and when I don't respond to his smiles, gets disappointed, I can see that. I feel sorry for him. He can do so much better. It will be wrong of me to lead him on. I am told most men look for their moms in the woman they like (I may resemble his mom). Psychologically it is a strong pull if that is the case. But let me not psycho analyze him.
    I wish him well and hope he finds what he is looking for. (thank God I am older and wiser and my knees don't weaken easily anymore).
  • mrenville
    mrenville Posts: 2
    Hmmm...sounds like he is attracted to you or at the very least admires the way you workout. But you having tried to strike up conversation without success seems like maybe he is taken. My suggestion, for what it's worth, take it slow and try for friendship just at the gym for starters. Maybe try to leave at the same time and strike up conversation on the way out...Good luck
  • napkinpoem
    napkinpoem Posts: 38
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  • berthabunny
    berthabunny Posts: 251 Member
    BUMP

    Can't wait to hear what happens!
  • esmeralda44
    esmeralda44 Posts: 62 Member
    So I was at the gym today....he saw me I saw him then as I was walking by he immediatly took off his earbuds and I took off mine. He introduced himself immediatly and so did I we talked for a bit, and then I said I see you around. We were both working on back today so we worked out pretty much together. As I was putting up my dumbells he said, "your are leaving already?" I said, yes. I gave him my number, he send me a text later and then we had a late lunch. He said he is normally shy and that he felt bad because last week he didn't introduce himself. :tongue:
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    So I was at the gym today....he saw me I saw him then as I was walking by he immediatly took off his earbuds and I took off mine. He introduced himself immediatly and so did I we talked for a bit, and then I said I see you around. We were both working on back today so we worked out pretty much together. As I was putting up my dumbells he said, "your are leaving already?" I said, yes. I gave him my number, he send me a text later and then we had a late lunch. He said he is normally shy and that he felt bad because last week he didn't introduce himself. :tongue:

    Success!!!!!

    :drinker: :)
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