How to dump a guy without being mean?

Being nice isn't working so you have to be mean straight up tell him its over don't call me or text me. Don't take no phone calls or reply to any messages. Move on with your life and if he wants to stay in the past that is his problem. But be careful and watch your back. Some people can be controlling and won't take no for an answer. Stay safe and let family and friends know what is going on and let them know where you are going and how long you think you might be there. You can never be to safe. This world is full of monsters and you never know who they are. Good Luck!!!!!!!

invite him over for a handy
when he's nearly done
let go and turn on gay porn.
He will have to finish.

He'll never look you in the eye again.

That is so funny!!!!!!

Don't know about dumping a guy, as I never have. But my husband (the father of my 3 sons) left me by postcard.

Where was the postcard from?! Lol

Bless your heart. I have never heard of anyone using a postcard.

"I'm Pregnant."

Ball Game!!!!

He will go running over the hills but tell him you are Pregnant and it belongs to someone else or tell him you are interested in women now. That might work.

No, that will have the opposite effect. Obviously.

^^^ and don't get me wrong, I know what most *kitten* guys are capable of, and I've seen physical abuse. So if you are being harmed, please call the police =]

The problem here is assuming that harm has to be done first to warrant a police call. What about preventing possible harm? The average sized man is larger than an average sized woman and can hurt her even if he shows up without a weapon. Not saying that every man is going to try to hurt a woman who broke up with him, but the crazy violent ones aren't labelled so how is she supposed to know if he's needy or dangerous?

Women shouldn't call police every time they throw a hissy fit or have an argument, but if she truly feels she could be In danger, I say go for it. Or at least threaten him with a restraining order, let him know you're documenting every attempt at contact. Hopefully he will realize that stalking is only romantic in chick flicks where it's scripted. :huh:

C'mon guys. He's not stalking me, or making heavy breathing phone calls in the middle of the night. He's just not picking up what I'm laying down, ya feel me. :laugh: I'm kidding, I don't really talk like that. It's just not THAT serious.

I'd lay down what you pick up!

Er.

Uhm. I'd pick up what you lay down!!

Hm. Flirtfail.

Text message.

Did that. FB message as well. Also set my status to "Single" annnnd unfriended him. Can it get any more clear in this day and age?

Two words: restraining order.

In all seriousness, cutting off contact completely may be your best bet.

I agree with the restraining order.. is he still trying to contact you after all that?

I'm sorry I always had to get mean. I'd start nice and they'd always think they could get me back. Then I'd get mean, meaner and finally they probably thought I was such a ***** they didn't want to stay in a relationship with me.

Just pull one of these, so he'll be all like...

edit: nvm the gif wont post....:( :grumble:

I made this meme for Lea but I'm going to use it on you, JUST THIS ONCE. (Calm down, Lea)

Tell him about us honey:flowerforyou:

C'mon guys. He's not stalking me, or making heavy breathing phone calls in the middle of the night. He's just not picking up what I'm laying down, ya feel me. :laugh: I'm kidding, I don't really talk like that. It's just not THAT serious.

heavy breathing phone calls...haha that was funny.

Just pull one of these, so he'll be all like...

edit: nvm the gif wont post....:( :grumble:

I made this meme for Lea but I'm going to use it on you, JUST THIS ONCE. (Calm down, Lea)

I THOUGHT WE HAD SOMETHING SPECIAL.

WE DO. SCREW MATT. He hurt my feelings. Please take me back? I swear I'll never stray again!

Tell him you've devoted yourself to a life of abstinence and won't "give it up" before marriage. That will work on 99% of guys and he'll leave you as if you were the harbinger of death.

Tell him you find him pretty, but your into dudes...

Tell him you want to get married ahhhhhhhh...