How to dump a guy without being mean?

C'mon guys. He's not stalking me, or making heavy breathing phone calls in the middle of the night. He's just not picking up what I'm laying down, ya feel me. :laugh: I'm kidding, I don't really talk like that. It's just not THAT serious.

heavy breathing phone calls...haha that was funny.

Just pull one of these, so he'll be all like...

edit: nvm the gif wont post....:( :grumble:

I made this meme for Lea but I'm going to use it on you, JUST THIS ONCE. (Calm down, Lea)

I THOUGHT WE HAD SOMETHING SPECIAL.

WE DO. SCREW MATT. He hurt my feelings. Please take me back? I swear I'll never stray again!

Tell him you've devoted yourself to a life of abstinence and won't "give it up" before marriage. That will work on 99% of guys and he'll leave you as if you were the harbinger of death.

Tell him you find him pretty, but your into dudes...

Tell him you want to get married ahhhhhhhh...

Text message.

Did that. FB message as well. Also set my status to "Single" annnnd unfriended him. Can it get any more clear in this day and age?

Ugh, what an idiot. Just block and delete him, he'll get the message.

Text message.

Did that. FB message as well. Also set my status to "Single" annnnd unfriended him. Can it get any more clear in this day and age?

If you've done all this and he STILL doesn't get it then he's dense. Just tell him its over, then stop returning his calls. You've already told him once. If he didn't get it the first time then its his problem....not yours.

Just tell him you DON'T love him. Tell him, it's over - no friendship - nada. You are officially banning him from your life as you find he is incapable of friendship because he needs time to go out and find someone new. If necessary, call him and tell him to not say anything and read him a mini-speech explaining this to him. Say it's over - all of it - friendship is not possible. Be sure to tell him that you will not accept phone calls or emails and that showing up at your place will result in calling the cops and would cause him to have a record. Hang up and DO NOT ACCEPT HIS CALLS.

After that, contact the cell phone company and ask them for the number to block his cell number so you can avoid his calls and you can also block him from your email. If necessary, call him friends if you know them and tell them he may need their support as you're cutting him off entirely. They can go and help him through it so that eliminates your feeling of guilt. It's time to move on girl! Go out with the gals - date! You need to feel your freedom and sense being able to not have someone trying to control you.

If he shows up, call the cops and tell them you're scared because you specifically told him you never wanted to hear from him again. Heck, you can show them the speech you told him on the phone. The fact that you contacted them and called them there will be a record of his behavior. If he's abusive, you want a record to prove this. It won't look good if that starts to happen too often and can affect his work. It may make him think twice. They can warn him off and say this is now a record and they can hopefully get it into his bright skull. I suspect you're going to have to be brutally honest as he's not the type to believe it. Do not play a game - no more friendship - he can't do that - obviously.

Monica