I Need A Man's Opinion

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  • thiswillbefast
    thiswillbefast Posts: 2
    This went so many directions that it did not need to go. The side wars aren't really helping this girl with anything. I think several people have already stated, but I want to reiterate their note--if you change for someone else, you won't ever be happy with yourself. Self-worth and a secure identity are highly important. If you choose to loose weight, I hope you do it for yourself primarily. If you change who you are for others you will find yourself changing for all the wrong reasons.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    WTF does this have to do with insecurities ? She asked a simple question if you can't answer it gtfo. Some men are chubby chasers and some are into the boney shapeless look. I am sue you are losing weight for yourself and just wondering what men generally think. You should find a man that wants to work out and be healthy with you. But right now stay single and say screw relationships
    "bony shapeless look"?
    yes?? Some are into that look
    that pretty offensive way to describe some women
    I really do not care.

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  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    WTF does this have to do with insecurities ? She asked a simple question if you can't answer it gtfo. Some men are chubby chasers and some are into the boney shapeless look. I am sure you are losing weight for yourself and just wondering what men generally think. You should find a man that wants to work out and be healthy with you. But right now stay single and say screw relationships
    "bony shapeless look"?
    yes?? Some are into that look
    Wouldn't "slender" be a more appropriate way to put it?
    Its not my job to reword things to make you more comfortable.

    Maybe not, but it is your job to watch your mouth in the forums before someone reports you for body shaming/insulting/or whatnot. I forget the terms but you are in violation of something. It doesn't take a psychology degree to see that.
  • julies90
    julies90 Posts: 646 Member
    I'm not a man but I think you're gorgeous
  • Thewatcher_66
    Thewatcher_66 Posts: 1,643 Member
    This is getting confusing. Hard to trace down who said what and when and to whom. LOL
  • Thewatcher_66
    Thewatcher_66 Posts: 1,643 Member
    I'm not a man but I think you're gorgeous

    Yes Little Mermaid. She is. :)
  • Admiral_Derp
    Admiral_Derp Posts: 866 Member
    WTF does this have to do with insecurities ? She asked a simple question if you can't answer it gtfo. Some men are chubby chasers and some are into the boney shapeless look. I am sure you are losing weight for yourself and just wondering what men generally think. You should find a man that wants to work out and be healthy with you. But right now stay single and say screw relationships
    "bony shapeless look"?
    yes?? Some are into that look
    Wouldn't "slender" be a more appropriate way to put it?
    Its not my job to reword things to make you more comfortable.

    Somebody get this woman a box of kittens or a Care Bear Stare, STAT!
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    WTF does this have to do with insecurities ? She asked a simple question if you can't answer it gtfo. Some men are chubby chasers and some are into the boney shapeless look. I am sure you are losing weight for yourself and just wondering what men generally think. You should find a man that wants to work out and be healthy with you. But right now stay single and say screw relationships
    "bony shapeless look"?
    yes?? Some are into that look
    Wouldn't "slender" be a more appropriate way to put it?

    Oh this is cool. So for now, I guess I'm "chubby" and the chasers can like me. Then later I will graduate to the insult of being a bag of "bones" and shapeless....but not before getting my psychology degree at whatever university the author got her Insultiology PhD.
    You're right. I should have called IT out on both. I don't know how many times it has to be said but body shaming of any sort really isn't ok.
    And I don't know how many times it has to be said, that women shouldn't be tearing eachother down just because they have a different body type. It's effing maddening.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I don't think a box of Care Bears, a pickle, or any number of hugs is going to do it here, guys LOL

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  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    Yes because I said boney and shapeless and you people with no lives took it straight up the backside. Get the **** over what I say. lol stop quoting me and then claiming QQ I AM GONNA REPORT YOU. How about you report the first comment and stop quoting it and causing the flaming yourselves? YOU are the trolls.

    Seriously...who pissed your Cheerios this morning? :huh:
  • kaylaandthestarcatcher
    kaylaandthestarcatcher Posts: 836
    I don't need to watch my mouth for ****. You do not ever tell me what to do. I said some guys like skinny shapeless girls some guys like chubby girls...Get the **** over it. Or cry in the corner somewhere. Its not my problem how you take what I say. You don't see people crying over the term chubby.

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    At this point, I can't even tell if you're actually being serious anymore.
  • blackcloud13
    blackcloud13 Posts: 654 Member
    I'm frequently amazed by how an apparently simple, innocuous looking question can generate full scale wars!! I think I should start a post entitled "1+1=2; true or false?", step back and watch for fireworks!

    As for the original question; I think that there guys (like girls) have a wide variety of (weight/size) preferences - so it shouldn't really make that much difference. Main thing is you are happy with yourself - and the rest will work itself out
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I don't think a box of Care Bears, a pickle, or any number of hugs is going to do it here, guys LOL

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    I don't know... that looks like a mighty good pickle!
  • PetulantOne
    PetulantOne Posts: 2,131 Member
    you know whats attractive? self-esteem and confidence.

    Yup
  • shosho420
    shosho420 Posts: 220 Member
    Yes because I said boney and shapeless and you people with no lives took it straight up the backside. Get the **** over what I say. lol stop quoting me and then claiming QQ I AM GONNA REPORT YOU. How about you report the first comment and stop quoting it and causing the flaming yourselves? YOU are the trolls.

    Seriously...who pissed your Cheerios this morning? :huh:
    ?? the fact that you suggest I am the one in the bad mood, when I had like 8 cry babies quoting me about one comment is hilarious, i am fine, you seem to be the ones up in arms about what I said (like always). I wasn't slurring anyone, just making a comment about "types" the way you interpret it, is not my problem.
  • butterbean4283
    butterbean4283 Posts: 258 Member
    I think you are absolutely beautiful! :)
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    I don't think a box of Care Bears, a pickle, or any number of hugs is going to do it here, guys LOL

    :smokin:

    What about 3 cucumbers? I think I still have them in the fridge? I know they make me happy. Let's rename this thread to . "Need a man. Opinions?"
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I don't think a box of Care Bears, a pickle, or any number of hugs is going to do it here, guys LOL

    :smokin:
    I don't know... that looks like a mighty good pickle!

    A pickle AND a leg lamp! You'd think it could make anyone happy, right?
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    I don't think a box of Care Bears, a pickle, or any number of hugs is going to do it here, guys LOL

    :smokin:

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  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I don't think a box of Care Bears, a pickle, or any number of hugs is going to do it here, guys LOL

    :smokin:

    What about 3 cucumbers? I think I still have them in the fridge? I know they make me happy. Let's rename this thread to . "Need a man. Opinions?"

    I know three cucumbers would totally make me happy too!!
  • Phoenixchichima
    Phoenixchichima Posts: 416
    consider it a gift, if a guy wouldnt date you at your weight... thank GOD! you dont have to worry about him cuz he's not worth it.
  • Hearts_2015
    Hearts_2015 Posts: 12,032 Member
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  • Nightterror218
    Nightterror218 Posts: 375 Member
    wow
  • sidewinder76
    sidewinder76 Posts: 287
    Weight doesn't matter when it comes to dating, confidence matters :) Don't see your self worth in others opinions, see it within yourself!
  • metaphoria
    metaphoria Posts: 1,432 Member
    OP, wear your favorite clothes, get your chin up, shoulders back, look people in the eye and smile, and walk like you mean it, and any boy with a lick of common sense and the good fortune to find you will want to be by your side. :flowerforyou:
  • Pixi_Rex
    Pixi_Rex Posts: 1,676 Member
    OP. I am not a man so take my opinion or not but I think you are beautiful now and getting in shape and losing weight will only benefit you. You will gain confidence and self worth and everything you may be lacking now (not that you are lacking anything I just suck at wording things). So I think if you are happy with you, you will attract a man that is worth you now, tomorrow and forever.

    Just be yourself and be confident!
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