Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls... SO I WILL

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  • eric_sg61
    eric_sg61 Posts: 2,925 Member


    Fat chicks bang hot guys... ALL. THE. TIME. I know that hot is relative and all inclusive depending on who you chat with, but for these purposes, lets talk about the "universally attractive" kind of hot. Y'know, the kind fat chicks don't deserve? We want to pretend that we don't know what I'm talking about, but lets be real; we totally do. The fact that "fat chicks bang 'hot' guys" was one of the most powerful realizations I've had thus far. In line with the above paragraph, I knew that there would be someone that would find me attractive but the pool would be small (because of my body) and potentially full of guys I didn't personally find sexy. So I would have to settle for anyone that would take me. After all, how could a conventionally gorgeous man (tall and with tattoos of course) like fat chicks? Weh-he-hell, let me tell you somethin': through various sites, events, parties, and corner store meetings, I found myself with over a hundred men who were champing at the bit to get with this. I was the one who had to sift through and pick the hottest of the hot. Ladies, over a hundred. "Girls" showed what society thinks about that when Hannah's character has a weekend romance with an attractive and wealthy doctor. People flipped their ****. "Patrick Wilson is so hot he would never do Lena Dunham" was the most eye catching. Wilson's wife responded to that rubbish here, but the tweet speaks volumes about what the majority of people think unconventional women deserve. Jesus christ, it's annoying. I won't spill the details of my bedroom coming and goings, but lets just say this: the hottest guys in Tucson and I get along just fine. I would recommend reading Emily's article on xoJane for a better explanation of what I'm struggling to say. Know this: the myth that "atypical" bodies can't be paired with "typically attractive" bodies is false. Women need to know that all bodies can be paired with all bodies.


    This is the only bit I do not like. Nobody should judge themselves by who will have sex with them. No-one.
    She doesn't help the stereotype of fat girls being easy.
  • Silver_Star
    Silver_Star Posts: 1,351 Member
    i have only two boobies, but i love this topic. Yaaay :flowerforyou: :heart:
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I like women of all kinds, personally.

    And my balls hang differently. I always assumed one was lower than the other so they didn't knock against eachother while i was running.
  • AprilMae1975
    AprilMae1975 Posts: 726
    Loved this ♥
  • dlmaylor
    dlmaylor Posts: 25
    Needed that thanks!!!!!
  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    [/quote]
    She doesn't help the stereotype of fat girls being easy.
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    skinny girls can be wh0res too my dear. I'm perfectly comfortable with my sexuality, and if it means a few more boys in my bed, then yay me!
  • amy1612
    amy1612 Posts: 1,356 Member
    She doesn't help the stereotype of fat girls being easy.
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    skinny girls can be wh0res too my dear. I'm perfectly comfortable with my sexuality, and if it means a few more boys in my bed, then yay me!
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    Its nothing to do with 'being a *kitten*'...its to do with telling people that the attractiveness of the people they sleep with defines their self worth. Sex with hot guy, sex with ugly guy....you should feel happy about your body and proud either way.
  • samr73
    samr73 Posts: 440 Member
    Absolutely bloody brilliant!!
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    I'd like to know where these hot guys are. I'm not finding them.
  • Fit_Mama84
    Fit_Mama84 Posts: 234 Member
    bump
  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
    :happy: :heart: :happy:
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  • alisha_1983
    alisha_1983 Posts: 507 Member
    <3 this
  • Vailara
    Vailara Posts: 2,472 Member
    Nice, positive article - thanks!
  • Ascolti_la_musica
    Ascolti_la_musica Posts: 676 Member
    :heart: :flowerforyou:
  • KarlaH9801
    KarlaH9801 Posts: 362 Member
    *love!*
  • Robertsollady
    Robertsollady Posts: 56 Member
    Love this!! Very powerful and well stated! Thanks for sharing!!
    :heart: :flowerforyou:
  • Robertsollady
    Robertsollady Posts: 56 Member
    :smile: thank you i needed to hear this
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    Fantastic...

    not much point in using a forum like this then, so i m having bacon, sausage, mushrooms in butter with fried bread and an egg on top today and am going to enjoy the positive nature of your post ...

    So much so it seems pointless aiming for my weight loss goal and i may as well treat myself now and i think i ll get a tattoo of the entire 10 things you posted so everyone knows and can be happy like me - and i reckon with a bit of creative work it will just about fit on my belly !!!!!!!!!!

    Thanks for the help !

    I'm sure that's the point. Good job on nailing it.
  • latenitelucy
    latenitelucy Posts: 1,314 Member
    Did anyone look at the pictures? They are amazing, http://www.thebodyimages.com/
    They really are
  • NC_Sean
    NC_Sean Posts: 64
    You had me at 30 different women in my bed.........


    Yep...
  • hauhaut901
    hauhaut901 Posts: 66 Member
    /disagree

    I think fat women/men need to acknowledge that excess fat is unhealthy (and ofc estetically unappealing but that isn't the main point , getting fit should be for getting healthier) and use that "hate" for their fat as a motivation to get rid of it , saying "you're beautiful just the way you are" eventually leads to your own defeat.

    In life you need to strive to be your very best in every single category and never satisfy for anything less than that
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    A male friend of mine loves larger women. There is a lid for every pot as they say.
  • marionmmm
    marionmmm Posts: 61
    hehehehe - to the part about bucking fashion trends and wearing what you want.... I have $3 Walmart tube tops in every color... and I said DAM, I look pretty good in them... hehehehehe yes, I said tube tops!
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    /disagree

    I think fat women/men need to acknowledge that excess fat is unhealthy (and ofc estetically unappealing but that isn't the main point , getting fit should be for getting healthier) and use that "hate" for their fat as a motivation to get rid of it , saying "you're beautiful just the way you are" eventually leads to your own defeat.

    In life you need to strive to be your very best in every single category and never satisfy for anything less than that

    :noway: :noway: :noway:

    Seriously get out...really let me open the door for you.

    "Fat" people know that excess fat is unhealthy but don't tell me it's unappealing. I was/am overweight when I met my husband (30lbs heavier then I am now) lost some gained it back...for 3 years...he thought and still thinks I am the sexiest most attractive woman everrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. He is HOT HOT HOT...by anybodies standards and 9 years younger(he was 26 when we met and I was 37) oh and a mom of a 15 year old brat boy. I am and always will be sexy and beautiful as are all people with self confidence, that is not relegated to fit and healthy people.

    My journey into fitness has nothing to do with my self confidence it has to do with my desire to be fit and healthy and this article is trying to get others to that point...hate of oneself (as you say over weight people should feel) leads to defeat and if people who feel that way ever get "slim" they will always see that fat person and always lack self confidence.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    /disagree

    I think fat women/men need to acknowledge that excess fat is unhealthy (and ofc estetically unappealing but that isn't the main point , getting fit should be for getting healthier) and use that "hate" for their fat as a motivation to get rid of it , saying "you're beautiful just the way you are" eventually leads to your own defeat.

    In life you need to strive to be your very best in every single category and never satisfy for anything less than that

    Yes and no.

    Of course being healthy should be a goal for everyone. Yes more people need to accept and move to change their current health. NO THEY SHOULD NOT HATE THEMSELVES and try to be healthy with hate as any type of motivation.

    Your prompt to use hate is kind of telling though.

    Best of luck on your journey.
  • WhataBroad
    WhataBroad Posts: 1,091 Member
    /disagree

    I think fat women/men need to acknowledge that excess fat is unhealthy (and ofc estetically unappealing but that isn't the main point , getting fit should be for getting healthier) and use that "hate" for their fat as a motivation to get rid of it , saying "you're beautiful just the way you are" eventually leads to your own defeat.

    In life you need to strive to be your very best in every single category and never satisfy for anything less than that

    I am sure many, if not all of us, agree with your point of excess fat as unhealthy but really... go post that in another thread so that the rest of us who truly understand the intent of this one, can learn to love ourselves along the way to 'getting rid of it'.

    ETA: I :heart: this post so hard... thanks lilRicki!
  • WhataBroad
    WhataBroad Posts: 1,091 Member
    I like women of all kinds, personally.

    And my balls hang differently. I always assumed one was lower than the other so they didn't knock against eachother while i was running.

    LMAO
  • TX_Rhon
    TX_Rhon Posts: 1,549 Member
    First and foremost, I liked you cuz your a Saints fan.........enough said there.

    Great post :)
  • creech6317
    creech6317 Posts: 869 Member
    bump
  • vanillacoffee
    vanillacoffee Posts: 1,024 Member
    This is awesome. Thank you for posting.

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