Infidelity & MFP - What Gives?

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  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
    We really need a prude side and a lewd side around here.

    I want to be in the middle so everybody loves me
  • JingleMuffin
    JingleMuffin Posts: 543 Member
    I'm a flirt and my husband is freaking hot. I know he gets flirted with and hes a friendly guy so it probably seems like hes flirting when hes just being a nice person. I flirt too. I think its socially accepted and helps makes the world a little brighter. No matter how long I'm married (my whole life I hope) I'll always be an animal on the inside. attraction is primal. That dosen't mean I'm going to sleep with anyone. I only love one man.

    people that deny being attracted to anyone else besides their spouse is just silly. I'm MOST attracted to him because I'm emotionally attached. and hes awesome. and hes a great deal. and a ton of other reasons. But I flirt and its fine with me if he does.
  • MNA76
    MNA76 Posts: 1,541
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  • InnerConflict
    InnerConflict Posts: 1,592 Member
    I only have one question. Who here wants to bang me? :huh:

    I do. But I have told you that already
  • innakarpyuk
    innakarpyuk Posts: 10 Member
    i do not believe flirting of any kind is honorable in a marriage.
  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    Meh....what they do is what they do....

    i don't have time to worry about what they do.

    I worry about me. and what *I* do and that's a full time job.

    someone else's marriage and fidelity is someone else's.

    I still call them friends, I don't worry about their choices, as long as it doesn't affect me personally.
  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    My husband wouldn't like a lot of what goes on here, to be honest.

    My boyfriend thinks it's hot.


    On a serious note, I respect your post, and agree for the most part that what you have said holds some truth. But honestly every relationship IS different, so what is cheating or flirting to some might be a normal day occurrence to others.
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    And I am trying to figure out how exactly other people's relationships affect you. Maybe keep your eyes on your own page?
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
    I only have one question. Who here wants to bang me? :huh:

    You fishin?...:flowerforyou: :love: :love: :heart: :blushing: :blushing: :flowerforyou: :heart:
  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
    i do not believe flirting of any kind is honorable in a marriage.

    In YOUR marriage.
  • ChristinaR720
    ChristinaR720 Posts: 1,186
    Most topics in this section of the forum aren't (and shouldn't) be taken seriously. I'm happily married and, while I've never been big on flirting, I think it's just part of human nature to look.

    I draw the line at touching, though. And, last I checked, you can't touch someone through the internet...or can you??? :bigsmile:
  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
    In for the drama-watching and gifs! :laugh:

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  • JaneDough_
    JaneDough_ Posts: 301 Member
    I don't care.

    It's fun to watch the train wrecks though.

    /popcorn.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    It seems you have discovered the true purpose of MFP.
  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
    I only have one question. Who here wants to bang me? :huh:

    You fishin?...:flowerforyou: :love: :love: :heart: :blushing: :blushing: :flowerforyou: :heart:

    ~Tosses out my reel~
  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
    My husband wouldn't like a lot of what goes on here, to be honest.

    My boyfriend thinks it's hot.
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
    I only have one question. Who here wants to bang me? :huh:

    You have nice knee caps but I can only assume you are headless for a reason.

    Yes. Ask anyone. I am a butter face.
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    In for popcorn

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  • Iron_Maiden
    Iron_Maiden Posts: 326 Member
    My wife is on my friends list!

    You think banter on a website constitutes what exactly??????
    Nope, not talking about banter. Talking about the half dozen examples in my time here I know about in which they PM'd all night, propositioned one another, spouses didn't know they were on here, lead to phone calls, KIK, sexting, etc....
  • BoomstickChick
    BoomstickChick Posts: 428 Member
    Maybe it's none of anyone else's business? Why does it bother you?
  • LoudmouthLee
    LoudmouthLee Posts: 358 Member
    I'm new here, and I have to tell you, although I respect your opinion about keeping the institution of marriage holy, what they do is none of your concern or business.

    At all.

    Live and let live.
  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    I just found out this thing had a food diary yesterday.
  • saxmaniac
    saxmaniac Posts: 1,133 Member
    In my time here, I've witnessed a fair amount of dating, canvasing, flirting, propositioning, attention seeking, etc (whatever you want to call it - in it's many shades) among married people. Tho single, I've been married and and have full respect for the institution (forgive the pun).

    If there's one thing I really love... it's getting marriage advice from people who failed at it.
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    I'm single...

    guys, please FR, PM, send junk pics, flirt, etc....bring it on!

    Even if you're married....because if you don't actually show up at my door, it's not cheating...
  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
    Talking about the half dozen examples in my time here I know about in which they PM'd all night, propositioned one another, spouses didn't know they were on here, lead to phone calls, KIK, sexting, etc....
    Just curious, how do you really know this is what happened unless you were involved?
  • JessieJanie
    JessieJanie Posts: 428
    My marriage is really none of your business. You couldn't handle the way we do it anyway.

    Amen.
  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
    I just found out this thing had a food diary yesterday.

    There's a food diary here? :huh:
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
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  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    I do major flirting her but would never cheat on my love. That being said I am not the guardian of vertue and don't really care what others are doing or not doing.
  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
    I only have one question. Who here wants to bang me? :huh:

    You fishin?...:flowerforyou: :love: :love: :heart: :blushing: :blushing: :flowerforyou: :heart:

    ~Tosses out my reel~

    To be fair to the thread...since you know...we're all just cheating sluts anyways...I need to bring the wife....you cool with that?

    If you didn't bring her I would ask you to leave. Politely of course.
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