Be honest... you add 'hot' people

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  • berriboobear
    berriboobear Posts: 524 Member
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    I'm not going to lie, "hot" people are more tempting, but in the end, I'd rather have a few "friends" than a whole ton that I never interact with. I'm approaching the point where even though I have less than 20 friends, I will delete people who haven't been online for a month.

    There's also that whole issue of whether people send a message with their requests or not. Especially without a message, I go to look at their profile to see if we have anything in common or if they'll be a good support/conversation partner.
  • velodreams
    velodreams Posts: 6
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    Uh, no I add everyone. Why should I only add "hot" ppl? But truth be told, i do think that the female members who r my new friends r all pretty good-looking (u know who u r). Kudos to u all for taking care of urselves both inside & out! :)
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    If a super hot guy friends me with a message I'll normally add him (though I'll add most people who send me a message unless it's creepy)... But if he isn't interactive or fun I'll drop him. I love the people on my friends list for more than the way their abs look.

    Edit: Apparently my brain wasn't working because half of the first sentence didn't make sense.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
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    I don't add people based on their looks seeing as how this is not a dating site. I do delete those I don't interact with when I feel like my friends list is getting out of control I'm also one of those annoying people who posts a ton of personal stuff on my wall. :wink:
  • Tiff050709
    Tiff050709 Posts: 497 Member
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    I don't add people based on looks.
  • themirandarin
    themirandarin Posts: 14 Member
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    I add anyone.

    When they're hot its a plus.
    Yep me too

    Maybe I am missing something, but how is that "a plus"? How does it benefit you, in any way, for a MyFitnessPal friend to be hot? I never really got the impression that this was being used as either 1) a place to go OMGHAWT! and add people to drool over or 2) some sort of next-to-level dating site, but maybe I was mistaken.

    Anyway, no. I've never added someone based on looks. If someone says they need a cheerleader or to have someone praise their progress, I'll friend them. If someone is on here to be told they're attractive, f that noise.

    Turns out guys like looking at, and talking to, attractive women. Crazy, I know.

    It's not crazy *in person*. Part of being a human is finding other people attractive, and a lot of people gravitate towards those to whom they are attracted. But online? I don't get it. If you want to see people who are attractive, and see them dressed skimpily, why not go whole-hog and go to someplace like adultfriendfinder, or just go look at pornography? When you see the words someone has typed, are they somehow more appealing when you can refer to their carefully taken vanity photos to see that yes, they are "hot"?

    Is the goal to meet up with the people you find attractive? Is it to skype with them or something? I'm not joking; I seriously do. not. get. it.
  • mrshoneydew
    mrshoneydew Posts: 253
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    I add people who look like they are having a lot of success on MFP so I can follow them as examples. There looks have nothing to do with it, but progress photos are helpful because I can see that they are doing well with their weight loss. I will also add people who have expressed interest in being friends because they need motivation. Once again, looks have nothing to do with it. I do however only have a few guy friends and I am choosy with who I add because I have had dudes add me and then flirt with me. I am here for being in shape and I am married, I'm not here to hook up.
    Also, if I see people who have similar interests in movies, music, humor, etc. I will add them because I do like meeting new friends. I don't care what you look like, as long as you're cool and not mean.
  • milf_n_cookies
    milf_n_cookies Posts: 2,244 Member
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    I like FR that come with creepy messages about how hot I am. If you are willing to flatter me and tell me nice things I will add you, but I will only kik you naked pictures if your hot.
  • healthyandfitgirl14
    healthyandfitgirl14 Posts: 413 Member
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    i am hot
  • mrshoneydew
    mrshoneydew Posts: 253
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    Ignore. I tried to edit my post and accidentally quoted myself instead. :grumble:
  • CuriosityBrah
    CuriosityBrah Posts: 23 Member
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    I only add people I know IRL.
  • El_Cunado
    El_Cunado Posts: 359 Member
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    I add no one. Hot or not.
  • healthyandfitgirl14
    healthyandfitgirl14 Posts: 413 Member
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    I only add people I know IRL.

    strong first post.
  • lina1131
    lina1131 Posts: 2,246 Member
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    I request people that inspire me.

    I accept FR from people that want to be inspired and supported.

    Looks have nothing to do with it.
  • CuriosityBrah
    CuriosityBrah Posts: 23 Member
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    I only add people I know IRL.

    strong first post.

    aware, do you misc
  • JohnnyCashMoney
    JohnnyCashMoney Posts: 142
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    I only add funny, smart people. I'll make exceptions for a woman if she has a nice rack. That's just how I roll.
  • Fit_Mama84
    Fit_Mama84 Posts: 234 Member
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    I tend to add people who write something funny, insightful, or otherwise interesting in the forums.
  • italianangel143
    italianangel143 Posts: 64
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    I only add funny, smart people. I'll make exceptions for a woman if she has a nice rack. That's just how I roll.


    :huh: ^^ seriously? Lol
  • JohnnyCashMoney
    JohnnyCashMoney Posts: 142
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    I only add funny, smart people. I'll make exceptions for a woman if she has a nice rack. That's just how I roll.


    :huh: ^^ seriously? Lol

    Yep. I likes what I likes. But, as I only have 3 friends, I'm not too serious about the process.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    I only add funny, smart people. I'll make exceptions for a woman if she has a nice rack. That's just how I roll.


    :huh: ^^ seriously? Lol

    What's wrong with that? :huh:

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