What do you guys do when you feel like giving up?

Everyone has given some great advice on here. I know for me there are plenty of days I want to throw in the towel or I get frustrated for letting myself get to this point. Stay encouraged and keep trying! It motivates me to look at success stories on MFP, YouTube, or google, or to think about the clothes I will be able to fit into, or I think about how much happier I was and how much more energy I had when I was 40lbs lighter. Maybe try setting small goals for yourself....like losing 5lbs or working out for just 30 minutes a few days a week. Once I see small changes, that usually motivates me to keep going and create new goals.

I have a picture stuck to my dresser mirror of me at my heaviest...seeing this gives me drive to never look like that again.

Lots of great advice. I searched the internet for weight loss inspirational messages and downloaded many onto my Ipad so I can look at them when I feel discouraged. I have a mini-support group of 1st cousins and we meet physically once a month. I haven't lost much on the scale, but I have numerous NSV: my muffin top is nearly gone in the pants that I currently own for example and I don't need the bra extender on my bra anymore. I count my blessings, that I have no illnesses or pain like some members of my support group, and that I CAN get up and work out. The only BAD workout is the one that didn't happen, so do any physical activity. I also look at where I have been and remember that I didn't get this big overnight...so, of course, it isn't going to fall off quickly. I am healthier and I do not take any medications whatsoever and I am 57. I had a full physical exam last year (because I don't usually get sick, another blessing) so that I would have a baseline for comparison in case I ever do and all my doctor could say when I brought up my weight (and prediabetes status) was "diet at 1200 calories a day and exercise for 2 hours everyday". I thought, "is he serious (he was)?" So I decided that I would do what I could and SHOW him that the next time he sees me I will be down in weight without his ridiculous medical advice. MFP does have me at 1210 calories, however, but the amount of exercise was not feasible to me. Good luck, and don't give up.

SUCK IT UP, BUTTERCUP!

(that's what I tell myself. It's also what I'm telling you! :^) )

I go a meal or two without caring and then I feel better and am back on track.

Hey I was just wondering what you do when you feel like giving up and no caring anymore. I have been feeling discouraged lately....not wanting to count calories anymore or go to the gym..

I regroup, reassess my goals and priorities, take a big breath, count my blessings that I can still do stuff, and I keep going. I am not a quitter!

For eating, not so much because I still get my treats and what not.

For exercising, how often are you working out? Are you feeling burnt out? Maybe scale back a day for a couple of weeks. I normally workout 3 days a week (not including getting out for a walk with my toddler on nice days). So, for me, I feel it's less commitment. I tried 4 days and I ended up taking way too long a break because I felt that way, so I don't push it.

Make sure your doing the exercises you enjoy. For me, I say "okl I'll just do my Ripped in 30 dvd and forget the wii zumba." I usually end up doing some wii zumba as well.

Also I look at where I came from. 30+ pounds lost since Janurary, and I have a bridesmaids dress to wear in September. I feel great and I can't believe how strong I'm becoming. I am currently in clothes I was pre-pregnancy, and they fit me better now than before!

i believe that perhaps your goals are not aligned correctly. weight loss is a byproduct of a certain lifestyle....one that conflicts with your current way of living. if you feel like giving up...that's alright. but remember that you are surrendering to the lesser part of your total self. The worst part of what you may become.

When I began to feel down I usually come on here and look at the success stories. It motivates me to continue on this journey. Hell some days its hard and other days its a walk in the park . I want it so bad this time and I'm not giving up. You have to become your own cheerleader also. YOU WILL DO THIS!

You have to address why you are feeling discouraged or these motivators will not work for you!!! What is going on for you right now is the bigger question you need to ask yourself?

My biggest struggle on my journey has been feeling overwhelmed by the (mis)-information out there. Someone dude says don't eat carbs, some chick says eat all the carbs you want but stay away from sugar. So I had to start out slowly making small-lasting changes and remind myself that my goal is to live a healthy lifestyle. When I frame it that way, it is much easier to bear. Just take everything one day at a time.

I read the success stories section of the boards and "feed" off other successes. Changing things up also seems to help. Do a different exercise or try a new healthy recipe. Thinking back to how miserable I was before starting out also helps. I don't want to go back there.

I've done this yo-yo dieting thing since I was a little kid. When I was really young, like..second grade, my kidneys started to fail. So they put me on steroids. And I never lost the weight. Every year I weigh a little bit more. Between 2012 and 2013, I've gained 30lbs. I finally said 'enough is enough' after family pictures. I looked at them and said 'I can't be that person anymore'. Because I don't feel like that person on the inside.

So I thought to myself about what I wanted. And I decided that if I got down to my goal weight, I could get a puppy. I REALLY like animals--a lot more than I like people--so I made that my goal. When I get down to my goal weight (or wherever I'm happy/healthy), then I can get a puppy. I made an incentive list. And for every 10lbs, I get something, a small reward. Then there are the bigger goals, for losing 30lbs, I get an elliptical. And my car is getting detailed!! For each big goal, the rewards are better and better.

But that puppy--he's the best thing on the list. And any time that I want to quit, I go up to the pet store. And I hold a puppy. And I remind myself that I want to lose the weight not just for the puppy, but so that I can finally feel like a whole person. So that I can stop doubting myself. That's what I do when I feel like giving up. I hold a puppy.

This is an older topic but i just searched for exactly how i was feeling and this was the first one that came up. I just woke up this morning from a *sort-of* bad day yesterday. I ate very healthy things, just in larger quantities.... and i just feel sluggish and tired this morning. Basically, i just feel like i don't even want to try today. But i'm not going to give up. Not when i have so much to lose. So today i'm just going to take it slow. Focus on one decision at a time. Avoid temptation, and get plenty of sleep tonight. Hopefully things will look much better tomorrow!

Crank some Wookiefoot and remind myself that this will enable me to spoil myself rotten in a few months.

When i feel like giving up i always go through motivation quotes. One of my best is -

"Never give up on a dream, just because the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway"

And i again come back to the form