Men, why you shouldn't go all the way on the first date.

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  • du4u02
    du4u02 Posts: 42
    It-took-you-ten-minutes-oag-meme.jpg

    This reminds me of my exwife!
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    i must be the strange one i don't put out on first date and don't inspect it in return . call me old fashion but i would at least like to know you better to see if i can stand you. this is probly my biggest reason for not under standing the females

    have you had many women ask you to inspect their vaginas on the first date?

    no who cares



    {img]http://cdn-www.i-am-bored.com/media/deathgrammarnazi.jpg[/img]

    dude i'm so far from a grammar nazi if that was your point (and by the way typos/spelling isnt grammar) ..

    but come on, have a sense of humor about your typos. first date vagina inspector is pretty hilarious, especially if you arent expecting it to lead to sex :laugh:
  • Trechechus
    Trechechus Posts: 2,819 Member
    I have it on good authority that "Fact is men are biologically programmed to try to have sex, it is a drive that goes beyond simple logic and conscious thought and ignoring that is ridiculous. "

    So I just can't control myself and have to stay home and flay my evil urges away, logic and conscious thought are beyond me so no first dates because I am but a beast.:laugh: :laugh:

    I learned by the same authority that women can't be "ladies" if they have a sex drive.

    Save yourself for the "ladies!!!"

    Meanwhile, the rest of us beast-women will still be running amok.
  • SteveJWatson
    SteveJWatson Posts: 1,225 Member

    Meanwhile, the rest of us beast-women will still be running amok.

    I wonder if there is a website for that? Sounds kinda niche.
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    Date? People still do that?


    I only put out via text messages.
  • bio01979
    bio01979 Posts: 313

    Meanwhile, the rest of us beast-women will still be running amok.

    I wonder if there is a website for that? Sounds kinda niche.

    it's the internetz, it exists somewhere lol

    maybe beastwomen.com?
  • katiepeg46
    katiepeg46 Posts: 26 Member
    Does anyone wait for marriage?
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    Call me old fashioned, but I have very strict rules if I"m going to put out on a first date:




    1) You must have a vagina

    2) See rule number 1

    I meet all of your expectations. How YOU doin'?

    While I don't doubt your sincerity, I'll need proof. Once bitten twice shy and all.

    Pics in your inbox!
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    Does anyone wait for marriage?

    If they want. Each person has the right to decide what is right for them. I decided that waiting until marriage was not right for me, so I don't. If somebody else wants to, good for them :flowerforyou:
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    Does anyone wait for marriage?

    some people like to sample the goods before they agree to having to spend the rest of their lives with it
  • Zombielicious
    Zombielicious Posts: 246 Member
    She ends up having a bigger wang than you. Such a turn off.

    Your statement coupled with your "weight ticker" picture of the The Doctor is priceless...
  • bio01979
    bio01979 Posts: 313
    Does anyone wait for marriage?

    If they want. Each person has the right to decide what is right for them. I decided that waiting until marriage was not right for me, so I don't. If somebody else wants to, good for them :flowerforyou:

    exactly this :)
  • sparkly86
    sparkly86 Posts: 520 Member
    because he could be a psycho and you would be a slut.
  • Rinylee
    Rinylee Posts: 16
    meme-oag-thisiscrazy.jpg

    Happened to a friend of mine.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I got nothing. Anyone else?
    Because then you won't be a lady.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Does anyone wait for marriage?
    In all seriousness, yes, some do. But usually for religious reasons.
  • Cutting4life
    Cutting4life Posts: 505 Member
    Crazy women out there these days. Please stay safe
  • The_Enginerd
    The_Enginerd Posts: 3,982 Member
    I try not to, but they are always begging and pushing for it. Sometimes I just want to enjoy dinner and have some conversation, what is wrong with all you women!? :frown:
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    because he could be a psycho and you would be a slut.

    Slut shaming is cool.
  • Mrsallypants
    Mrsallypants Posts: 887 Member
    If she has bad hygiene down there, you'll have nightmares for weeks. if i get it too soon before i connect with her, i may lose interest in her after sex.

    Don't know why a man wouldn't have sex on the first date, there is no stigma and severe consequence for men like there is for women; i.e. the slut label and pregnancy.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Crazy women out there these days. Please stay safe
    I really wish you'd keep our personal stuff off the Internet.
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    If she has bad hygiene down there, you'll have nightmares for weeks. if i get it too soon before i connect with her, i may lose interest in her after sex.

    Don't know why a man wouldn't have sex on the first date, there is no stigma and severe consequence for men like there is for women; i.e. the slut label and pregnancy.



    Unless you are a worthless ****ing piece of **** the pregnancy is just as much an issue for the guy.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    If she has bad hygiene down there, you'll have nightmares for weeks. if i get it too soon before i connect with her, i may lose interest in her after sex.

    Don't know why a man wouldn't have sex on the first date, there is no stigma and severe consequence for men like there is for women; i.e. the slut label and pregnancy.



    Unless you are a worthless ****ing piece of **** the pregnancy is just as much an issue for the guy.
    Maybe he means the guy won't get all fat and sick? lol
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    I try not to, but they are always begging and pushing for it. Sometimes I just want to enjoy dinner and have some conversation, what is wrong with all you women!? :frown:

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    Stop being so damn irresistible. :love:
  • Mrsallypants
    Mrsallypants Posts: 887 Member
    Yes, the pregnancy will affect the male too. He could be sued for child support if he never wanted the child whereas women have the option of abortion for a child that they do no want. There aren't many options for men, wear a condom or get a vasectomy.
  • jjscholar
    jjscholar Posts: 413 Member
    I would say that sex on the first date maybe wrong is simply because sex is hard enough with a couple that truly know and love each other... As strange as this may sound coming from a guy but, I would rather have sex with a woman I truly love as opposed to having a one night stand...

    Don't get me wrong, I have a lot of will to do many women... But, I don't want to risk getting women pregnant... Not because her part of a potential child's DNA would be defective, but because I know I have a terrible genetic defect...
  • davidaward14
    davidaward14 Posts: 14 Member
    If you are looking for a long term relationship than not putting out on the first date is a good way to go. Having sex with a woman too early in a relationship seriously hinders/impairs his judgment. Important red flags will be overlooked or dismissed. At the beginning of a relationship, women (people in general) are likely to wear a mask and not reveal their real personality. However, over time one's true self is revealed because it becomes increasing difficult for anyone to keep up a charade over time.

    I received that advice from a divorced man, who has custody of his child (for that to happened his ex-wife has to be really messed up!!!), who admitted to marrying the wrong person. He said all the negative signs and red flags were there; however, because he was too consumed with sex he dismissed many things that he otherwise would had not.


    Hope that helps!!!
  • Serenstar75
    Serenstar75 Posts: 258 Member
    Does anyone wait for marriage?

    I don't. But I also don't put out on the first date. Generally, dating is when you're getting to know someone. I don't want someone I don't know getting all intimate with my intimates. I want someone who I can stand, can be friends with, and have built up attraction for. Half the fun in a relationship is also anticipation. If they've done it all on the first date, how much build up is that?

    I'm also twice divorced from two marriages where I had definite blinders on. Those were hurtful situations and marriage meant nothing for them. So for me, I'm happy living with a really great guy and not being married at this time. It amazes all the people who think of a date as basically a free session with a hooker. Maybe I'm old fashioned too, even if not on the scale of waiting for marriage.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    If she has bad hygiene down there, you'll have nightmares for weeks. if i get it too soon before i connect with her, i may lose interest in her after sex.

    Don't know why a man wouldn't have sex on the first date, there is no stigma and severe consequence for men like there is for women; i.e. the slut label and pregnancy.



    Unless you are a worthless ****ing piece of **** the pregnancy is just as much an issue for the guy.
    Maybe he means the guy won't get all fat and sick? lol

    That comes after marriage.
  • 122ish
    122ish Posts: 339 Member
    Does anyone wait for marriage?

    I waited for marriage to stop putting out.
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