Men: would you date a married woman?

Hexahedra
Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
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The answer for me is absolutely no, even when I was single. Marriage still means something to me, so I won't do anything to undermine it, mine or others'.

How about you?

Edit:
I mean marriage in the traditional sense: exclusive romantic & sexual relationship between two persons.
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  • LandonRand
    LandonRand Posts: 166
    How do you define "date"?

    :)
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    In for a bunch of Lying

    (or maybe not, men are so shameless)
  • brillmer
    brillmer Posts: 1,268 Member
    Noooooooooo.

    Flirting is one thing. Dating.. Hell no
  • runner2runner
    runner2runner Posts: 1,937 Member
    If you mean engage in a romantic or sexual relationship with a married woman, then the answer is an unequivocal hell no!!

    A bit of harmless flirting is okay though, as long as it doesn't go beyond that!!
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    IBTL
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    you wont undermine marriage but you will create a thread undermining marriage for hundreds of people or more to see? ummmmmm.. come on now.
  • shrinkingWITS
    shrinkingWITS Posts: 108
    lol Ohh this should be good.

    All sorts of lies about to be up in here..
  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    How do you define "date"?

    :)
    How do you 'date'? ;)
  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    In for a bunch of Lying

    (or maybe not, men are so shameless)
    I've known guys who actually think it's a point of pride...
  • brillmer
    brillmer Posts: 1,268 Member
    If you mean engage in a romantic or sexual relationship with a married woman, then the answer is an unequivocal hell no!!

    A bit of harmless flirting is okay though, as long as it doesn't go beyond that!!

    Great minds think alike. This man knows~
  • shrinkingWITS
    shrinkingWITS Posts: 108
    In for a bunch of Lying

    (or maybe not, men are so shameless)
    I've known guys who actually think it's a point of pride...

    People who think like that are dbags.
  • Danny_Boy13
    Danny_Boy13 Posts: 2,094 Member
    In for a bunch of Lying

    (or maybe not, men are so shameless)

    There are plenty of women out there that are just as shameless... :flowerforyou:
  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    you wont undermine marriage but you will create a thread undermining marriage for hundreds of people or more to see? ummmmmm.. come on now.
    How does asking this question undermine anybody's marriage? If your spouse is on the forum, then nobody forces you to answer...
  • xvxCelticWandererxvx
    xvxCelticWandererxvx Posts: 2,890 Member
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  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    IBTL

    Ahhhh hahaha ty
  • Espressocycle
    Espressocycle Posts: 2,245 Member
    Sure, if her husband was cool with it and I was single.
  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    how do you define married?

    I have friends, they are married....they are a lovely gay couple that were just married...

    and my friend dates....

    because his partner is dying and his partner insists that he wants him to find someone to hold him through his death...

    so his dying husband arranges for him to go on dates.....and he dates...to make his dying partner happy....

    and they are married...


    i guess what I'm saying is....the definitions of the human condition are too individual to put ONE spin on any one thing....

    you just can't.
  • CorvusCorax77
    CorvusCorax77 Posts: 2,536 Member
    when I see threads like this I can't help but wonder WTF compelled OP to start this thread.

    Don't you have anything better to do? I'm sure there are plenty of volunteer opportunities in your city to help feed the homeless or something.
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    you wont undermine marriage but you will create a thread undermining marriage for hundreds of people or more to see? ummmmmm.. come on now.
    How does asking this question undermine anybody's marriage? If your spouse is on the forum, then nobody forces you to answer...

    give me a break bro.
  • brillmer
    brillmer Posts: 1,268 Member
    when I see threads like this I can't help but wonder WTF compelled OP to start this thread.

    Don't you have anything better to do? I'm sure there are plenty of volunteer opportunities in your city to help feed the homeless or something.

    LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    how do you define married?

    I have friends, they are married....they are a lovely gay couple that were just married...

    and my friend dates....

    because his partner is dying and his partner insists that he wants him to find someone to hold him through his death...

    so his dying husband arranges for him to go on dates.....and he dates...to make his dying partner happy....

    and they are married...


    i guess what I'm saying is....the definitions of the human condition are too individual to put ONE spin on any one thing....

    you just can't.

    Spouse is obviously on a lot of pain meds
  • neandermagnon
    neandermagnon Posts: 7,436 Member
    My husband does.... me. I'm a married woman. Married to him. We still go on dates together, at least when we're not too busy. It's fun.
  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    how do you define married?

    I have friends, they are married....they are a lovely gay couple that were just married...

    and my friend dates....

    because his partner is dying and his partner insists that he wants him to find someone to hold him through his death...

    so his dying husband arranges for him to go on dates.....and he dates...to make his dying partner happy....

    and they are married...


    i guess what I'm saying is....the definitions of the human condition are too individual to put ONE spin on any one thing....

    you just can't.
    Excellent points. I didn't think of the so called 'open marriage'.

    Let me edit my original post to clarify that I mean traditional marriage with fidelity and all that stuff.
  • shrinkingWITS
    shrinkingWITS Posts: 108
    how do you define married?

    I have friends, they are married....they are a lovely gay couple that were just married...

    and my friend dates....

    because his partner is dying and his partner insists that he wants him to find someone to hold him through his death...

    so his dying husband arranges for him to go on dates.....and he dates...to make his dying partner happy....

    and they are married...


    i guess what I'm saying is....the definitions of the human condition are too individual to put ONE spin on any one thing....

    you just can't.

    That's a decision made by the couple.

    I know I personally read the original post as if it wasn't something agreed to or openly made aware to the spouse...which in that case we all know how that usually ends up. When all parties are in agreement, yes that is a different story.
  • dandrews010
    dandrews010 Posts: 253 Member
    Is any responsibility at all on the single person (male or female)?

    They aren't cheating on anybody.
  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    how do you define married?

    I have friends, they are married....they are a lovely gay couple that were just married...

    and my friend dates....

    because his partner is dying and his partner insists that he wants him to find someone to hold him through his death...

    so his dying husband arranges for him to go on dates.....and he dates...to make his dying partner happy....

    and they are married...


    i guess what I'm saying is....the definitions of the human condition are too individual to put ONE spin on any one thing....

    you just can't.

    Spouse is obviously on a lot of pain meds

    that is not your call to make.
  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member
    I regularly date a married woman. I'm quite attracted to her and love taking her out to dinner and occasionally out for adventures. We've done zip lines and wall climbing, but most of the time it's dinner and a movie. I'm really enjoying the experience!













    Before anyone takes this too seriously, I'm talking about dating my own wife. I highly recommend it . . . um, that you date your own wife not mine.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    well what is a man's culpability really it's not his relationship, he's not the one breaking his vows, and not the one who will be responsible for any consequences? If the fun is being offered and she's available? Hmmmmm?
  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    how do you define married?

    I have friends, they are married....they are a lovely gay couple that were just married...

    and my friend dates....

    because his partner is dying and his partner insists that he wants him to find someone to hold him through his death...

    so his dying husband arranges for him to go on dates.....and he dates...to make his dying partner happy....

    and they are married...


    i guess what I'm saying is....the definitions of the human condition are too individual to put ONE spin on any one thing....

    you just can't.

    That's a decision made by the couple.

    I know I personally read the original post as if it wasn't something agreed to or openly made aware to the spouse...which in that case we all know how that usually ends up. When all parties are in agreement, yes that is a different story.

    i totally agree....

    when there is lying involved and someone is being cuckolded, it's obviously a horrible thing.
  • bluefox9er
    bluefox9er Posts: 2,917 Member
    The answer for me is absolutely no, even when I was single. Marriage still means something to me, so I won't do anything to undermine it, mine or others'.

    How about you?

    you claim to be squeaky clean about this yet you are compelled to start a thread about this??

    SMH...really.

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