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Men: would you date a married woman?

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  • Posts: 1,410 Member
    Absolutly not.
    Even back in my single days, if a married woman is cheating on her husband, then she cannot be trusted.
    Even if it is a fling, there is not a woman in the world worth having a pissed off husband looking for you.

    And try to imagine, guys, if you found out your own wife was screwing someone else AND, you found out who the guy was....
  • Posts: 22,281 Member

    If so it will probably be a woman not a man... just sayin:ohwell:

    Nuh uh, a man already did. He threw out the women cheat a whole lot too line. He's not acting hurt, but if you're a man with standards and morals as he appears to be it might kinda feel yucky when someone insinuates that all men are pigs. That yucky feeling is called having your feelings hurt. He might not know that yet being a man. They are also *blanket statement* less likely to be in touch with their feelings. According to lore. Here's a chart that I hope will help men identify their feelings.

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  • Posts: 6,490 Member

    Nuh uh, a man already did. He threw out the women cheat a whole lot too line. He's not acting hurt, but if you're a man with standards and morals as he appears to be it might kinda feel yucky when someone insinuates that all men are pigs. That yucky feeling is called having your feelings hurt. He might not know that yet being a man. They are also *blanket statement* less likely to be in touch with their feelings. According to lore. Here's a chart that I hope will help men identify their feelings.

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    ^ Yep. Please post this in the next "some guy gave me a dirty look and I know he was thinking I'm fat" thread.
  • Posts: 50 Member
    Even if it is a fling, there is not a woman in the world worth having a pissed off husband looking for you.

    Good morals are practically useful.
  • Posts: 22,281 Member
    Absolutly not.
    Even back in my single days, if a married woman is cheating on her husband, then she cannot be trusted.
    Even if it is a fling, there is not a woman in the world worth having a pissed off husband looking for you.

    And try to imagine, guys, if you found out your own wife was screwing someone else AND, you found out who the guy was....

    This problem is often remedied by guys who like to go after married women by simply not having a wife and thus not having to entertain the thought of it ever happening to him.
  • Posts: 14,025 Member
    I have.
  • Posts: 454
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    funny you show her when her new show has her cheating on her husband lol
  • Posts: 894 Member
    Absolutly not.
    Even back in my single days, if a married woman is cheating on her husband, then she cannot be trusted.
    Even if it is a fling, there is not a woman in the world worth having a pissed off husband looking for you.

    And try to imagine, guys, if you found out your own wife was screwing someone else AND, you found out who the guy was....
    Good point, there's the benefit of not constantly looking over your shoulder for a pissed of ex-husband...
  • Posts: 3,195 Member

    Also, I am not a man. (Though I do play one on t.v.)

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^Hhehehe..
  • Posts: 1,171 Member
    In for a bunch of Lying

    (or maybe not, men are so shameless)
    Scoot over, I'm sitting down. Pass the popcorn.
  • Posts: 22,281 Member
    Good point, there's the benefit of not constantly looking over your shoulder for a pissed of ex-husband...

    Wait a minute! Wait a cotton picking minute! EX-Husband you say? Are we talking about a DIVORCED woman who an ex-husband is still clinging to? Or an actual married woman. I think we may have found the real impetus for this thread and maybe even who the real bad guy is. I feel like I just pulled the curtain back on the wizard.
  • Posts: 331 Member
    everyones says no but in a heat of a moment things could easily change :)
    I really think these men should be honest with themselves. It happens everyday out there. There are a lot of beautiful lonely women out there looking for one night stands and men love a hot and horny women that is married. JS this is the truth
  • Posts: 14,025 Member
    In for a bunch of Lying

    (or maybe not, men are so shameless)

    *snicker*
  • Posts: 22,281 Member

    *snicker*

    Yeah, really that statement might have just read *man and been more accurate. LOL.
  • Posts: 22,281 Member

    Good one Michelle! You nailed it!

    Yeah except Beach Iron already made that joke.
  • Posts: 631 Member
    Yes. I see no reason to discriminate against anyone.
  • Posts: 230
    I regularly date a married woman. I'm quite attracted to her and love taking her out to dinner and occasionally out for adventures. We've done zip lines and wall climbing, but most of the time it's dinner and a movie. I'm really enjoying the experience!













    Before anyone takes this too seriously, I'm talking about dating my own wife. I highly recommend it . . . um, that you date your own wife not mine.
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Posts: 253 Member



    NOPE



    If you aren't a douche bag you wouldn't be in a situation that put you in a "heat of the moment" type situation.

    How can you be sure though? I guess the 'situation' could happen anywhere. I have a strong suspicion that most lads who end up banging married women don't expect that to be a life-direction for them. Just happens.

    I think without doubt though that married men who cheat on their own wives are *kitten*. The line isn't as clear the other way around.
  • Posts: 22,281 Member
    Yes. I see no reason to discriminate against anyone.

    Ew! And I'm out. tumblr_m6yaqiH1eE1r7922zo1_500.gif

    That much.
  • Posts: 894 Member

    Wait a minute! Wait a cotton picking minute! EX-Husband you say? Are we talking about a DIVORCED woman who an ex-husband is still clinging to? Or an actual married woman. I think we may have found the real impetus for this thread and maybe even who the real bad guy is. I feel like I just pulled the curtain back on the wizard.
    I just assume that a husband who finds out that his wife is cheating is not gonna stay a husband, not for long anyway. Guys tend to not put up with that kind of crap, us having testosterone and all...

    As for me, no, I didn't do it. Of course, you're free to believe what you want to believe.
  • Posts: 14,025 Member
    What if their spouse knows and encourages it?
  • Posts: 2,545 Member
    I just assume that a husband who finds out that his wife is cheating is not gonna stay a husband, not for long anyway. Guys tend to not put up with that kind of crap, us having testosterone and all...

    As for me, no, I didn't do it. Of course, you're free to believe what you want to believe.

    my eyes are rolling out of my skull and blood is oozing all over my keyboard.

    I can't head desk enough on this thread.

    I am so so so so so so so so immeasurably immensely grateful that I live in a community that doesn't think like a large portion of the folks in this thread.
  • Posts: 9,083 Member

    Spouse is obviously on a lot of pain meds

    Or is a loving man, looking out for his husband and the pain that he's going through. But, I could see you that could be confusing to some.

    I would love to think that if were dying, that my husband would agree to date and find someone to help him through (even though I'm sure I'd be jealous and it would be painful), but I don't think he'd do it. But, I have left instructions to his siblings that if I should keel over some time, they are to make sure he finds someone, I don't want him to spend his life alone.
  • Posts: 174 Member

    Nuh uh, a man already did. He threw out the women cheat a whole lot too line. He's not acting hurt, but if you're a man with standards and morals as he appears to be it might kinda feel yucky when someone insinuates that all men are pigs. That yucky feeling is called having your feelings hurt. He might not know that yet being a man. They are also *blanket statement* less likely to be in touch with their feelings. According to lore. Here's a chart that I hope will help men identify their feelings.

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    HAHAHAHAHA epic
  • Posts: 1,126 Member

    How can you be sure though? I guess the 'situation' could happen anywhere. I have a strong suspicion that most lads who end up banging married women don't expect that to be a life-direction for them. Just happens.

    I think without doubt though that married men who cheat on their own wives are *kitten*. The line isn't as clear the other way around.


    If you KNOW the woman is married then you damn sure better back WAY off before anything DOES happen.
    Same goes for the woman.


    So again you shouldn't be in any situation that allows things to just happen.
  • Posts: 253 Member


    If you KNOW the woman is married then you damn sure better back WAY off before anything DOES happen.
    Same goes for the woman.


    So again you shouldn't be in any situation that allows things to just happen.

    Thats fair enough mate I agree you should. Can't be heat of the moment if you've spent a while building up-to it either.
  • Posts: 2,545 Member

    Or is a loving man, looking out for his husband and the pain that he's going through. But, I could see you that could be confusing to some.

    I would love to think that if were dying, that my husband would agree to date and find someone to help him through (even though I'm sure I'd be jealous and it would be painful), but I don't think he'd do it. But, I have left instructions to his siblings that if I should keel over some time, they are to make sure he finds someone, I don't want him to spend his life alone.

    Isnt' this like the plot of Breaking the Waves?
  • Posts: 599 Member
    On this subject you can call me 7-up.. never have, never will.
  • Posts: 5,922 Member

    How can you be sure though? I guess the 'situation' could happen anywhere. I have a strong suspicion that most lads who end up banging married women don't expect that to be a life-direction for them. Just happens.

    I think without doubt though that married men who cheat on their own wives are *kitten*. The line isn't as clear the other way around.
    Wait what. Why the double standard?

    Husband cheating = *kitten*
    Wife cheating = *kitten*
    Anyone cheating = *kitten*
    Knowingly sleeping with someone cheating = *kitten*
  • Posts: 9,083 Member

    Isnt' this like the plot of Breaking the Waves?

    I looked the movie up (hadn't heard of it), and it looks like that is more about sex and voyerism and not so much about emotional connection and helping the other person move on with life.
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