Worst Gym creeper story

LOL (to the OP)

Ok, I have two, but they aren't as good as the OP:

1) I was working out at the gym. After I stopped and was walking away, this much older guy shouts something from behind me, so I turned to look. Then he says, "I was watching you the whole time. It was very exciting. You are wearing a skirt. That's so exciting. Most people don't wear skirts to the gym, but you do. It's just so fun and exciting. Would you like to go out for a drink after this." I was just very startled because I was in my 20's, had a toddler and 6 month old baby in the gym childcare, married and all that. I also was wearing the exercise skirt, that had shorts attached because I thought it was more covering to have a skirt over the shorts (instead of just shorts). And I had not known at all that he had been standing behind me, watching me the whole time. I just said, "I'm married", and pointed at my ring. Also, I was wearing an ordinary cotton t-shirt (that was loose).

2) At the same gym, and same time frame, another guy 35 years older than me, befriends me and gives me some weight lifting tips (that was all fine). After a couple months of that, he shows up at the gym drunk. Then I hear a guy (while gesturing towards me) say, "Her! She isn't even 30! Yeah, good luck with that!" So then later when I am walking by one of my usual exercise spots, I see the guy with the friend standing to watch. And he says to me, "You are looking really good". And I say thanks. Then he says, "I mean, REALLY REALLY GOOOOD!!! while staring at my butt in a purposefully obvious way. I didn't know what to do, so I just walked away. He already knew that I'm married and had two little ones in the child care. Keep in mind that he was drunk at the gym, made some other scenes and ended up getting kicked out that day. Also, I was wearing not tight pants and a loose t-shirt (all my clothing was loose, I was post-partum).

Obviously there have been worse and more creeper-like situations (that I probably wouldn't choose to share), but he asked specifically at the gym.

But all I'm saying is that if you're going to dress provocatively then you're going to get some (I guess unwanted) comments. Is everyone just totally unaware of how the male psyche works??

Gym gear in a gym is not dressing provocatively - (even if it is one of those nasty g string leotards from the 80s)! Gym gear needs to be comfortable, fit well/not hinder your work out in any way.

I am similarly busty and would wear a (black) sports bra as a top at the gym with short shorts because it fits the above requirements.

I do not expect people to comment because it is appropriate gear to be wearing in a gym and they should be focusing on their own work out.

Last week some kid decided to let me know in the middle of a crowded weight room that I have a ''gorgeous *kitten*'' super loud. I was mortified! He borderline shouted it and managed to turn the head of everyone within a 30 foot radius. Complete *kitten*.

Well, tbh, the way you dress and present yourself in your photos can only insinuate that you WANT that kind of attention. Yea maybehe was a little out of line, but what do you expect?

I can agree to some extent but def. not in this case....checked out her profile and just because she has big ol titties doesnt mean she wants that type of behavior. She wears tank tops and shorts....nothing out of the ordinary. She's a good looking chick and nothing wrong with the way she is dressed. I dont get it?

Not sheriff serious, he/she has been trolling from the first post.

Last week some kid decided to let me know in the middle of a crowded weight room that I have a ''gorgeous *kitten*'' super loud. I was mortified! He borderline shouted it and managed to turn the head of everyone within a 30 foot radius. Complete *kitten*.

Well, tbh, the way you dress and present yourself in your photos can only insinuate that you WANT that kind of attention. Yea maybehe was a little out of line, but what do you expect?

So that was a little out of line? Hmmmm


So she's all sweaty and smelly, but she has tight shorts/pants on so it's only slightly out of line.



When then is "slightly out of line" if she were at the beat with her hair and makeup done and in a thong bikini?
Is full blown rape OK in this situation.




I sure hope that you are now starting to see how ridiculous that reply was!

I'm still waiting for a response on this.

Last week some kid decided to let me know in the middle of a crowded weight room that I have a ''gorgeous *kitten*'' super loud. I was mortified! He borderline shouted it and managed to turn the head of everyone within a 30 foot radius. Complete *kitten*.

Well, tbh, the way you dress and present yourself in your photos can only insinuate that you WANT that kind of attention. Yea maybehe was a little out of line, but what do you expect?

So that was a little out of line? Hmmmm


So she's all sweaty and smelly, but she has tight shorts/pants on so it's only slightly out of line.



When then is "slightly out of line" if she were at the beat with her hair and makeup done and in a thong bikini?
Is full blown rape OK in this situation.




I sure hope that you are now starting to see how ridiculous that reply was!

I'm still waiting for a response on this.

you're waiting for a troll to respond to you. Shouldn't it be the other way around?

No one ever creeps me. I feel so left out and damaged. No one steals my underwear or tells me how gorgeous my *kitten* is.

You guys are white knighting her way too hard, I feel like I need to balance the scale.

... Such a great *kitten* comes with great responsibility, Liftingmommy was definitely asking for that AND more.
Come at me Betas.

I wish I were as cool as you.

*Takes notes.*

A wild Beta Appears!

It is cute that you think you are an Alpha because you troll.

Is the problem with what he said, word choice, or the fact that it was loud and made other people look? I mean, if the guy had said quietly, " I see you lifting a lot here and really admire your hard work - your glutes are especially gorgeous." would that have been OK?


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Last week some kid decided to let me know in the middle of a crowded weight room that I have a ''gorgeous *kitten*'' super loud. I was mortified! He borderline shouted it and managed to turn the head of everyone within a 30 foot radius. Complete *kitten*.

Well, tbh, the way you dress and present yourself in your photos can only insinuate that you WANT that kind of attention. Yea maybehe was a little out of line, but what do you expect?

So that was a little out of line? Hmmmm


So she's all sweaty and smelly, but she has tight shorts/pants on so it's only slightly out of line.



When then is "slightly out of line" if she were at the beat with her hair and makeup done and in a thong bikini?
Is full blown rape OK in this situation.




I sure hope that you are now starting to see how ridiculous that reply was!

I'm still waiting for a response on this.

you're waiting for a troll to respond to you. Shouldn't it be the other way around?

You guys are white knighting her way too hard, I feel like I need to balance the scale.

... Such a great *kitten* comes with great responsibility, Liftingmommy was definitely asking for that AND more.
Come at me Betas.

I wish I were as cool as you.

*Takes notes.*

A wild Beta Appears!

It is cute that you think you are an Alpha because you troll.

I don't recall proclaiming "Im an Alpha" awfully beta of you to assume I had.

You guys are white knighting her way too hard, I feel like I need to balance the scale.

... Such a great *kitten* comes with great responsibility, Liftingmommy was definitely asking for that AND more.
Come at me Betas.

I wish I were as cool as you.

*Takes notes.*

A wild Beta Appears!

Since you are an advocate for blurting out anything that pops to mind I just want you to know that without any doubt in my mind you are without question the absolute biggest douche I have ever encountered on MFP.

He/She is trolling, you're responding to said troll. You're not being very bright trying to argue with him/her logically.

Leave the girl with the nice *kitten* alone

Well no one creeped me, but one time I was at the gym with all of my friends and saw this really hot blonde girl with a gorgeous *kitten*! So I made sure to borderline shout it so everyone within a 30 foot radius can turn their head and look! Poor girl though. She looked mortified. I wonder where she's at now?

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Omg RAPE?? That's ridiculous. Of course rape is not ok. But all I'm saying is that if you're going to dress provocatively then you're going to get some (I guess unwanted) comments. Is everyone just totally unaware of how the male psyche works??

That's the exact attitude that belongs to RC so that is why I mentioned it. Saying men are pigs is an excuse for bad behaviour.

Congrats on latching onto the latest buzzword, and turning a mole hill into a mountain.

Has anyone justified the comment from the guy? No. So, please stop trying to draw a parallel between this and rape -- which nobody is trying to protect or justify. Nobody.

Whether you like it or not, it's a fact: An attractive woman in little clothing (or tight-fitting clothing) is much more likely to get some sort of unwelcome sexual comment. Is it right? No. Is it true? Yes. is it wrong to make the observation, and state that fact? No.

I studied sociology as my uni major....it's not a buzzword. Just saying. Do your research.
http://m.redandblack.com/views/man-on-the-street-catcalls-perpetuate-rape-culture/article_8d1a6908-af6c-11e2-9409-001a4bcf6878.html

But the bottom line is, he said she had a gorgeous butt. I have no pity in that regard.

Was someone asking for pity...