MILF

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  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.
    Dang, I was hoping that was the case.

    :laugh:
  • CaffeinatedGlitter
    CaffeinatedGlitter Posts: 201 Member
    It's what I am aiming for HAHAHA, the next duty station we go to I want people shocked that I married my hubby and have had a kid LOL ^_^
  • phatguerilla
    phatguerilla Posts: 188 Member
    ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.

    They were probably hoping for it though. As a guy I think its a compliment and an insult at once tbh, depending on who or how its said it can be more of one or the other.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Let me start this by saying I don't think I'm anything. I don't think I'm butt ugly but I don't think I'm all that either but recently a couple of younger men 25-26 ish have called me a MILF. I told a friend about it and she said she would be offended if she were me-said it objectified me and to her that is offensive. Okay, I can see that to a point, but I thought "Hey, they think I'm attractive!" and I thought it was great. It's not like the said it to get me to jump them or anything like that, right? I was just wanting other opinions. Is being called a MILF offensive or flattering to you?
    Men are visual. I wouldn't be offended by that unless they thought is somehow gave them a right to have sex with me without my consent.

    I like to be desired. Men finding a woman attractive does not mean they don't also respect her as a person.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Men are visual. I wouldn't be offended by that unless they thought is somehow gave them a right to have sex with me without my consent.

    I like to be desired. Men finding a woman attractive does not mean they don't also respect her as a person.

    Good call. And accurate.
  • Im_NotPerfect
    Im_NotPerfect Posts: 2,181 Member
    Hell yes! I'd LOVE to be a MILF!! If I overheard that, those 25 year olds wouldn't know what hit them! :wink: :laugh:
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.

    They were probably hoping for it though. As a guy I think its a compliment and an insult at once tbh, depending on who or how its said it can be more of one or the other.

    I don't think they think they are going to bed every single woman they call hot. They might fantasize, but I don't think they expect it. Or, maybe I'm just not easily offended...
  • EmilyJackCO
    EmilyJackCO Posts: 621 Member
    Only because I'm not a mom. I've had a couple of the younger guys I know say that, and my response is always - do I LOOK like I have kids!? Especially since I don't look anywhere near my age. 0_o What gives?

    ETA: The one that does get me and has caused me to get really riled - Cougar. Yeah, no.
  • AfricaLatina
    AfricaLatina Posts: 111 Member
    Definitely a compliment!!

    I agree with another post that it is just like saying you're hot or 'fit' as they say here in the U.K. Just like in the 'inbetweeners' you may actually be 'assisting' your childs social progression, just by being a MILF!! :huh:

    they probably don't expect you to jump into bed with them, even though they're probably thinking about it or even fantasizing about it (!)

    tbh if a lad did say they would like to 'f' me I would be horrified (but secretly flattered) :blushing:
  • Michelleh118
    Michelleh118 Posts: 42 Member
    I would take that as a compliment!! ????
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    I would be flattered, but I find the term a little annoying. Do I really need a qualifier to be desirable just because I have had children?
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    I would be flattered, but I find the term a little annoying. Do I really need a qualifier to be desirable just because I have had children?

    I'll be honest.

    Yes because it's very rare to see a mom who is fit and attractive. At least around here any way.

    And for the record I think it's a compliment. If I had kids I'd want to be considered a MILF.
  • Show_Stopper
    Show_Stopper Posts: 656 Member
    I would like to be called a MILF so I would say it's a good thing smile about it and move on
  • CarlaRG
    CarlaRG Posts: 264
    Personally I like being objectified...makes me feel alive. But I prefer being called hot as f***

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    I was called that once....Didn't offend me lol :)
  • atb0821
    atb0821 Posts: 458 Member
    Total compliment.
  • Miz_Sparklez
    Miz_Sparklez Posts: 427 Member
    Anyone that says they wouldn't want to be called a MILF is crazy!!

    After two babies and the toll it takes on a body... I take being called a MILF as a huge COMPLIMENT. Take it and smile sweetie!!!
  • momofJandA
    momofJandA Posts: 1,035 Member
    its my goal :blushing:
  • phatguerilla
    phatguerilla Posts: 188 Member
    ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.

    They were probably hoping for it though. As a guy I think its a compliment and an insult at once tbh, depending on who or how its said it can be more of one or the other.

    I don't think they think they are going to bed every single woman they call hot. They might fantasize, but I don't think they expect it. Or, maybe I'm just not easily offended...

    Like I said I don't think they expect it, but they might hope for it. If a 25 year old guy says something like that to a woman he isn't going to say 'oh sorry ma'am that was a platonic compliment' if she turned around and asked if he wanted to bang.
  • juliemouse83
    juliemouse83 Posts: 6,663 Member
    After three kids (all of whom are now grown), I would take it as a major compliment! When I was the skinny mom on the block, 12 or so years ago when the oldest was in high school, he'd come home all wigged out cuz his friends said I was hot. Then I gained, like, 60 pounds, and was no longer a milf, LOL. I consider it a goal, LOL...And no, I don't count it if my husband calls me that. He thought I was hot when I was round. *face palm* :laugh:
  • sam308lbs
    sam308lbs Posts: 1,936 Member
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    This.

    this. whats wrong with "Hey you look hot!" ? Next thing you know
    you've a great rack becomes Boobs i'd like to motorboat
    you have a great *kitten* becomes AILF
    You have a beautiful face becomes FILF
    :laugh:
  • laserturkey
    laserturkey Posts: 1,680 Member
    It's crass but it's intended as a compliment. I would be amused more than anything else if someone called me a MILF.
  • Madmadz77
    Madmadz77 Posts: 129 Member
    Crude but deffinately a compliement... Hell, we all want one of those and a couple of ladies are this thread are good examples.
  • Salt_Sand_Sun
    Salt_Sand_Sun Posts: 415 Member
    Some people are a little too sensitive and really over think things. While I can (very slightly) see how someone can be offended - I really think its the tone, mannerism and the person who says these things that can make it offensive or flattery.

    More times than not - I'd take being called a MILF as flattery. I've worked very hard to 'not' look my age and get my body back after 2 kids and I'd appreciate someone taking notice of that!!
  • WalkingMermaid_
    WalkingMermaid_ Posts: 205 Member
    I have a 13 year old son and fair few of his friends tell him I'm a 'MILF' which I find a little disturbing! :noway:
  • Shananigans_
    Shananigans_ Posts: 785 Member
    <~~~ proud MILF
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    ts flattering. Its not as if by calling you that they really expect to jump your bones.

    They were probably hoping for it though. As a guy I think its a compliment and an insult at once tbh, depending on who or how its said it can be more of one or the other.

    I don't think they think they are going to bed every single woman they call hot. They might fantasize, but I don't think they expect it. Or, maybe I'm just not easily offended...

    Like I said I don't think they expect it, but they might hope for it. If a 25 year old guy says something like that to a woman he isn't going to say 'oh sorry ma'am that was a platonic compliment' if she turned around and asked if he wanted to bang.

    I'm going to test this theory over the weekend.... I kid! :laugh:
  • LibertyBelle89
    LibertyBelle89 Posts: 275
    i would be flattered..... when im a mom, i hope i get called a MILF lol!!!!
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    I take it as a compliment. After all, I really would only say that about someone I find attractive. Of course, I don't read much into things and don't find much offensive.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    You rang?...... I take it as a total compliment but then again it takes quite a bit to offend me...... Personally anyone telling me I'm hot is good lol.........
  • Sekxy49
    Sekxy49 Posts: 104 Member
    MILF...GILF
    All the same to me!! Take it as a compliment & move on. Enjoy it for the moment!!

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